i want to try out for cheerleading but the love of my life thinks im an emo kid like him?!?!?!?!?!?! what do i do????
2007-12-30 03:38:40 · 6 answers · asked by HOTTIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him. It may seem hard, but you can never form a relationship under false pretences. Besides, if he can't accept you for who you are, he isn't worth bothering about.
Relationships are about acceptance and compromise: no-one's perfect, and if you ever want a relationship to last more than five minutes, you've got to be willing to understand (and enjoy) your differences. If he doesn't understand this, he'll never get anywhere in his life.
Tell him how you feel, but don't let him make the decision for you. You are your own person, and if you would really like a go at cheerleading, he should respect your decision.
Good luck with him, I hope it works out well!! x
2007-12-30 03:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It matters if u just acted emo. If u did act I suggest u 2 jus tell him now. N for the cheer leading try out cuz if u don't u might regret it. If u boyfriend likes u or loves you he will try 2 understand. But when you become a cheerleader act the same u usually acted towards him, don't change. N if he doesn't understand u hav 2 pick cheerleading or him. The one u luv the most.
2007-12-30 03:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by brooklynsexihaitian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable joining the taem then you must not feel terribly out of placed with the crowd of chearleaders. This indicates that you are not as emo as he must think you are. I understand that must tear you because you love him so much. If there is a mutual friend that is on the team, maybe they could talk with the two of you abut it. If you expose him to the idea he is bound to be more comfortable. He just doesent like the stuck up snobs, and how the act like their the ****. His fear is that you may change or that your getting into a group your are not like. Just continue to show him you are the same person, and you arenot changing. Dont hang out with the bitches on the team and pick your friends wisely from the team. Dont under any surcumstances choose the team or a new snob from the team over time with him. If he is the one he will love what ever desision you decide to make providing it is healthy, and safe.
Good luck :-D
2007-12-30 03:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he loves you, or he doesn't. If your trying out for cheerleading is a problem for him, then maybe this isn't the best relationship for you.
I sat out sophomore year cheer because I was in love. The next year I went back to cheering because I missed it so much _and_ I kept the boyfriend too.
Life is too short to live with regrets. Just go for it.
2007-12-30 06:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Coach ~Jen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try out for the all blacks!!
2007-12-30 03:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Smurfette! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
suck it up hunny [:
ahha.
jay kay
you should just tell him and im sure he'll understand [:
i know from experience [:
2007-12-30 12:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋