Im in hi skool and the most typical thing to do is to go 2 a party in New Years. Problem is i dont have friends. I mean i hav lots of friends in skool that i talk to but i dont really belong 2 a group. i dont have friends that call me in the weekends to do something. so i no i wont be getting a call to go to a party on the 31st. it sucks b/c my mom is going to a party and i refuse to be to be with my cousin b/c they always do the usual and im tired of it. i feel like im going to miss out a lot in the "social" i tried being frends with one guy but wen we make plans he always says he is going to call me but he never does. he blows me off and i end up alone that night. this happend 3 times. should i call him. i dont want to depend on one guy who might blow me off. wat should ido. i got people's #'s but i dont want to be a pest. theres is 1 group i want to b wit and thats y i tried being friends wit that guy who blew me off. look i just want to spend New Years with people from skool. help
2007-12-30 07:56:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea ask your friend if you can come to the party.
if he says no or blows you off ask another person in that group.
2007-12-30 08:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be afraid of being a pest! Call anyone you want to hang out with and ask them if anything's up for New Years Eve. What have ya go to lose? Don't be afraid of rejection, you'll live, and if you put yourself out there you may make lots of new friends and have a whole new exciting life! I was shy at your age too, but my boyfriend was very outgoing. Watching him I learned to not care how so much how I appeared, but learned to be myself and enjoy myself! These people you are concerned with won't even matter to you in a few years. Just go have FUN!
2007-12-30 08:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by debijs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath. Get some couarge. Call the guy, but at the party don't stayed glued to him, talk and meet others there. Whatever you do, don't be clingy. Don't try to force a friendship with the guy but use the opportunity of going to the party with him to meet others
2007-12-30 08:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by T2427537 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, your just shy. you call the people that have given you their numbers. just call them and be like "hey wheres the party at for new years?" and they should answer you. then you show up, kinda late. but dont be afraid at being a pest, seriously. call that one guy up and ask him. if he says he will call you back...thats a no. and call someone else. good luck though, go party it up on the 31st!
2007-12-30 08:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by hannah l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, your definitely going to have to be a pest to get involved with a group. I did, and I belong to 3 and i make plans with all of them, and i'm a 13 year old in 8th grade that goes to middle school. (i'm not popular or a prep though, i swear!)
2007-12-30 08:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why a lot of people watch it on TV. I'm 52, never been able to drive and just got to my first one, last year. This will be my second time. I've got someone to take me.
You are just a kid. Life is not a dream. It is as it is.
Pray to God. If he is willing to help you on this, then maybe you will get to it. Maybe not. Then watch your TV.
2007-12-30 08:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by geessewereabove 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that fairly then waiting on your husband to fill in the void of no longer having somebody to speak to .you're able to desire to get out of the homestead a pair circumstances each week with a chum or possibly volunteer for and employer to fulfill people. as quickly as you have talked with individuals you're greater apt to no longer permit the indisputable fact that your husband is a private individual. it is going to likely be no longer easy to alter him. He could like the solitude of his homestead after being in the paintings place all day. you pick yet another highway to get someone communique. there are various places you may connect. faculties, Library, or maybe soup kitchens.wish it is effective.
2016-10-02 21:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want to spend New years with your family!
2007-12-30 08:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by gnomie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GATECRASH
2007-12-30 08:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋