Making a pass at someone else and they not realize you were even there or noticed
2007-12-30 12:29:32 · 27 answers · asked by gifted!!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmm, if I noticed my spouse making a pass at someone, I would talk to him about it. I would see why he did it and try to work on it. If he did that, there is something wrong with him and my relationship with their spouse. The number one thing for marriages is that there needs to be open communication, because if you did notice this and then you said nothing about it, alot of bad could come out of that, i.e. build up anger, resentment. I would talk to her/him about it and let him/her know how much this hurt you. Hope this helps!
2007-12-30 12:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Louise 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage should not just be throwed away. You need to confront your spouse and let him know how you feel. See if he is willing to work this problem. If it continues, you are definitely headed for infidelity on his behalf. Hope this will help you some.
2007-12-30 20:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by sue 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You'd need to call him on it definitely. Preferably at the time, but if that's not possible then... whenever you can. Sooner rather than later.
He may well have done it before and just not been caught.
2007-12-30 20:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately talk to him about what you saw and how it makes you feel. If he blows you off and doesn't care I would then seek marriage counceling..and if from there that doesn't work I would leave. Since he didn't actually physically do anything you should work at it. But when he does make a physical move or something then I would just up and leave.
2007-12-30 20:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let the time pass too and find the right time to ask him later and tease him if he enjoyed his time with someone.
I will not confront him but to respect him. I'll be nore sweeter to him to show him how I loved him most..
2007-12-30 22:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greetings!
What's good for the gander is good for the goose!
Make a pass yourself, IN FRONT OF THEM. Let them have a similar experience and then have a conversation about their flirtation. Talk about how you felt and have a real discussion about it. You may want to consider some counseling.
I wish you Peace.
2007-12-30 20:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by elon715 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Believe me, if I caught my spouse, they would hear me loud and clear. I would have said something when it happened.
2007-12-30 21:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smack him on the back of his head and proceed to hit on the guy sitting next to him.
But then I'd probably feel sorry for the guy I'd be hitting on... lol I'm such a b*tch sometimes..lol
2007-12-30 20:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Xihuateteo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No doubt tell him you saw everything. If he shrugs it off give him a dose of his on medicine and let him see you being a little flirty and when he calls you on it give him the same answer he gave to you!!!
2007-12-30 20:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Karen K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think they would be sleeping on the couch and had a lot of explaining to do.
2007-12-30 21:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by SWEETYPI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋