alright well am thinking about loosing my virgnity to this guy who is 15 am 14 my freinds dont agree and they HATE him with a passion only bc he asks me to send pics so i do and he shows his freinds so they realy dont like him and he has fingered me already and ate me out and so thats another reson why they hate him and am realy getting tired of hearing my freinds tell me to leave him and i cant bc i care so much about him but i dont wanna loose my freinds plez help!
2007-12-30 10:41:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one question: do you love him?
cause if the answers no then please dont sleep with him.
and by pics im guessing u mean naked pics ? cause thats damn disrespectful to show them to his friends. be careful
2007-12-30 10:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your friends and ditch the guy. You are way too young for this kind of stuff. At your age you are not ready to "care about him" as anything except a casual friend and it sounds like he is anything but a "casual" person and he certainly is not your friend. Ditch him. Your friends are right. Live life and have fun because too soon you'll be older and wish you had spent more time being 14 with your friends and these precious days in your midteens won't come again! Ditch him.
2007-12-30 10:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by singlegal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NEVER worth it to give up your virginity at such an age! I think your friends care about you and don't want you to make a huge mistake. There are so many guys out there and you have so much time to find a guy who is really right for you.is this one really worth it? I doubt it. No one finds the right guy at 14. You can get married before you need to think about sex too.
2007-12-30 10:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Monica C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you try not having sex with this guy, respect yourself. how about you try listing to your friends because they probably see something you dont, and there your friends and they love you thay dont want you hurt, its not like there doing it for no reason think about it, if this was happening to one of your friends wouldnt you want to help them if they couldnt see. this guy you want to losse your virginity to doesnt sound like he loves you, you need to losse it to someone you love, or you will regret it, sex isnt just something fun people dont relize how you can be emotionally hurt afterwards, you should wait and find someone you love so its special. friends are not worth nothing, plus it almost sounds like your relationshop with this guy is a physical...is that really what makes you happy or do you really want someone whos there to tell you your beautiful and hold you and respect you AND your friends. respect yourself.
2007-12-30 10:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being a respectable young woman and not a whore and I agree with your friends.
2007-12-30 11:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by nightsx7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great, you are on the path to easy and slutty.
I hope your parents read this and beat your ***.
2007-12-30 10:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whos more important to you?
to me friends are..
2007-12-30 10:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sticking with your friends is always best
2007-12-30 10:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Thoughts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋