Well, I have been crushing on my best guy friend since school came back in in september. We hang out all the time at school, but we never hang out after school, except when we walk home together (sometimes) He is so cute and he is really smart. As I said in my question, I love him, but he doesnt know, and I dont know if I will ever be able to tell him. I really want to tell him, especially since new years is tomorrow, and I want him to know how I feel the day that I go back to school. How do I tell him?? I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!
2007-12-30 07:45:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him what you just told us. You never know, the feeling may be mutual. Even if not, I'm sure he'd be pleased to know that you care about him.
2007-12-30 07:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Gidget 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about yahoo answers. Then get a really nerdy guy to make a spambot to post this question with your name at the bottom every half second. If he ever goes onto yahoo answers theres a pretty good chance he will see it!
Alternatively: rohypnol
Or: Tell him
Or: Get a mate to tell him
Or: Ask him to meet up outside school, nothing special, just park or whatever, make sure you are friends outside of school, then you will be much better friends anyway, then things will be easier to say, will be easier to progress to dates etc..
2007-12-30 15:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he already knows, but is shy. Find the right moment to share your thoughts, but be ready to accept his response and respect it. It could mean you are his best friend. He may not be mature enough to realize, being a best friend is a great start for a life long relationship. It may take several years. Many people reunite long after school is out.
Sounds like a keeper either way. Cherish it.
2007-12-30 15:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by onehoneybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear one you sound just like me many years ago. well i did tell my best (guy) friend that i was in love with him and we where together for 8 yrs after that, we even had a son. but then things changed and now we are still friends and parents. you may want to think very hard about if your heart is feeling love for him or love or loves' sake; is he truly the one for you.
plus, please really look at him from a friends view, as if he was your brother. and think... do i really love him or the THOUGHT of loving him?
you well have a loud voice shout inside you and it won't shut up. that's how you will know.
best of luck dear one. blessed be
2007-12-30 15:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by kay_bouie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your going to need a hell of alot of courage i know exatly how you feel crappy when you cant be with the one you love just because you dont have the guts to tell them. Just think of all the happy times you will have together if you do tell him pluck up the courage and blurt it out ! No other advice GOOD LUCK !
2007-12-30 15:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Daisy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll never know unless you tell him and if it is important enough to ask 4 info on this site . Take the chance for you never know what will happen for he might be feeling the same about you too. some guys are shy and I don't know why. Nothing ventured nothing gained, make sense ?
2007-12-30 15:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by cc's bad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you guys have a moment. Probably saying stuff out of the blue may upset your friendship. ALso try to get someone you trust to ask him if he thinks your cute or if he wants to be with you. I would try that. Good luck!
2007-12-30 15:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best thing you can do is just put yourself out there. No risk no reward. I know this sounds cheesy as hell but I never would have found my soul mate if I hadn't just put myself out there. It's the only advice I could give you really.
2007-12-30 15:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since it has been only september 2007 it maybe too soon to tell him that you love him, but you could tell him that you do like him alot, and build it up from there. Hope it works out for you.
2007-12-30 15:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by bright twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had this situation....my mystake was that i didnt tell him for so long how i felt, so when i finally got brave enough, i said "i love you"...but it scared him!!!!!!! so just say u like him more than a friend and see his reaction...then flirt...just dont rush!!!!!! but whatevr u do, make sure he'll still be in ur life later...bf are easier to find than a best friend u can actually trust...and well if ur lucky enough to combine those two - im truly happy for u!!! so just go for it, but dont scare him!!! gd luck!! xxx
2007-12-30 15:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋