Why or why not
2007-12-30 13:01:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no because the guilt u would feel would tell on u, your conscience would bother u, eventually if the person u cheated with became more than a one night stand, as they always do, your marriage would be over with. it wouldn't be as much fun as u think it is especially when u looked into your spouses eyes, u would feel terrible.
2007-12-30 13:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a woman loves her husband, she will never cheat. Cheating and love do not go together. Why would you want to if you were happy and in love.
Anybody who does cheat, definitely does not love the other person. Not only that, it is asking for very serious trouble.
There is no such thing as "wouldn't get caught?". It is just a matter of time. The person cheating can never lie enough to not cause suspicion. Tiny little things will make a difference.
The point of this whole question is that if you love your husband or wife, you would not even consider cheating.
If you do not love your spouse, get a divorce and carry on whenever you want.
2007-12-30 21:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I would not for very simple reasons. I'm in love with the man I committed to. As a real woman, I think a lot of my integrity. Getting caught or not, cheating is not a true adult action. The days of the hiding things and the sneaking around and the lying should've been over when you moved out of your parents house. If you want to be promiscuous leave the decent people alone (for good) and go fool around with people who may share more common grounds with you. The decent people deserve better, right?
2007-12-30 22:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Meka D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Because I love him, I made a promise to him and if the roles were reversed, I would hope he wouldn't do it either. I have integrity and respect for myself, my husband, and my marriage. Doing something just because you wouldn't get caught is no reason to do it.
Edited:
To Stormy: YOU might cheat for excitement, but don't assume that just because you would that everyone would. There actually are people in this world that wouldn't. Don't lump everyone into the same pool. I am not fooling myself. If I wanted to cheat on my husband, I could, and know with almost 100% certainty I wouldn't get caught, but I don't, because I love him with everything in me, I love the life we have built together, I can't imagine even being with another person. The thought makes my skin crawl.
2007-12-30 21:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can honestly say no just to look in his eyes everyday and knowing what i have done and he working hard ever day being a good husband and father to our kids and very trust worthy and honest no i won't even try to go down that road beside if i was that unhappy i would leave before i cheat and i have told him that , if i ever got to a point in our marriage where i felt the need to do that to him i would leave rather then putting him and our kids Thur that
2007-12-30 21:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by jessi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not, and there is never a sure fire way to know that you're not going to get caught, but why would you even risk it in the first place. I personally love my husband more than life itself and if I didn't I wouldn't have married him, so anyone who is able to marry someone should be able to say that they wouldnt' ever cheat on them, besides it's wrong would you want themt o do that to you?
2007-12-30 21:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by k_maunz 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No way, I love my wife more then anything. She is my true love, the only one I have eyes for. She is the most beautiful, sweet women I've ever met and she completes me. She's my angel and I wanna be hers forever. She's got my heart till the day I die... and even after that.
I know she would say no to this question as well. I don't need anyone else. She makes me so happy, I'm so thankful for her. I can't wait till she gets home from the store, this women drives me crazy!
2007-12-30 21:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kellyn 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I really envy all the women who answered no and can honestly say they never cheated. I wish I hadn't because I DID get caught and my name is totally mud now with his family, even though he is trying to forgive me for it.
It WAS fun, but definitely is not worth it...
2007-12-30 21:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO, not even if offered 100 million dollars tax free and GOD came down from the heavens and personally ok'ed it.
y...thats obvious...cheating is a total and complete lack of respect 4 ur spouse and ur relationship together.
2007-12-30 21:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No; because first of all I love her and second of
all the man upstairs watches everything every
minute so I would not get away with it even if
no-one else on this earth knew.
2007-12-30 22:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by RudiA 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋