What do i do to make my ex bf, wanna try and be friends? we broke up 2 months ago and we havnt stopped contacting since but he did want to be friends before but i kinda upset him and now he doesnt, what do i do? I know he's an ex but we where good friends before, i know he wants to be friends he just angry, what do i do? leave him until he contacts me?
2007-12-30 07:40:16 · 25 answers · asked by Adelaidexx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, have a think about WHERE you upset him. Was it something you said?
or something you did?
Think about why he's upset, then work from then, he'll forgive you, i'm sure. By the sounds of it, you treasure your friendship with this boy- don't let it go!
2007-12-30 07:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kassi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... he's an ex for a reason, but right now... what's best is time... let him cool off. Keep yourself busy! Two months can be too early for a lot of people. You don't have to wait for him to contact you first. If you guys were really good friends before, then it'll eventually be okay. Just chill out for a couple of weeks or months depending on how long you two were together.
2007-12-30 07:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by frenchie123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your new to this huh?
That's why you never date a good friend ever!
I never was able to keep a girl as a friend after I dated her. Why? Because it odd for both of us. Some can pull it off but in most cases 90% they dont stay friends. Feeling get hurt, people get jelaus, and thing are said. Sorry you have to learn the hard way but next time think hard before dating a good friend.
2007-12-30 07:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I dated 3 years. We always promised each other if we broke up we would still be friends...didn't happen...at first./ It took us about 2 years...but now we are best friends again. Give it time. The relationship you shared once was a lot deeper than friendship and it takes awhile to put that behind you even if you are friends now.
2007-12-30 07:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by kasjar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space.... he is your ex now, keep it that way. Neither of you will be able to completely move on if you keep trying to hold on to something that is no longer there. If he really wants to stay friends.... then he will come around once he cools off. Just stop pressuring him and ticking him off more. Relax, find something to do with your free time to get your mind off of him. I know it is easier said than done, but it's the only way. No shortcuts.
2007-12-30 07:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's doing the right thing for the both of you by moving on.
You may not see it now, but you'll understand later.
It's obvious that you still have feelings for him and that and a "friendship" is not a good combination.
Right not you can only dare to imagine who's out there waiting for you. And you'll never find him or he find you with you hanging on the your "ex".
You must move on.
2007-12-30 07:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by dtown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the past in the past.
Relationships are like haggling buy something. Once you offer to pay $50, you can't go back down to $25.
Maybe after some time, he'll contact you. Until then, let him have space and move on with your life.
2007-12-30 07:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Buzz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is the thing, you guys were... best friends before you began dating. Its a huge step to date after such a good bond. After your break up, he might be heartbroken, but if he is a good friend as before, he'd still want to remain in contact. Just, give him time. Hes probably still healing, and it's best if you allow time to heal. =] But, if worst comes to worst, he'd most likely just be a little farther away from you, but, that's a small chance.
2007-12-30 07:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sphinxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does no longer carry her to blame for what occurred with you ex bf. supply her the income of the doubt except she provides reason to no longer have confidence her. I propose i does no longer be telling each thing and something yet as far as you could tell she went for the duration of the comparable ingredient and you adult adult males might desire to in all probability improve an extremely great friendship as a results of fact of it. Your ex is the asshole and you may desire to no longer blame her for what occurred. Like I stated, except she provides a reason to be disillusioned or mad at her... be pals!
2016-10-10 15:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have really really like you and might not be over you.Give him some time.Seeing you might bring back memories of you two and make him sad.He will talk to you when he is ready.Just let him know you still care for him,but as a friend and you are there whenever he needs you.
2007-12-30 07:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋