My bf is 14 years older then me and some think it may be a big problem...
2007-12-30 04:01:47 · 19 answers · asked by pixie_stix_03_26_07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once you pass the age of consent, it doesn't matter. If you have a lot in common and love each other then forget those who think it is a problem- it's not their relationship. Go for what makes you happy and ignore those that don't wish the same thing for you.
2007-12-30 04:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't state your age...if you are 18 and he's 32, that would be a bit odd...if you are 30 and he's 44 the match isn't as out of balance.
My max preferred age range has never been beyond 10 yrs +/- and is less now (I'm 43) but some date well outside their own age successfully.
As long as you are both legal adults, there's no real issue and time will tell with re: to whether or not the age difference is a problem for you two.
2007-12-30 12:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u ?
if ur over the legal age then that is no problem, my mum's friend is married to a guy 22 years older than her. Love matters, age does not!
2007-12-30 12:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say it's wrong, but it sure is odd.
You both will have a lot of differences. Think about when you are 50 and he is 64.. But then again, people get married to different cultures, race, and to people with kids. So, it's all about how much you are willing to take to be with HIM.
Good Luck to You and HAPPY NEW YEAR 2008!!
2007-12-30 12:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by HotJewels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. My husband is 14 years older than me and it's perfect.
2007-12-30 12:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Ellen H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on how old you both are. If you are...lets say...15? you would be dating a 29 year old which i think most people would consiter not good. You'd be dating an adult. But if you are...lets say...25 he would be 39. This isn't so bad because you are both mature adults. Do you understand? So i think it seriously depends on which is morally good. But overall I think this should be your choice and nobody else's.
2007-12-30 12:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's twice your age this is not good he's a pedophile. If he's 3 times the difference and you are twice then there's no problem. If you're not much of a mathematician that would make you 28 and him 42. That is a relatively equitable balance sexually speaking; since women mature faster than men in everything.
2007-12-30 12:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by Emissary 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It all depends on how old you are. If you're both mature adults it's not too bad, although it's still a big gap. But if you're still young and in your teens then I think the age difference is too vast.
2007-12-30 12:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Elay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are over 18 years of age, it's not a problem.
2007-12-30 12:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first i believe you are in legal age, then you should test yourself in your and his reflections to every action between each other, its ok to say you begin something that he had done from 14 years because there are other things he never began which you did before, so attraction between two lovers doesn't care for age gap or differences as long as they found each other to be as one person in two bodies to share a one life.
2007-12-30 12:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by Words_Unspoken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋