Please Help?

Question

Okay, So there was this guy I like a whole lot, who also liked me back. We sat next to each other in a class and would talk to eachother non stop the whole period. Never on the phone though, always in person. Summer came and I didnt get to see him much. He did come to my brothers graduation party (he is my age but really good friends with my older brother, this is how we met) We hung out with eachother the whole night and got all caught up. School started back up and everything still seemed fine. I was hoping he would ask me out or something, but instead he began to hate me. I didnt do anything that could of made him mad. It was real sudden, he was cool with me one day and the very next day he ignored me and acted like I was always making him mad. We werent talking, I'd say hi to him in the hall or smile and he would either just look at me, or kinda mumble something. The last time we talked was about three months ago, I was standing by him asking a question to one of our friends, he turned and told me to go anywhere but there, and he didnt want me there with him. I was kinda shocked so I just walked away and never asked him what made him so mad at me. I cant get over him. I think about him constantly. I was thinking if maybe I should look up his number and call him. Im afraid to though because it has been so long, and the last time we talked he told me pretty much he didnt want to talk to me. What should I do? Should I call him and just ask how he is. I also havnt seen him in like two months b/c he switched out of my school, but we werent talking then, he didnt even tell me he was leaving. Please help.

Answer 1

Whatever you do DO NOT call him!! He owes you an explaination but he has to come to you. He doesn't deserve you taking the time to help him figure this crap out. He did this, let him be responsible to fix it. Don't make his problem yours.

This dude is soooo not worth your time. Screw him. If he wants to act like that I wouldn't give a crap what the reason was by now. Stop wasting your time thinking about him or the situation. He's the jerk wad not you. You owe him nothing.

I'm going to guess, and this is just a guess, but I'm sure accurate in a way also. I'll bet he listened to some gossip and believed it, never even bothering to ask you or anyone about it.

DO NOT NOT NOT!! Now get caught up in what might have been said to him, remember this is only a guess. But what else could it be really?? Seriously this guy isn't worth spit and don't even think differently. If this jackassssss comes crawling back to apologize I wouldn't accept it at all. Just say thank you and then go ask him to stand anywhere but there.

I know it's hard to let it all go but you HAVE TO for your own sanity. You know you didn't do anything wrong, right??? If your conscious is clear then f*ck him! You need to learn now that people don't always have explanations for their behavior and you just have to get used to that fact and let it go anyway.

Don't call him, email him, write him, DO NOT contact him in any way shape or form. Like I said before, I cannot stress enough the fact that if he doesn't just one day out of the blue contact you like nothing happened just ignore him. If he's going to communicate with you after all this it better come with an explanation.

One more thing. Since he's friends with your brother don't talk about this or bad mouth him to your brother or ask your brother what his deal is. Don't drag him in on it. About the only person in your family I would talk to, but only if you really really trust them not to say anything is your mom or dad. But even that's iffy. They might try to "help" once you say something. They can't help it.

So try you’re hardest to get really angry at this guy so you don't even have to wonder what happened. Get mad, get really really mad!!!!

You have to let this go, you have to.

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Answer 2

i am sorry to disapoint you but that sound like a sure sign of not interested. he most defentinally got a vibe of infatuation and had to be harsh with you. love is decieving when it has not been experience to often. i know you think you deserve a guy like this and you most defentally do. yet it take a while to see the real person and when you give to much to quick it scares people away. ask your self have you even had someone obsess over you even your mother it makes you want to run. i say there are hundreds and thousands of men worthy of your attention. dont waist your time it just tears away at your self esteem, then you become desperate and a down ward spiral leading to numerous amounts of unhealthy relationships. be good to your self and see if you would watch one of your loved ones. and was standing back and evaluating this situation , you will come to what conclusion.? also this guy is pooing on your head be glad he has shown you this side of him. an example, of on going disrespect. hes a jerk and doesnt know a good girl when he sees her. try loving your soul more often and see how the men will be falling at your feet.

you must remember what the word says the woman must submit when he treats her like jesus. loving a woman comes from the woman already knowing how shes to be treated if you listen to the word of youknow who? we already have our foot in the door when we were born woman no different than eve. the woman has alot of power and the man is the one that bring a womans beauty out so she can live in her gorgous being, even if you think you are or are not and really are so so beautiful , thats modist you deserves better than the so called baeties. remember where your lacking will be replaced by something even more splended. live by all your gifts leaving none even if the world in their blind do not agree with yours. we will be loves for what you dont want to see. so you might as well lay it out. within the undesirable ther is great beauty. finding the love for beauty unseen is the faith, and pationence, while your soul mate finds you. build your woman into a mother of the inocient and love what is not loved in your perfect being. we are yin yan we need just as many things bad thing about our selves as good. so the ones still in the closet you might as well deal with it now before marrage and then devorse.

Answer 3

Well, it sounds like either he thinks you did something that pissed him off, or that he knew he was moving and flipped on you to avoid getting closer and getting hurt more. On the other hand he could just be an ***. The only way to know for sure is to call him and ask him. If you did, or he thinks you did, something that upset him then you can talk about and hopefully resolve the issue. If it's anything else, at least you'll know. Things probably won't ever go back to the way they were, but at least you'll know what's up and what happened.

Answer 4

wow.. thats harsh. I can understand where your coming from in a way because that's kindof the same thing that happened to me with my boyfriend. We were fine for 3 months and then one day he just randomly started ignoring me, so we broke it off. but anyways this is about you not me (: um... Yes deffinately call him ! you said it yourself your not over him and i know it hurts to think about someone non-stop and to not have answers. soo yea you guys weren't "dating" officially but i think we can all tell you had something there. you deserve to have answers. no guy should be able to just have it his way and break things off, especially start hating you and being soo rude... i mean whats up wiht that? Basically, what people always tell me and Im sure you have heard it time and time again, NOBODY understands boys/men/males. they do random things, seriously for NO reason at all.You can even ask an older, more mature man, and chances are HE will even tell you he doesn't understand men and you shouldn't try to. but i can't blame you for wondering... i would too. I hope you works things out and get up the courgae to call this guy and just be like heyy how are you, so lets talk about what happened between us. Don't hang up without and answer. :) let me know what he says, if you don't mind sharing.