Girls Trouble...meh?

Question

Ok so Ive never asked a question on here before but here goes. I like this girl, and Ive liked her for months now. We are good mates and i see her as much as possible. Ive always thought/hoped she might like me. Sometimes it seems like she flirts with me and she often calls me for no reason and we talk for hours on the phone, but nothing ever comes of it. Ive sort of resigned myself to the thought that it may never happen. Well a few weeks ago she kissed my best friend. He said sorry and stuff but i pretended i wasnt bothered. Well antway last night we were all at this party and it seemed like one minute she is flirting wih me and then she is all over my best friend again, But i know he likes another girl so im not worried about him doing anthing. It just hurts because he is my best mate and it makes me wonder why im not good enough. Anyway i would just like to ask: What this all means? Should I tell her how i feel? and Is it worth still hoping after this girl? Thanks

Answer 1

This is not an uncommon problem for best friends to have. Can't tell you how many times I've been in this exact situation. The best advice I can offer is tell the girl how you feel. It could be that she's using you to get to the friend, or it could be that she wants to make you jealous and more likely to show emotion toward her, or it could be that she gets her jollies from confusing dudes. Anyone of these options are possible. Only if you talk to her will you find out for sure. Hope this helped.

Answer 2

Wait a lil bit until she is not so obsessed with your friend. It will pass...it seems like she just has a brief crush, or she may even want to make you jealous. Wait for a little bit, and try flirting with her some more. If after a while longer, she still doesn't come around, don't wait for her anymore. not worth your time!

Answer 3

You are perfectly good enough, don't let nay girl think your not.

Well what I think it means and what it would be like with me is that she has defintely thought about being with you and would be interested, she probably doesnt think you like her or she is worried what you would think about if she did like her.

Yes, def tell her you like her. Dont say like I have thought about this for quite a while and i like you and would you like to go out for a bit as more then friends and see how it goes. no hard feelings if nothing happens. that sort of thing, then she isnt scared off or worried shed hurt you or shed get hurt i know that is what worries alot of girls when things happen like this.

Hope it works for you.

Answer 4

She is probably flirting with other guys just to make you feel jealous & to get your attention. She is clearly waiting for you to make the first move. So hurry up before she loses all interest in you. Good Luck!

Answer 5

You haven't asked her out, or got up the courage to tell her how you feel and you want to sit there and get mad when she moves on to someone else? Be a real man, take responsibility for your lack of action.

Answer 6

no count how lots someone wanders interior the streets on the top of the day, he returns living house. warm for couple of minutes yet to marry attractive on the top of the day. that's a compromise. home made lentils in case you attempt out menu from outdoors you will drown in soup.

Answer 7

i think you should tell her how you feel about her and see what she says and if she says shes not into u liked that than move on

Answer 8

SHE PROBABLY LIKES YOU JUST ACTING LIKE SHE LIKES UR FRIEND TO MAKE U JEALOUS SEEING THAT U HAVEN'T ASKED HER OUT YET.

Answer 9

you should tell her what you feel and ask her out your self i had the same thing

Answer 10

just do it man just do it you'll be suprised at what works