Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

2007-12-30 21:24:22 · 19 answers · asked by Vengance 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think you should wait until you're married for sex or engage in it soonest since abstaining until 21 is already a great achievement?

2007-12-30 21:20:33 · 17 answers · asked by Antas17 3 in Singles & Dating

2 nights ago me and my friend were talking on yahoo! messenger and she had told that she was ill and suddenly she'd stop sending messages back and me not being able to see the other end, where she'd gone to throw up and at first I thought the same thing(if only i kept thinking that) but eventually she signed out about 10minutes later as she was unable to finish the conversation(I found this out yesterday) so I assumed she was ignoring me and had fallen out with because of where the conversation had finished(I can easily get confused, once I'd sent one of my other mates who's a girl in an email my phone number and I thought they'd fall out with me because of it, actually I easily get worried) so I wento look through my mates contacts and she had actually told me she'd deleted me three weeks back cos she likes to check my questions herself but I'd forgot about this so when I found I wasn't in her contacts I started sending her aload of angry emails, which actually turn out to be for no reason now seen as she hadn't fallen out with me in the first place and now I have sent these emails, well I haven't done my self any favours her friends told me.
What can I do, I feel really guilty for doing this to her(bare in mind the first thing I did this morning was email her aload of apologies and I think I'll do some more after this) and I angry at my self for being such an idiot and I wasn't really being that good a friend just assuming she fell out with me and what has probably made it even worse is me posting a question saying she turning my friends against me which I've also found out was untrue and just me assuming. What can I do I've been a terrible friend by doing this and I really want to make it up to her?
By the way we live in different countries so gifts are out of the question but I would send them if I could.

2007-12-30 21:01:45 · 12 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Friends

No names, now...

2007-12-30 20:58:29 · 22 answers · asked by gone 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why?

2007-12-30 20:55:25 · 3 answers · asked by gone 6 in Singles & Dating

Well there is no special reason for why people hate me. I am a very kind person. I know it's highschool but it makes sense when you hate someone when they have done something to you or they are annoying. I am nothing like that. I don't get why people hate me whilst i am so kind and nice to them. I never brag about that i am all that great. They just hate me. I asked someone why her friend hates me and she replied "Oh cos she thinks u smell" lol because this is defin. not the case. They are making excuses to hate me. Then someone else made up an excuse that i am "wierd"... I told one of my far-away friend and she told me to dress up to school n they will get pissed. Okay, the girls who hate are the ones who dress up to school, straighten their hair and you know ... I don't do that.. I am just normally dressed but i don't look wierd. There is nothing wrong with my face and the other problem is that, people from my culture thinks that i am pretty but at school they call me ugly... Why?

2007-12-30 20:52:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am from Pakistan pls forgive my english. I meet this beautiful girl in my religious class that i attends since 3 weeks ago. I got her number from another person in the classes and then i call her. it is her house number. then when she pick up the phone. she is amanda. i say hi amanda do u know me? she say no. i say i am samuel from her religious classes and i ask if we can be more than just frens. then she say that she don even know me and say is it i am the new guy in class. i say yes and then i ask her again if we can be more than just frens. she keep saying cannot then she threat to call her father to phone. What can i do? Oh, i am 13 yrs old and i have 4.5 inch penis can i penetrate her virginity membrane? I hear people say is 2-3 fingers deep then how can my small penis take away the beautiful virginity?

2007-12-30 20:47:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 20:46:39 · 15 answers · asked by gone 6 in Singles & Dating

my dad is a recovering alcoholic, he has been for 8 years. i have noticed that he has been drinking an abnormal amount of Nyquil. he has been hiding it. and drank a bottle that i kept in my room. he drank the whole bottle and i just bought it last week. i confronted him about it today and he got very confrontational. i dont know what to do. i talked with my mom, it seems like she is aware of what he is doing. im just afraid that this will lead back to the life he had 8 years ago. that is a scary and abusive past that i dont want to have to go threw ever again. please give me any advice you can!

2007-12-30 20:46:18 · 16 answers · asked by miamichick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 20:41:29 · 17 answers · asked by gone 6 in Singles & Dating

I have a sweet looking face and a flat chest. People always tell me I look prim and proper, and like the girl-next-door. I can't show cleavage, so what else can I do to appear more sexy?

2007-12-30 20:39:01 · 9 answers · asked by Mayday 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been almost a year since my first bf broke up with me. we went out for a year and a half. I still think about him all the time and I don't get it. Help

2007-12-30 20:37:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is my partner tight like a snappers a**hole, or what? We do it on average once or twice a week.

we have two little boys 1 and 2 years. does any other guy have the same situation or does thier missus still put out?

2007-12-30 20:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by hello! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had my heart broken, but never my soul...and now that I'm going through this, taking away all the drama, it is painful and deep...any advise?

2007-12-30 20:31:40 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you been married more than 3 times?
Would you marry again?

2007-12-30 20:30:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 20:26:39 · 14 answers · asked by bab_632 1 in Weddings

my parents are getting a divorce. What should I do? Is it my fault?

2007-12-30 20:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by jessie g 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband doesnt have any male friends, I have some girl friends but wont invite them over as i think 3 a crowd and plus its boring at our place. I am pregnant too so cant drink. Why doesnt my husband invite male friends around but expects me to invite my girlfriends around and gets angry and says I dont trust him?

2007-12-30 20:24:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy im absolutely in LOVE with but he is 5!!! years older than me......should i give up all hope.....but i haven't felt this good about a guy in a long time he makes me feel so special...is age just a number??

2007-12-30 20:24:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I loved her kind heart,her words,her huggs,her kisses.
I can remember before she died few days.
we almost knew she was dying,she was weak and refused to eat.
I went to her just few days before her death and brought some buiscits and made her eat from my hands.and she ate after they were trying to make her eat.
while she was laying on the bed,I was looking at her face and she was looking at me but I didn't know if she was really conscious or just looking like that.
and suddenly she smilled peacfully at me.I don't know why but I just copied this smile in my head and said that this will be the last time I see her face.and she died few days after.
till now I can never forget this image at all.
once I remember her,all I remember is this smilling face of an angel.
anytime I remember the scene I cry.
just wanted to talk and express some of my feelings.
anyone had similar story to tell???

2007-12-30 20:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by Pinka 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ring my bell........Ring my bell

2007-12-30 20:18:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just started dating this guy a little over a month ago. we get along SOO well!! were constantly together, an when were not, were on the phone. BUT i keep hearing bad things about him, like..hes cheated on every girl hes ever dated an blah blah blah. he just seems so great tho, is it possible 2 change him an make him not cheat on me if its true?? if so, what can i do 2 make sure it doesnt happen cuz im REALLY into him

2007-12-30 20:10:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes months go by, but he always comes b'ack to me eventually.
i've messed up before this , and he forgave me those times.
he said he loves me and im his souI mate.
he's economically stuck with her.
he's obsessed/stalked me in the past.
will he eventually be mine so i dont have 2 share >???

2007-12-30 20:10:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My spouse and i had a very nasty fight which involved his children. I admit I have not been accomodating when he wants to see his children and the reason is because he's never treated my children who lives with us nicely or love them as his yet expects me to love his children. The argument got out of hand where he called his children and told them that I'm the cause for not letting them come visit. Worse than that he called his ex wife, bad mouth me criticized me and told her awful stuff right in front of me. One of the crasiest lies he told her is that if I didn't have a child with him I will divorce him. Is this normal behavior and valid reason to leave him? Can this be fixed? I'm so humiliated, betrayed and angry. He told her that I accuse him of still being in love with her. Can someone still professes to love you and do something as dehumanizing as this? He does professes to love me but is capable of doing this. I need your opinion and help. Thanks!

2007-12-30 20:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by MMC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I tell a girl that I've got the hots for her.

2007-12-30 20:00:33 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2 yrs ago I was working at a market place. I was 17 and my manager was 28. He has been married for 8 yrs. At the time that I started to work there he was having problems with his wife and was currently living on his own. About 6 months in to working there he made a move while taking me home. Ever since then we have been seeing each other. After being together for four months things got complicated, his wife didn't want a divorce and she would treated him with not being able to see his son. So he ended up moving back in with his family. A couple of months after that I had a boyfriend and things seemed fine. I dated this guy for 2 months and he crushed my heart. I hung out with my manager on night because I just needed someone to talk to that cared about me... and we ended up hooking up again. Ever since then we have been seeing each other for about two years. He is still with his wife. But tells me he loves me. I have fallin deeply for him. I don't know what to do...

2007-12-30 19:59:17 · 15 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 19:44:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know women want independence and all, but despite all the feminism, if you can have independence, deep in your heart is there a large part that wants a man to take care of you.

2007-12-30 19:44:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls or Guys:
How would you subtly show/tell someone you like them? i need some help [im obviously a girl]

2007-12-30 19:43:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 9 yrs with 3 kids. Last Nov15 my wife said something was wrong; Our marriage was in crisses! She wanted time apart so I left the house to a campground in Dec..By Dec.5 she said "I dont Love you no more" We went to 2 counciling sessions then she said " I want a DIVORCE" I tried everything to save my marriage but couldnt.I was so lonely and grieving for my wife it was like a nitemare.By Dec.24 I gave up I met a woman n I had an affair.I was lonely & hurting grieved for my wife! April comes & my wife is pregnet!She said she didnt Love this guy it just sex! I told her lets get back together & I'll do whatever it takes! 7mos I put her thur HELL cause I felt she wasnt being honest.I found out 5mos ago she had been talkin & texin this guy constantly since last Sept even more durin our time of crisses She says that she didnt cheat until I cheated. I'm findin that hard to believe. I LOVE my wife I do want to save my marriage I just want her to be truthful. any advice!

2007-12-30 19:42:57 · 15 answers · asked by sean 1 in Marriage & Divorce