Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

one time when we wearnt goin out but flirting alot he was behind me in tescos and i egnored him

but he doesn't understand y i ingored him
i did it because i was with my friend who knows i like him and at that very moment i had been talking about him so i was embarest because i thought he must have heard

he meantioned it about 2weeks later and it sounded to me that it had been bothering him

help without telling him y i did what i did how do i show him that im nott ashamed of him??????????

2007-12-30 08:37:07 · 21 answers · asked by emma w 2 in Singles & Dating

How old were you ?
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2007-12-30 08:34:37 · 82 answers · asked by jenna 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 08:33:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well theres this guy I like and he saposibly likes me also but like a month ago he liked my bestfriend and he had to desire who he would want to date so he said well if me and Sarah don't hang out in the next week I'll go out with you so I waited a week because I liked him slot and he never asked me out. After that he said sorry and stuff and I forgave him after he started to ignore me and stuff becuase he moved on with anothergirl and they went out than broke up in like3days now he's talking to me and asked me out I don't knnow if he's using me

2007-12-30 08:33:07 · 37 answers · asked by Vanessa P 1 in Singles & Dating

nothing strange in that .but the strange thing was ;he was a women .and lives in notting hill .all she did was moan ;about everthing .then again ;i guess that.s her job .she asked me if i wanted too seel my soul .i was tempted ;but said no .did i do right .

2007-12-30 08:29:57 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive always wanted to see a ghost or something. and i miss my grandma so much i would want to see her more than anything.
is there an actuall way i could see or reach her? if there is then how?

2007-12-30 08:28:31 · 4 answers · asked by rachael 2 in Family

2007-12-30 08:26:24 · 40 answers · asked by ... FATIMA . 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it always begins the same way im busy with college or work and playing sports and if your wondering on that note i recently won a basket ball trophee and i play any sport i can im not really one to chase the girls it always ends up the same way im minding my own bussiness and i meet a girl who is rather forward and twists my arm into going on a date, eventually she ends up being the first to say to my face that she loves me and comments that were not spending enough time together and calling me constantly she seems to haing on my every word clings to me alot of cuddeleng and some have even postered my poetry around there room but it always ends the same exact way they say i never loved you i never liked you i could never be interested in you i dont even know if i could stand being friends with you and theres no way in hell that you could ever make me love u so theres no need to continue talking or hainging out with each other and they will never tell me what i did wrong???

2007-12-30 08:19:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I've given all I have. I feel at this point it seems to be a dance of "I need you in my life" satifaction. The thing is...I don't think I feel that way anymore.

In personal experiences.....when does enough become the end? And if you decided that....how has life treated you since?

2007-12-30 08:17:09 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Shes been my best friend for a long time. Shes way to greedy, and makes me do what she tells me, or she wont talk to me for the rest of the day. Im sick of it, and i told her many times i didnt want to be her friend, but she sends me down to guidence, so we can talk it over! ah HELPPP?

2007-12-30 08:09:30 · 6 answers · asked by Alexaa 2 in Friends

hey, I know Im overweight alot.. but I wanna know if anyone thinks Im cute... thanks and please be honest!!!

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2007-12-30 08:01:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in hi skool and the most typical thing to do is to go 2 a party in New Years. Problem is i dont have friends. I mean i hav lots of friends in skool that i talk to but i dont really belong 2 a group. i dont have friends that call me in the weekends to do something. so i no i wont be getting a call to go to a party on the 31st. it sucks b/c my mom is going to a party and i refuse to be to be with my cousin b/c they always do the usual and im tired of it. i feel like im going to miss out a lot in the "social" i tried being frends with one guy but wen we make plans he always says he is going to call me but he never does. he blows me off and i end up alone that night. this happend 3 times. should i call him. i dont want to depend on one guy who might blow me off. wat should ido. i got people's #'s but i dont want to be a pest. theres is 1 group i want to b wit and thats y i tried being friends wit that guy who blew me off. look i just want to spend New Years with people from skool. help

2007-12-30 07:56:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 07:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he just wont leave me alone..and plus when hes around his ears block the sun, which has caused me to become very pale

2007-12-30 07:55:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When a man goes to a movie or a bar with a woman (just hanging out), he is craving for an opportunity to get lucky with her - whereas the woman wants to get to know him first & then if she gets urges for him, he gets lucky.

Is that true for most men and women, or is that false?

2007-12-30 07:54:19 · 16 answers · asked by jazzman 1 in Singles & Dating

Sorry your not actually going to get to see me...i wanted to know what you thought about my avatar?

I know it's fake but it actually resembles me!

And don't say im a dumb or silly blond.
Or that im insecure because i know im hot!!!

2007-12-30 07:53:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i was in the younger years of school(eg-year 4,5,6, etc) i made a terrible mistake. i had a best friend and i began to get moody with her and i didnt know why. we fell out and now that we are in high school, she hangs out with a few more people in my class who are her best friends. the problem is i am not sure if we are best friends still, but she is one of my best friends but i dont know if i am one of hers. i 100000% regret doing what i did and if i mentioned it to her then it could remind her and it would all be embarassing and awkward. please help asap!

2007-12-30 07:48:07 · 37 answers · asked by RitaRx 4 in Friends

2007-12-30 07:47:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

check this out...i get this girls number and mention that we should hangout sometime and grab some drinks..she gives me the "oh yea totally for sure"..as she gives me a piece of paper wit her number on it i mention that ill give her a ring. now in no way shape or form am i looking for a date with this girl i was just wanting to hangout you know meet soembody new instead oh hanging with the same old friends..so of course i give her a call no answer leave a short and sweet message no call back ..alright cool no prob...call a few weeks later seein if she wants to grab that drink i promised her ya know...no call back..this here goes to show men and women can ever be JUST FRIENDS..why is it when a nice down to earth guy comes up to a girl starts friendly conversation the first thing that comes to mind is "this guy likes me"..so anyways sorry for botherin u all just wanted to see where others stand on this topic..by the way she came up to me and started talking!!

2007-12-30 07:45:46 · 1 answers · asked by 45254 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I have been crushing on my best guy friend since school came back in in september. We hang out all the time at school, but we never hang out after school, except when we walk home together (sometimes) He is so cute and he is really smart. As I said in my question, I love him, but he doesnt know, and I dont know if I will ever be able to tell him. I really want to tell him, especially since new years is tomorrow, and I want him to know how I feel the day that I go back to school. How do I tell him?? I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!

2007-12-30 07:45:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do i do to make my ex bf, wanna try and be friends? we broke up 2 months ago and we havnt stopped contacting since but he did want to be friends before but i kinda upset him and now he doesnt, what do i do? I know he's an ex but we where good friends before, i know he wants to be friends he just angry, what do i do? leave him until he contacts me?

2007-12-30 07:40:16 · 25 answers · asked by Adelaidexx 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 07:37:42 · 70 answers · asked by Darlingthatsfabulous 1 in Singles & Dating

If the way to a man's heart is through his stomach? What's the way to a woman's?

2007-12-30 07:37:19 · 8 answers · asked by kharilli 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been living with my boyfriend for about four months now and I do everything for him! I use to think he appreciated it but now im not sure because he uses the ******** tone when asking somehting of me! I dont know how to tell him to stop asking me to do stuff with out starting a fight with him? When I tell him Im not going to do something he makes me feel guilty and says fine I will never ask you to do anything again than he doesnt really talk to me for a couple of hours what do i do? I know he loves me and he really doesnt see what he is doing how do I get this to stop with out destroying what we have?

2007-12-30 07:34:18 · 28 answers · asked by Bobbie M 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6yrs now & we have a 20mo old daughter together. Well he will never watch her for me. Like if I want to take a shower & ask him to watch her he always says "wait until she's asleep!" Plus I just started this new fitness plan for my new years resolution & it requires me to run on the treadmill everyday (shape's meltdown). Well I asked him to watch her & he said "Wait until she's asleep" but I did & the tread mill woke her up & she was all the way at the other end of the house... He never changes her diapers for me, He never gives her a bath... I have to do everything & never get to do anything I want to do. I asked him "What if I started refusing to change her diaper or even watch her?" (which I would NEVER do btw) he said "well I guess you'd be a bad mom then" Plust he's only nice to me when he wants "some" but when he don't he's hateful to me all day. I don't know what to do. I love him but I'm really not happy at all...

2007-12-30 07:32:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-12-30 07:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will I be able to stay in quarters until the divorce is final, and will I be able to recieve alimony I have had like 2 jobs in 9 years. and have not worked in the last like 7 years except like for maybe 6 months. I do not want a divorce and we are going through counseling. I do not think he is real serious about the counseling and just does not want any of the responsibility. I am not worried about custody, I do not know how I will support myself or my 3 choldren.

2007-12-30 07:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 6 months asked me today how many guys I've been with. I'va always told him two, because that's what I consider. But there was a couple of drunken, black outs, that I think I might have have sex. I told him about them, wanting to be honest. And now he says he doesn't think the same of me...and he's bringing up every little mistake I've ever made. What do I do?

2007-12-30 07:28:35 · 33 answers · asked by anon. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My coworker is white and of Dutch decent. He came into work today and out of nowhere stated that "black people are the ones who should be faulted for slavery; since they entrapped their own people and sold them to the whites." His comment came out of nowhere. I'm extremely offended by his comment but I'm not sure what to say.

2007-12-30 07:27:29 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend, and we've known eachother for.. ehh. 3 years, off and on, and we don't really "know" eachother that much, and we're not uber close. How can we get closer and be able to talk for hours, and how can I try to keep the conversation going without annoying him?

I admit, we don't have a lot in common, just quirky way of thinking, luff for lame jokes, and one game that we used to play together.

2007-12-30 07:25:24 · 12 answers · asked by Juju 2 in Friends