Is my partner tight like a snappers a**hole, or what? We do it on average once or twice a week.
we have two little boys 1 and 2 years. does any other guy have the same situation or does thier missus still put out?
2007-12-30 20:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by hello! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
about 3-4x week.
I feel that even if you are not feeling super in the mood to start with, you should not turn your husband or wife away, usually you'll end up enjoying it a lot anyway! And your spouse won't feel he or she needs to get it somewhere else. But maybe it's easy for me to say cos I like it.
If her enjoyment of sex is an issue you need to discuss it seriously and be willing to work at it together & try to make it fun and creative & romantic, And make sure you are showing your love in other non sexual ways throughout the day.
If you used to make love more often than you do now it may get a little better as the kids get older. It is very exhausting having 1 and 2 yr old boys. We also have 2 little boys 3 & 5 yrs so I know what it is like. Our sex life has gotten a bit better now that we're getting more sleep!
Please don't just go cheat, that could be very hurtful, and break up your family. Talk to your wife. be understanding but ask her to please be understanding too, maybe make an agreement for 3x wk now. An "agreement" doesn't sound romantic but now you have kids you may sort of have to plan these things.
2007-12-30 21:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ariane deR 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem and its frusrating, she's a latin lady with a big beautiful booty. she says that she feels guilty about doig it when our little boy may get up and catch,she also says she'll even watch porn t try to get her moter started and it works but still not oftent enough.
2007-12-31 10:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by culopormi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's tired!!! Once or twice a week sounds about right at this stage with such young ones. Maybe you can lighten her night-time load by helping put the boys to bed. Give her a nice massage. It DOES get better once the kids get older.
2007-12-31 07:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by kk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....thats pretty rough. We do it once at night before falling asleep & again in the morning when we wake up for a bare minimum.
2007-12-31 05:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sublime Livin' 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry the girl, just get it else where, just keep it secret as not to hurt her feelings
2007-12-31 04:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by carlg340 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Dear Friend:
Making love is not a Duty that you have to do.
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Making Love is all about feelings it is not about how often that you would do it. it is about how often you feel ur in love and you want to be a hole person.
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General advice:
once or twise a week is healthy just remember you and ur partner made a bond so do not hide any feelings from her and try to talk to her about it.
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Good Luck
little john
2007-12-31 04:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by LittlE JohN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a month
2007-12-31 04:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by TAste Lke Suga Smells Like Water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im only 19. Sooo but yeah I've had sex about 5 times in 4 years. 4 times with the same girl. But we broke up. I've done it only once with this girl ive met recently, I wanna marry her too.
2007-12-31 04:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Numenor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋