Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

so my parents have been divoreced for a long time, now im 12, they are both remarried. at my dads house im the only kid. and over there its not that enjoyable for me, not much to do i cant play on the computed or watch TV and i cant read to much or else i wont be 'spending time' with them, which is very lame. and i dont really have anything over there to do. so i feel kinda helpless but anyways my stepmom doesnt like me much and i feel she doesnt trust me bc she looks up every book i bring over there and tells me i cant read it of which i no my dad would nv to in a million yrs so thats another reason i cant bring any books over there, and she is constantly getting mad at me, and she has a bad temper 24/7, she yelled at my 3 yr old cousin bc he wouldnt eat his piece of pizza she let him have and once at a soccer game bc i wanted to go to my moms house to change real quick and she yelled in front of everyone. ...continued......

2007-12-30 13:16:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-30 13:14:34 · 25 answers · asked by Bebe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 13:13:59 · 17 answers · asked by Cruisin'=^_^=Cat 5 in Singles & Dating

do u pretend to care bout a girl to get in her pants? are all guys like dat? just be honest.

PS. it got deleted for sum reason. so this time i hope it wont.. but anyways i seem to attract all the jerks and players.

2007-12-30 13:13:51 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I have this friend we have been friends for like 8 years and its so weird see I luv staying all night at her house but I dont know why cause every time I go over there we have nothing to do any suggestions on what I could do when I go over to her house for fun? (im 13 if that helps)

2007-12-30 13:13:43 · 4 answers · asked by Em 2 in Friends

Resently a guy asked me out I said yes. My friend also likes him and just addmitted to me that she can't trust me anymore. What can I do to earn my best friends trust again.

2007-12-30 13:12:37 · 20 answers · asked by Emilie R 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the definition? What is your limit? Just curious. If have problem about girl/boy being too clingy u just got to tell them when your avail and when your not, sound good? Or if online when your here and when your not?But if not than don't worry if your love's still online maybe they like to hang out there regardless if u talk to them or not. i don't think its clingy. i think its a choice or a hobby.

2007-12-30 13:11:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 13:11:06 · 10 answers · asked by ♡ LOVE. 6 in Family

2007-12-30 13:10:29 · 58 answers · asked by garudaku 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend did not have postage stamps to mail something to me. So I mailed HER a few postage stamps to do so.
I am STILL waiting for the CD, she promised! LOL!~

2007-12-30 13:03:13 · 5 answers · asked by ♣Social Butterflygirl 4 in Friends

Why or why not

2007-12-30 13:01:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well my family isnt too fond of the idea that i like white guys(im black), and i told my mom about the guy i liked and asked what she thought. and she said that id be better off with someone who "looks like me". and that really shocked me. i mean, i cant help who i like. she thinks that he may just like me because he wants to see what'd be like if he dated a "black" girl.

im really confused, should i persue my feelings with him? and let my mom deal with it. or...what?

2007-12-30 12:58:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know what the actually CEREMONY is like at a Mormon wedding? I hear its like a big secret and stuff...

2007-12-30 12:58:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I hate it and want to ditch it but my grandmother says its "tradition". What are other people planning to do?

2007-12-30 12:57:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My brother's wedding is this Summer. He and the bride will wear white. Their bridesmaids will wear champagne color dresses. What color should I wear that will go well with the champagne dresses in pictures? I dont know what color her flowers are going to be.

2007-12-30 12:56:54 · 12 answers · asked by Cassie 5 in Weddings

This isn't really a question. I just wanted to say I just got engaged today :) If anyone wants to put down some things about their moment when they proposed or was proposed to I would love you to put it down.. thanks

2007-12-30 12:55:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, So there was this guy I like a whole lot, who also liked me back. We sat next to each other in a class and would talk to eachother non stop the whole period. Never on the phone though, always in person. Summer came and I didnt get to see him much. He did come to my brothers graduation party (he is my age but really good friends with my older brother, this is how we met) We hung out with eachother the whole night and got all caught up. School started back up and everything still seemed fine. I was hoping he would ask me out or something, but instead he began to hate me. I didnt do anything that could of made him mad. It was real sudden, he was cool with me one day and the very next day he ignored me and acted like I was always making him mad. We werent talking, I'd say hi to him in the hall or smile and he would either just look at me, or kinda mumble something. The last time we talked was about three months ago, I was standing by him asking a question to one of our friends, he turned and told me to go anywhere but there, and he didnt want me there with him. I was kinda shocked so I just walked away and never asked him what made him so mad at me. I cant get over him. I think about him constantly. I was thinking if maybe I should look up his number and call him. Im afraid to though because it has been so long, and the last time we talked he told me pretty much he didnt want to talk to me. What should I do? Should I call him and just ask how he is. I also havnt seen him in like two months b/c he switched out of my school, but we werent talking then, he didnt even tell me he was leaving. Please help.

2007-12-30 12:54:11 · 4 answers · asked by AMAN DUHH 3 in Singles & Dating

Granted, I act aloof, but I'm not mean...and guys always stare, but the right ones never approach...WHAT GIVES??

2007-12-30 12:52:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 12:52:00 · 6 answers · asked by smr_684 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious. Throughout my life my grandparents were always there for me. Unfortunately, both of my grandfather's are dead. So I spend time with my grandmothers. In fact, I went on several vacations recently with my maternal grandmother. On my 26th birthday I'm planning to take my her with me to Venice,Italy.

2007-12-30 12:50:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So I'm getting married in like 40 days and going nuts about losing weight and clear skin and everything. So my fiance is in his room while I'm working out in the other room and his phone starts to ring. It ends up being a former girlfriend who was his best friend before and after they dated (which to him excuses the fact that he talks to her and their still really good friends).
Anyways... I'm already pissy and emotion because I cant stand the way I look right now and I'm freaking out about wanting to be skinny. SO... This girl that calls him... is ditzy beyond belief, and just soooo out there!!! She has never cared that I exist when I see her and it REALLY pisses me off!!!! When I asked him who it was that was calling he said Anna. His sister in laws name is also Anna so then I said Anna who and he told me..... it was his ex.... HE LOOKED SO HAPPY. And he sounds soo happy when he talks to her. I'm prob just being irrational and dumb but I cannot take this.. its soo annoying!! Advice?

2007-12-30 12:44:42 · 7 answers · asked by Blessed to be a Mama! 3 in Singles & Dating

i cant stop feeling that he likes other girls that are my mates. i also have fallin out with one of them as she used to date him and i felt conflict between us! i know i am too good for him. this is a first love and im scared to let him go as i dont know what will happen it frightens me. should i be scared of him?
everytime im close to an end he always seems to find a way to make me come round.

2007-12-30 12:43:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if your a guy, whats the biggest turn on for you ?


Sn0w BuNnY©

2007-12-30 12:42:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother said my ex had papers served 22 days ago to my old address and that in the divorce it states that I give up my rights to my son and allow her new man to adopt. I have been fighting her all that I can with living in another state. She won't allow me to see or talk to my son. Changes her # everytime I get it. The divorce paper said I had 21 days to react. Am I too late? Can she really put this in the paper?

2007-12-30 12:41:06 · 5 answers · asked by akers090905 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I want to have sex, we talked about birth control (which kind we'd use and all). I would feel better if we used both the pill and a condom, which the condom would be easy for me to get (obviously). Yet she thought the pill was "over the counter" I guess. So when she found out it wasn't, and that you must see a doctor for it - she told me "I have to go to a doctor to get it, and I'm not going - because I don't want him to tell my dad."...I responded "Well, it is illegal for him to tell anyone that you say not to tell." and she said "I just don't want to take the risk, ya know?"....So any advice? Like I said - I'd feel more comfy if she took the pill along with me using a condom ...So I'm ust wondering what you think about the situation. (and we are old enough to have sex legally by the way).

2007-12-30 12:39:38 · 13 answers · asked by Confessions 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 12:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay im in middle school and i have my first boyfriend ever. Im his first girlfriend too. We are both very awkward lol. Like on the phone we have awkward scilences alot, and when he comes over were just like yeah.......so....
But i really like him, and i can tell he likes me alot too but i need to stop being awkward because i want to be the kind of girlfriend thats easy to be around or talk to. He does and says alot of sweet stuff and all i can do is smile and look down really.

PS: our relationship is really innocent, were not going to do anything too over the top. i havent kissed him yet..but new years is tmr..maybee


i know my question isnt too clear, but...advice would be really apriciated! Im spending new years eve with him and a couple other friends :DDD what do i do then?

2007-12-30 12:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

10. Come on, who's gonna find out?

9. I promise you wont choke.

8. Can I get you in the pooper?

7. Trust me, I'm a professional.

6. Well, your sister likes it like that.

5. Wow look at the *** on her!

4. Now why cant your boobs be that big?

3. I gotta poop.

2. Oh you forgot to shave today too?

1. I think the condom broke 10 minutes ago.



I agree, what about you?

2007-12-30 12:34:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to someone who doesn't speak your language can you be friends without communications even if you like the person as your friend if so how.

2007-12-30 12:32:29 · 13 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Friends

Making a pass at someone else and they not realize you were even there or noticed

2007-12-30 12:29:32 · 27 answers · asked by gifted!!!! 2 in Marriage & Divorce