I'm a woman in her mid 40s but so lucky as I look in my early 30s. Im going through a really hard time now as I've achieved my career goals..can afford to take it easy but would love to meet a nice guy. I've had very few relationships even though I know Im good fun and am pretty (lots of friends tell me & Im often asked out). Two relationships went on for a few yrs but i couldnt have imagined spending my life with one of those guys and the other one lacked focus (I work hard and need this in a guy). I even tried online datine recently..but it is not my thing..I need to feel someone's presence to see if I like them. Problem is my taste is v narrow...younger guys/goodlooking/high achievers/nice person. I like so few, it is so difficult not to be lonely sometime. I have a good life otherwise, nice friends & family..but need LOve! Is this bad luck? Why cant I meet 'my guy'? I dont go consciously looking for a guy..just live my life but still, Im hungry for love.
2007-12-30 04:07:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love comes along when it wants to.
2007-12-30 04:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. True love doesn't exist. You're searching for a fantasy that does not exist.
2. Real love takes time, hard work and compromise.
3. You are only going for one type of guy and when that doesn't work out, you stay with that type. So you will keep repeating your pattern over and over.
4. When you are desperate and needy, no guy wants you.
2007-12-30 12:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby you are still young,i believe that you can try more that what you tried before , life is beautiful always as the women it coming new and new i hope that you can feel happy in all cases, Men like cars may you Reid wrong men so you can try one more. good luck and Happy new year
2007-12-30 18:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋