It's been almost a year since my first bf broke up with me. we went out for a year and a half. I still think about him all the time and I don't get it. Help
2007-12-30 20:37:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal to think about him.
2007-12-30 20:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to think about him once in awhile. Maybe you just haven't found somebody else. Start moving on. Date other guys, hang out with friends, get yourself busy, improve yourself-be extra beautiful, start losing extra pounds if needed. Start a new hobby. You'll forget him soon but it has to start from you.
2007-12-31 04:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend:
in life there is nothing wrong unless you think as if it is wrong!
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i think he is wrong that he left you like this
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it is really crule of him to leave after a year
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Quote:
***There is only one corner of univers, you can be certain of improving, and that is urself!***
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Be Strong
little john
2007-12-31 04:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by LittlE JohN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not easy to forget some1 that u love but it heals eventually. The thing is r u trying 2 4get him or you want to think of him. U must try and avoid his thoughts by doing something or thinking of something else, when u do that it will be easy not to think of him.
To me it sounds like you are still holding on to him and I think you are still young. Go out there and have fun, sooner than you can imagine...you will find someone who sweeps u off yo feet and a thought of him wont even come.
2007-12-31 04:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mafez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for you to think about him ocassionally, firstly because he was your first boyfriend and you were together a long time. You will find yourslef thinking about him cause you miss and may be getting into a new relationship will help you move on and think about your ex often.
2007-12-31 04:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by M.K83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to get over someone you love. But maybe you should try and call him and become friends again. and if you two become friends again see if theres a spark you never know you might hang out withh him again only to discover he isnt what you want. Worst comes to worst and you guys cant fix it then move on i know for sure there is someone else out there for you and if you two are meant to be then you will be together in the end no matter what.
2007-12-31 04:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by dan G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously cared about him a lot and those kinds of things happen. i still think about my "first love" and that was a few years ago. its natural to think about those kinds of things. Just dont worry about it. Hang out with your friends, meet new people, have fun.
2007-12-31 04:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong? Nah, but the ideal thing to do is move on and find someone better.
2007-12-31 04:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by ran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may still have some feelings left inside of you for him.
2007-12-31 04:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by Keelan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋