I've just met this woman, and things are going great. We've been out a few times and we talk constantly. I think she's as into me as I am to her. The problem is, I'm not only "inexperienced", but I'm a terrible kisser. I don't want to say how old I am, but its a little embarrassing at this point in my life. Eventually I have to tell her about my past, and I can't even get past the first kiss. What do I do?!!!
2007-12-30 04:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by scott n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I really like a guy, him being inexperienced isn't a dealbreaker. If he starts telling me how inexperienced he is though , it might be a little awkward. I think you should just kiss her, just go for it, don't give her a disclaimer detailing your sexual past first. If you are really a horrible kisser she'll either dump you (which means she wasn't that into you & she's kind of a *****) or she'll just try to change your kissing style. If a girl thinks you are bad at something, such as kissing, she is going to do something to try and make you better. She might be bold and give you tips or she might just try to kiss you how she wants to be kissed & hope you get the hint. Don't be so nervous. I've met guys who I thought kissed terribly, but over time (& lots of kissing), you get in sync with each other & things improve (for both of you).
2007-12-30 04:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by jackandjlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes things r not as bad as u might think they r. U should cut urself some slack. Give urself a chance and her as well. Women seek mostly a passionate mann not a bomb shell in bed. About the age, u have to spill the beans. How would u feel if she lied to u about ur age, i doubt u will be content .Honesty never hurt as bad as lying. get things off ur chest and let the chips fall where they may
2007-12-30 12:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by smartgrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, set a day up to meet and talk to her..
then, tell her that you are not very good of kisser, maybe she won't mind, and maybe, she'll be kind enough and teach you..
or, you can just practice yourself using your hand?? lol
Hoped this helped.. :)
2007-12-30 12:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by amcfemale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her truth, if she dosen't stick with you end it's not worth it. Being honset with her will show that you truely trust her. Honsety can open so many doors in a relationship.
2007-12-30 12:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself She might find the fact that you're inexperienced cute.Just try hard to win her over.
2007-12-30 12:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by ariellebelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her:) A girl won't mind showing a guy the ropes;)
2007-12-30 12:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Anna ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either way you will have to tell her.and if she likes u a lot she wont care about your past.if she reallys likes you ir wont matter
2007-12-30 12:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by hellokittyqueen92 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain it to her, if she really cares she will understand and help you through this.
Hope this helps and good luck
2007-12-30 12:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tom M 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You quit calling her and dump her now. She deserves a real man not some sniveling wimp who can't even figure out how to kiss.
2007-12-30 12:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 8⤋