Shes been my best friend for a long time. Shes way to greedy, and makes me do what she tells me, or she wont talk to me for the rest of the day. Im sick of it, and i told her many times i didnt want to be her friend, but she sends me down to guidence, so we can talk it over! ah HELPPP?
2007-12-30 08:09:30 · 6 answers · asked by Alexaa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just stay away from her.
2007-12-30 08:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends do not treat real friends that way. She is insecure and has no self-esteem so it makes her feel better to have someone to boss around. It makes up for her short-comings. Can you speak the the counselor alone???? Tell the counselor how it really is and if he or she doesn't listen........talk to a trusted teacher. You need to get out from under her thumb. You are being her doormat. She is a bully. Try to get the courage to tell her you want her to leave you alone and you want nothing to do with her. Explain to her that friends don't treat people this way and you have had enough. If she says the two of you need to go to the counselor.....say "no"....you want to speak with the principal instead. She obviously has the counselor in her corner so that counselor is no good to you with your "friend" along with you. If you have any friends that know what's going on that can help you and back you up.....stick close with them until "she" finds another person to bully around. When she sees she can't scare you or manipulate you anymore.....she will get bored, stop and find someone else to pick on.
2007-12-30 08:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by lacrosselover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. I would definitely not consider her your best friend. Best friends are like your sister..or better. They look out for you, want the best for you, and are always there. Best friends wouldn't hurt your feelings on purpose or ask you to do things that made you feel uncomfortable. Best advice..stick to the people you KNOW are your friends...ones that would actually fall under the "best" friend category. If I were you, I would not even sit down and talk to her about it anymore. Ignore her, and give her nothing but kindness. Stand up for yourself girl! :) You are a woman, and you are independent!! Don't let anyone TELL you what to do! :) Best of luck..
2007-12-30 08:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by peachtulips85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid this person altogether. And if she's sending you "down to guidence," tell the guidance counselor exactly how it is and that you have a right NOT to associate with her if that's your choice. You are not her slave and you don't have to play her game.
2007-12-30 08:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by L.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you've talked it through well enough, so just avoid her. If she calls, do not answer her calls, if you run into her, say " Hi! Sorry but gotta go!" and so forth... she is going to insist for a while and eventually get it.
I know it is kind of rude but if you've already been upfront about it, she is rude not taking into consideration your will and your feelings.
Good luck, Happy New Year
2007-12-30 08:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and I had the exact kind of problem.
Tell them that you can't keep up with her attitude and that it is down right wrong for her to control you.
Make her feel guilty.
Don't be too mean, but don't be too nice either.
Hope I helped and I hope that you get through this!
P.S. I have another problem, please drop by my profile and check out my questions. It's the unresolved one. I really need help!
2007-12-30 08:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by © 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋