I always heard that if a guy likes you he will call you alot. But, I don't think that's the case, at least not in my experience. Guys, please explain.
2007-12-30 01:40:31 · 17 answers · asked by Dimples 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rejection is a very painful,demeaning and hurtful thing and alot of guys will do without rather than subject themselves to that over and over.I tended to let the girls call me-that way you know your advances will not be rejected or she wouldnt have called.If you want him-CALL HIM!
2007-12-30 02:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by john t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I have been afraid to call a lady. It seems the more I like her, the greater my fear of rejection is. When I do make the call and we talk, everything after that depends on the vibe I got from her. If we both seem interested in each other I'll continue calling. Some younger boys over-think things and wonder if and when they should call. But for me, I just explain my exact intentions and feelings and see how she responds. Either go to the next step or move on...
2007-12-30 01:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the very first time guy too afraid or nervous to call a girl they really like
2007-12-30 01:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do get seriously nervous yeah, I was one of them.
Girls do always say that its always girls that get nervous and guys act casually the majority of the time but it can more than known be the other way round too
2007-12-30 01:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely it depends at what stage of the friendship/relationship your at. If you have just exchanged numbers he is probably really nervous about ringing you, however if you have already spoken a few times and he is not calling you - take the hint and delete his number!
2007-12-30 01:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are, most definately. And the more they like the girl, the more afraid they will be.
2007-12-30 01:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Rational 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in that same boat, but I know that my boyfriend likes me a lot, but he never calls me... so you know, it really depends. If he gives u a lot of atention, then yah, you can expect that he is just to nervous to talk to u over the phone...Try callin him.
2007-12-30 01:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. i rly like this guy and it took 4EVER to get him to call me instead of txting or something. Now we talk atleast once a day on the phone. remember, guys can get nervous and shy too.
2007-12-30 01:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mr Rational. I've been too nervous to call.
2007-12-30 01:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well im not a guy but, guys are usually sometimes afriad to call a girls house. if you have a cell then give him your number and maybe he will call you on that. besides once your together(dating) then he will prob call you non stop. that's what happens with me!
Hope it helps_kay
2007-12-30 01:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋