Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

i dating this guy and he said he wanted to have sex with me.but it just that im too young im only 13 and he said he ready for much more.wat do i do.iv never dumped a guy before in my life.

2007-12-30 04:28:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 04:26:22 · 4 answers · asked by lilpitchergurl10 1 in Friends

Last night I found out that my boyfriend had his law license suspended for a year in a state where he previously lived. He was going through a divorce and lied about his gambling problem under oath (for which he has since received treatment.)
He and I have been dating for nine months, living together for that last two, and he has not told me about any of this. I found out by goofing off and googling his name.
I love this man deeply, but I no longer trust him. I'm not sure what to do. I have been paying the bills myself for two months while he looks for employment.
I need some substantial advice from my Yahoo family.

2007-12-30 04:26:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 04:23:52 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Friends

I am quiet. I hate being around people I don't know. I can even be quiet when I'm with friends. I hate parties, I hate getting drunk, I hate loud people, I hate immature teenage girls. I am the introvert type... and I am 18...

My mum is away for the week. The house is left to me and my 16 year old sister. She is inviting tons of her friends over for a "New Years Eve Party"...

I was hoping I could just have a quiet night... but now, the room next to me will be filled up with stupid 16 year olds just hoping to get drunk, laid, party...

I will be in the next room on the computer, and they will not understand at all how I could be on the computer and not partying on a night like New Years Eve. Pretty easily for me, I slept through New Year last time...

Will I survive this night of drunken debauchery? I don't think so. I think it will add to my hate of everything I mentioned above.

This will be the worst night of 2007.

2007-12-30 04:19:30 · 16 answers · asked by .... 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you think of this age gap???

2007-12-30 04:17:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 04:16:41 · 9 answers · asked by Cyntia 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 04:15:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My neighbour is an a....o
he called the cops on me twice for laughin during the day and
cheeing at a game that was at 1pm ( it lasted only 60 minutes)
I have card parties once a week and we do laugh a lot but its not constant and its only for an hour or two during the day.
The game we watch is every Saturday and it lasta 60 minutes.
I think its absurd to call the cops for noise thats not constant...and its not after hours...
THe cop said that they can fine me w/ code enforcmnt if they come out 2 more times.
ANyone knows the rules for this?

2007-12-30 04:15:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would it make your rappore with them easier?

2007-12-30 04:14:11 · 5 answers · asked by Soundproof 6 in Friends

2007-12-30 04:13:12 · 33 answers · asked by egwiv2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 6 months did not buy me a birthday present. My birthday is 3 days after christmas and it also fell on the day that he had to move. He gave me a christmas present and offered to take me out for my birthday (I couldn't-had other plans). Anyways, I saw him the day after my birthday and I didn't get anything. I understand that moving has been financially difficult for him, and I'm not greedy...I just wanted a card or maybe a balloon :( Am I being unresonable, I don't want to say anything to him and make him feel bad because I think it is financial difficulties that prevented him from getting me anything. But my feelings are hurt.....

2007-12-30 04:12:33 · 16 answers · asked by Heeheheehee 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so Ive never asked a question on here before but here goes. I like this girl, and Ive liked her for months now. We are good mates and i see her as much as possible. Ive always thought/hoped she might like me. Sometimes it seems like she flirts with me and she often calls me for no reason and we talk for hours on the phone, but nothing ever comes of it. Ive sort of resigned myself to the thought that it may never happen. Well a few weeks ago she kissed my best friend. He said sorry and stuff but i pretended i wasnt bothered. Well antway last night we were all at this party and it seemed like one minute she is flirting wih me and then she is all over my best friend again, But i know he likes another girl so im not worried about him doing anthing. It just hurts because he is my best mate and it makes me wonder why im not good enough. Anyway i would just like to ask: What this all means? Should I tell her how i feel? and Is it worth still hoping after this girl? Thanks

2007-12-30 04:12:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

according to u which is superior love or sex . i think love is an immortal feeling which joins 2 souls and make 1 & sex is a bond which makes love stronger but i can also be evil sometimes.
so according to me love is more superior

2007-12-30 04:11:02 · 6 answers · asked by jb 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 10 months, i love absolutely everthing about him EXCEPT his ex girlfriend baggage. she played his heart like the drums and he swore off girls and never thought he would be in another relationship but i have been working very hard at picking up the pieces. hes been doing good, says hes over her, doesnt love her, and has actually in the past week admited to have fallen in love with me, and has been perfect. HOWEVER, i noticed a couple buddy-buddy text messages in his phone between the 2, and this morning i woke up at 4 am to her blowing his phone up. he was drunk and passed out and wouldnt wake up for it, but she called about 8 times in a row. i really wanted to answer and tell her to eff off, but i wouldnt disrespect HIM by doing that. what do i do if i dont want to have any problems with him about it, but i cant stand the fact that this $hit is happening? help...

2007-12-30 04:10:28 · 27 answers · asked by lolita 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it more likely for a guy who just had a breakup w/ a gf of a few years, to want to date girls like the ex? And I mean attracted to them both in looks and personality?? Or does it really not matter at all?

2007-12-30 04:09:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 04:08:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a woman in her mid 40s but so lucky as I look in my early 30s. Im going through a really hard time now as I've achieved my career goals..can afford to take it easy but would love to meet a nice guy. I've had very few relationships even though I know Im good fun and am pretty (lots of friends tell me & Im often asked out). Two relationships went on for a few yrs but i couldnt have imagined spending my life with one of those guys and the other one lacked focus (I work hard and need this in a guy). I even tried online datine recently..but it is not my thing..I need to feel someone's presence to see if I like them. Problem is my taste is v narrow...younger guys/goodlooking/high achievers/nice person. I like so few, it is so difficult not to be lonely sometime. I have a good life otherwise, nice friends & family..but need LOve! Is this bad luck? Why cant I meet 'my guy'? I dont go consciously looking for a guy..just live my life but still, Im hungry for love.

2007-12-30 04:07:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy has a girlfriend and he wants to visit a girl he is friendly with in another state..on his next vacation..does he have feelings for her? Lets say they have had something intimate in the past..like kissed & flirted (before his present girlfriend), doesnt that mean that he still probably has feelings for her and that the girl he is going out with is not his 'true love'? Opinions please. Another thing, this guy loves travelling.

2007-12-30 04:05:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend fell asleep while we were on the phone last night, so I got off the phone with him. I wake up this morning and check my myspace and see a gazillion messages from him saying how pissed he was because OVER 2 months ago I sent a friend of mine a comment saying I had met a guy where I worked that looked like him in a way, but my friend was cuter. Then another time I had said his picture was cute. My boyfriend is freaking and saying how unloyal I am for lying about it, but i never lied about it. Or even mentioned it for that matter! He said there's no telling what I've done that he doesnt know about. Basically saying that I've probably cheated and he doesnt know. My opinion on unloyalty is cheating, ACTUALLY lying and being dishonest. No i dont like this guy I left a comment to.. he was just a friend of mine from highschool. Am I wrong? if not, what should I say to him to make him shut up about me being "unloyal"

2007-12-30 04:03:13 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

I've just met this woman, and things are going great. We've been out a few times and we talk constantly. I think she's as into me as I am to her. The problem is, I'm not only "inexperienced", but I'm a terrible kisser. I don't want to say how old I am, but its a little embarrassing at this point in my life. Eventually I have to tell her about my past, and I can't even get past the first kiss. What do I do?!!!

2007-12-30 04:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by scott n 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf is 14 years older then me and some think it may be a big problem...

2007-12-30 04:01:47 · 19 answers · asked by pixie_stix_03_26_07 1 in Singles & Dating

here's the story..i look over at her and smile (i dont think it was a 'beleiving' smile) and she did it. im a girl..and the teacher is a girl too.

2007-12-30 04:00:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive bin wid my fella 4 2 yrs, i luv him dearly, weve bin through alot 2getha good n bad, i av a ring, but everytime i want 2 pop the q sumate hapns, we av a son, n kinda live 2getha, i no hes the 1, hes my soul mate, n cant imagine bein widout him, im scared of proposing, dont wana get knocked bk cuz 2 me that will b end of us, do i leave it as it is or go 4 it, n how do i do it asd only wana do it the once so it asd 2 b right 4 me n him, help pls xxxx

2007-12-30 03:59:13 · 4 answers · asked by in love lol 1 in Singles & Dating

she is very nice

2007-12-30 03:58:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Theres this girl at school, and she is in eighth grade, I am in seventh. From what I know of her, she is really sweet. I went to open skating at the ice rink the other day and she was there with some of her friends, they kept making excuses to talk to me, but I only really wanted to talk to the one. I want to ask her for her phone number, but I want to do it in a cool way that won't make me look korney. Any ideas???

2007-12-30 03:50:36 · 10 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Singles & Dating

Who's gonna stop me?

2007-12-30 03:46:54 · 10 answers · asked by midnite rainbow 5 in Family

His family is Catholic and mine is not. This does not bother us, but for respect for those in the family that it would matter to, we want to have a non-church wedding. How does that work? How do I go about finding someone to marry us? And can it be at the same place as the reception? It is a December wedding so outside is not possible. If it is at the same place how do we go about the transition from ceremony to reception? That would for sure help with the budget!

2007-12-30 03:45:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Did he ever get erections - 2 times a day like most men do...is this not sinful? Did he ever jack off as a teenager?

If he did not, how could he claim to understand what lust is?

2007-12-30 03:43:01 · 24 answers · asked by jelly 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend cheated on me about 8 months ago with another guy. It has been a little rough but we seem to be working through it. Although, since then, there has been 3 occassions of her talking in her sleep and talking about him, mentioning his name and other rather detailed things. What exactly is going through her mind when she talks about him and should I be worried about this?

2007-12-30 03:41:04 · 22 answers · asked by davehale82 1 in Singles & Dating