Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

My ex is getting married but I didn't find out through him I found out through some of his coworkers whom I'm friends with. I still have very strong feelings for him yet his coworkers still tend to bring him up in front of me which I do not like and tell me stuff that I don't want to hear. It breaks my heart to see him getting married because I still like him and i find it really hard to be happy for him because in are relationship he completely disrespected me as a person. I always compare myself to her because she is a flight attendant and I seem to think it would be a relationship where she isn't around half the time and now their getting married? Any advice?

2007-12-30 03:40:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have an online bf and he lives in a different country. I am in my thirties and he in his early twenties. We have been talking everyday for over a year and i love him so much. I know he loves me also. I have been depressed lately because i feel like my clock is ticking and I want to be with him badly. He needs to finish college and then he says he is going to military. So, it will be years before we can be together. I feel like i will be too old, should i let him go?? He is sensitive and I know it will break his heart and I know mine will break if I do this but i been thinking it's for the best. I want him also to experience more things in life because he is young. Ugh!! I love him!:( But time is passing by.

2007-12-30 03:38:49 · 35 answers · asked by ♥ Anna ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i want to try out for cheerleading but the love of my life thinks im an emo kid like him?!?!?!?!?!?! what do i do????

2007-12-30 03:38:40 · 6 answers · asked by HOTTIE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-30 03:33:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and why

2007-12-30 03:27:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well today is my birthday and everyone keeps wishing me a happy birthday despite the fact that today is NOT A HAPPY DAY. Every time my birthday rolls around all I can think about is the fact that some man out there raped my mother. Thats right, I am a rape baby and I dont see how thats anything to celebrate. Niether my mother, nor myself wanted me to be on this earth but here I am. IT PISSES ME OFF WHEN PEOPLE WISH ME A F*CKING HAPPY BIRTHDAY! and they all know that today takes me to a bad place inside my head. I live a good life, a decent life. ALL I WANT IS FOR THEM TO STOP! its my birthday and yet I cant get what I want! To be left! I've told everyone not to and asked them to stop giving me cards and acting like today is a celebration. Because its not. To me its a lament of pain and misery drowned in the memories of a struggling childhood. I want them to just stop. I want today to be like any other day. To me its a marker. Its marked on my calendar as the day I turn insert age here

2007-12-30 03:20:43 · 4 answers · asked by Icy Hot 1 in Friends

I mean when it happens all the time. Not physical usually, but constant verbal.

2007-12-30 03:19:45 · 25 answers · asked by jdydewing 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you believe in true love? How many different kinds are there and how necessary to you in your life?

2007-12-30 03:19:08 · 15 answers · asked by Ballerina Butterfly Queen 5 in Singles & Dating

you find some attractive person who is off limits is hitting on you? Both you and that person are off limits and you are mature individuals and unwilling to risk anything. Just for a moment does it feel good that some one beautiful finds you interesting / attractive / wants to know you better? i experienced this and found myself smiling for 2 days. :) Though am not acting on it.

2007-12-30 03:14:15 · 10 answers · asked by reflection 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i take the time to invite a friend over at least twice a week, my brother always comes and plays with me and that friend, i sometimes let him but other times say please leave i want to be with my friend (im not lesbian) but whenever he has a friend over, he NEVER lets me play with them, he always makes me leave, this time, my friends over right now and i just left because he wouldnt leave and my sister and her friend are also down there and they come up to invite me to play like 30 min ago and they've been down for about and 1 hour and a half WHAT SHOULD I DO ?!?

2007-12-30 03:13:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When I say a long time I mean your hearts been crushed alot before you really find someone.Or you could just love yourself forever.

2007-12-30 03:10:29 · 23 answers · asked by tiffinynb93 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 03:10:22 · 50 answers · asked by ginzawasabi 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been wth my bf for neary 3 an a half years, an are relationship is good, but there is something missing that i need ur advice on.
He has had gf's before me but the relationships have never been as special as ours , an i know that.
his past relationships have always gone wrong after sex.
Him an I have not had sex yet, but we both do, but he is unshure, as he is sceard that are relationship is gonna change an get messed up like the past ones. This is maybe somethink he has 2 overcome. But what i struggle with is..the other gf's had him in that way, and i have'nt yet.. but they never really had his heart the way i do.
He said its nice 2b in a relationship where he can feel this way without puting sex 1st...
Do u think i have somethink 2 worry about????

2007-12-30 03:09:21 · 4 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always find difficulty in expressing myself to the people I care for, which really irritates me...I find myself so helpless..My words are in my thoughts but I am unable to express...PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME!

2007-12-30 03:06:58 · 5 answers · asked by Ananya 1 in Friends

I have a male friend (im a gal)but i find him hot n cold. Hes a little bit of a loner and tends to befriend alot of girls but hasnt really got any friend friends outside the office. Anyway i made friends with him since aug. We got talking and he asked me to lunch so i returned the favour. He nagged me to go over his new flat so i did. I email him now and again but he doesnt seem to be good at initating just at the replying and seems he doesnt give alot out of himself. He says im open person but i wouldnt say the same bout him. Hell go to lunch with me when i ask and does little things like appologise to me if he dont reply to my mails and theres always that flirty banter yet he dont make much effort his side. Hes worksworthy so i take that into account. He can be moody yet will get jealous ifi ask someone else to teach me to play snooker. I wish he would make more effort his side my instinct says he likes me

2007-12-30 03:06:30 · 9 answers · asked by shelley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother is big hearted & will want to take his kids out to buy some stuff for me, even though he is seriously strapped for cash after Christmas.

And opening presents is such a big part of a birthday celibration that I don't want to just drop it, I want to substitute it with something else.

Any ideas?

2007-12-30 03:06:09 · 2 answers · asked by Smart Kat 7 in Friends

It's just I really him, she doesn't. Why does he love her and not me? please give me advice!!

2007-12-30 03:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know popular guys does, but the nice, unpopular guys. When they're going out with someone, would they like their gf to play hard-to-get with them, or just a little and still care and pay attention to them like a real gf??

2007-12-30 03:03:19 · 20 answers · asked by Mystify 1 in Singles & Dating

all the financial, health, and other problems aside, will you agree to have 8 kids?

PS "the person you love most" obviously means your spouse or girlfriend/boyfriend

2007-12-30 03:00:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The ceremony is at 6:00, so there will be plenty of time to do everything that day, I just dont know when to schedule my hair/ makeup etc. We are taking 99% of pictures before the ceremony (we'll take a few afterwards to catch the sunset) and I dont know how long that normally takes...here is my schedule for the day, please tell me if it makes sense or sounds crazy!

12:30-3:00: hair,makeup (2 hrs), travel to ceremony site(1/2 hr)
3:00-4:00: get dressed, jewelery, final touches, etc
4:00-5:45: pictures
6:00 ceremony

2007-12-30 02:58:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

haha yes I know....silly huh? and no its not a typo. Can the bride see the groom before the wedding..without her having bad luck?

2007-12-30 02:56:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My sister just got engaged and is moving several states away in 3 weeks. I want to plan a bridal shower for her in her hometown or co-ed shower for them both but they can't haul a lot of gifts back to where they are moving. Can I plan a shower and request money or gift cards only for them instead of gifts that would take up too much room for travel? Also, if I do something like this would they open these at the shower like normal gifts or should we just play games and mingle? Any ideas would be great!

2007-12-30 02:53:00 · 10 answers · asked by Crox Trader 2 in Weddings

2007-12-30 02:51:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a few times. no sex. he's really friendly and nice and everything when he wants it. then he's like bipolar after he's done. says things like "its so late"(which it usually is) "i have to go now" and just takes off and doesn't want me near him "because he just came" and he's "tired."

i know this sounds obvious that he's using me, but i dont really feel that he is.

can someone please explain what he is doing??

2007-12-30 02:49:49 · 22 answers · asked by waterlilystars 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex wife cheated on me and I divorced her. I met someone else and am engaged. When the ex found out, she started calling me and cries and wants to know everything about my life. She told me that I never tell her anything and that's why she has to ask. We have kids together and she questions the kids about what I do and about my finacee. How do I make this stop once and for all??? She refuses to listen and won't leave it alone.

2007-12-30 02:45:11 · 32 answers · asked by Viking 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm Zach and I'm 16 and I feel like I'm living in my brother's (Laiden aged 18) shadow. We are both on the football team but he's captain. People refer to me as Laiden's lil bro, even the teachers do. And if someone is introducing me to someone else they always say ''This is Zach. you know Laiden's lil bro). How do I break out of his shadow?

2007-12-30 02:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i've been invited to a new years party which my ex will be at with his new girlfriend. he practically got with her when we were still together and just stopped speaking to me. i'm still not over him. i do want to go to this party though to see friends, but i don't particularly want to go and see him and her together. i don't know whether to go and try and have a good time, or do something else :S

2007-12-30 02:40:26 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for a second name?.
What would you do?

2007-12-30 02:40:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my moms best friend just recently had twins and she spends ALL her time around her best friend and her 3 kids. one of them is 4 years old and she talks about how she absolutley cant stand her, but she stays there anyways. my mom is never around me and when she is all she talks about is he rbest friends problems and her husband who is outcheating and never there for the kids and stuff. my mom even spent christmas, thanksgiving, and soon new years eve with her best friend!! then when shes home she talks about how her best friend is a ***** and stuff like that. since her best friends husband is out cheating thats her issue for marring him and having kids w/ him b/c he was cheating before they were married and had kids!! My mom had to raise me single he rwhole life and her friend has no reason why she cant. When will my mom be MY mom again and stop being THEIR 2nd mom whose uneeded!?!?!?!?!!

2007-12-30 02:38:18 · 19 answers · asked by happy camper♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hen it comes to buy fancy gifts or anything in that nature.

2007-12-30 02:29:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings