Well.... I am in HS. And I like this girl. This girl figures me to be her best friend type of person. Whatever. So... shes then like, "can i tell you a secret, I like your best friend."
Any tips?
2007-12-30 05:01:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sooner or later i but they won't like eachother any more. So then is your chance just tell her i like you and ask her on a date.
2007-12-30 05:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Carley S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this is a complicated situation. I think what you have to do is tell the girl that you like her, as hard as it may be. I also think that you have to confront your best friend and find out how he really feels about the girl. It could be that he likes her, but he just appears indifferent in front of you, so he won't spoil your friendship. If the girl rejects your feelings and your best friend admits his feeling for the girl, then I think that its better if you give them distance and move on.
2007-12-30 05:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going to be honest, and I am not going to advise you to
"forget it if your really like her" - because thats what insecure people say to make themselves feel better...
I suggest you make sure you show how uncomfortable you are with them.. and if you really have a problem, dont talk to em' for a while, see what they say - you have to become known, otherwise you will just be ignored..
Its not wrong to feel uncomfortable with someones relationship, therefore its not wrong to address it - I think what happened to you is unfair, and to be honest - I personally think if all goes not so well - forget it and move on, there are plenty more fish in the sea, and the chances are they might be better...
2007-12-30 05:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you like her. she'll never know if you dont. You should watch just friends, thats what will happen to you if you dont let her know you have feelings for her. You'll be stuck in the friend zone. Until you let her know anything and everything you do will be just as a friend.
2007-12-30 05:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by 12638 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what a jerk i think you should like sit down and talk to your best friend and be like wow wtf i thought you didnt wanna do that to me and dont scream though cuz seriously girls arent worht losing best friends over but if hes that bad of a best friend and doesnt care about your feelings then maybe he is. just try and talk to him and decide whether you think you need friends like that and try to move on. remember theres 8 girls for every one guy living on this earth....i think you can find another one.
2007-12-30 05:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See your best friend said he wouldn't go out with her but instead he did does that still mean yall are friends.besides there are more women out there and maybe she's not the one for you.but who am i to say she's not for you maybe she has a friend just remember that your friend said he wouldn't go out with her just remember
2007-12-30 05:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself and the girl, tell her how you feel about her, she has 3 options then laugh, walk away or stay.
2007-12-30 05:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Vampire Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a best friend can be a much better relationship than "going with her" that may not last or be as deep, so hang in there
2007-12-30 05:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think there is anything you can do. If she doesn't like you now, then you should probably just stay away from her because she might think you're a stalker. :)
2007-12-30 05:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by beachbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your friend that he said he would lay off, but he didn't. if he came to like her then leave them be and wait for another girl that likes you and not your friend.
2007-12-30 05:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by newyorkergirl_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋