It's just I really him, she doesn't. Why does he love her and not me? please give me advice!!
2007-12-30 03:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love has nothing to do with "reason". When you love someone for almost ever "reason" you can list that you like there is another "reason" not to like. Love is an emotion not a thought. If it were a thought then we could easily say to ourselves: This person doesn't want me so I'll move on. That IS "reasonable". In practice it is very difficult (though not impossible to do).
One way to move on is simply to quit having contact with the person that is the source of your pain. Don't try to be "friends" - it doesn't work until you've gotten over them. Don't call them up "just to say Hi". Don't monitor their myspace page to see who their new "friends" are or whether they say something about you. Don't tell them you're doing this - simply do it - often they'll say "I was hoping we could be friends" and you'll feel guilty. This isn't punishment of HIM but rather protection YOU.
2007-12-30 03:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Say_What? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vixxie, men are like busses. No sense chasing one, because there will be another coming along in a few minutes.
This guy has his focus set on her, and is not available to you. Let him go, and look elsewhere.
2007-12-30 11:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to give more details for a better answer
but i'd say either
a) she looks better than u
b) if she doesn't then he gets along with her more
but the guy above has a point, if u don't chase him, he'll remember u then think where the hell did u go, then he'll start chasing u again
2007-12-31 10:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your quetions itself is such loveable , everybody will fall in love with the scipture. How can it be anybody else than you . It is you only with that fascinating language
2008-01-01 11:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋