What do you think of a mother that leaves her husband of 18 years, 4 children ages 3,4,13,15,?

Question

and runs off to live in another State, with her "true love" from catholic high school?

I'm just a neighbor that has been deemed morally inferior by this class act.

By morally inferior, I mean non-catholic. According to her 4 out of 6 families on the cul-de-sac are going to hell.
Seems to me she moved to the front of the line.

Answer 1

What I want to know is what kind of man would want a women like that? I predict she will get what she deserves

Answer 2

Lets see: Even though there are 2 sides to every story, there is no way that I could ever believe that the other side of this story is a good reason. Let me see here: Wrong, ruthless, selfish, hateful, mean, waste of skin, waste of space, worthless, inexcusable, heartless and uncaring is just a few of the things that I can come up with right off. I am sure there are several other descriptions of what I think of that so called "mother". And that crap about catholics is a load of bull. Some people I know consider the vatican (catholic church) the same as the anti-Christ. It makes me sick just reading what you wrote about that woman who abandoned her kids and husband. By the way, that is way against the catholic beliefs or I thought that it was. Some people are just horrible. There should be a law with a heavy price to pay as there is for murderers and thieves. Maybe I am feeling too strong about this topic but then again I don't know if I am or not. God Bless that family she left behind.

Answer 3

Not right. Child does need the caring nature of mom otheriwse his life in the future is going to be the same hell as hers. Whatever she needed could have gotten in her own own backyard she just needs to look it right. Every man or women in the world could be changed if we honestly try and share our feelings. There is always a way to be happy without offending anybody else one just needs to practice it. One will see the heaven on earth, if every man and women from today onwards just start openign up their feelings honestly no matter how stoop (or low) it may sound, no matter if it breaks all the social norms that we have observed so far. I never see a reason why a complete entity (a woman) should run away until and unless it is physically abusive but still take your kids with you. Kids originate from you so you are the creator (who we call god) and god never leave his child behind until and unless there is manufacturing defect :-)

Answer 4

My guess is that after the "new" has worn off with this new guy, she will want her kids back. She'll probably wage an incredible custody battle against her husband. I hope he doesn't wimp out and make things easy for her. It sounds like he already has. He needs to hang on to those kids as tight as he can. He's the only sane thing they have in their lives. The woman will regret what she's done once the shine on this new guy's armor wears off, and it will sooner than you think. Only a true pig would want a married woman with children.

Answer 5

People usally do things for a reason. I can't image a woman leaving a kid as young as 3 or old as 15 unless as the other's stated she is selfish or something so horrible that she ran off and left her kids. This is a statement that I would like to hear both sides of.

Answer 6

Judge not, less ye be Judged, too.
I would say this woman went down the wrong path, and was very desperate to get away from the husband. She even left her kids behind in order to get away.
Just be glad you aren't her, and that you are not one of the children she abandon. They may have a heck of a hard time recovering from this blow. We often hear of men that do this, but it is rare for a mother to walk away from the whole kit n' caboodle. My catholic mother-in-law left 8 kids after 20 years of marriage. The kids, as adults now, face all sorts of issues including trust, attachment, loyalty, bonding, and abandonment. It's hard for them to this day, even though the mother has started to try and rebuild a connection to them. She left in order to save herself "from a marriage that was emotionally unsatisfying". However, she was remarried within the year to another man with whom she has been with since. None of us understand it, either. Good Luck.

Answer 7

I can't answer that because I don't know the whole story or her side of the story. That's none of my buisness but I think you should not critize people, just try to help them and the kids get along.


P.S. why are you asking this question on here when you know what people are going to say?

Answer 8

Seems to me you are gloating. All I'm thinking about is those poor kids, not being morally superior like that matters in the tragedy of their lives. Shame on you.

Answer 9

"About Time!" It sounds to me like you have been working at this relationship for a long, long time now... for the sake of your marriage, for your children, for the church, for many different things, except for yourself. It's about time you are finally doing something to make yourself happy, so good on you! Your children may be too young to understand that you had to leave for your own sake, but keep strong in that you have given 18 of your precious years to making your husband and your children happy, and you now need to take care of yourself. Reassure your children that you will continue loving them as you always have, and that you are still the same person and same Mom they know you as. I am happy for you that you are finally able to do something for yourself, it's About Time. : )

Answer 10

azz hole giving the truth...

If the kids are in good hands with her ex, and she intends on being in their life - whats the big deal.

Everyone deserves to find their happiness, and if their happiness is falling in love with someone. Then be it.

BUT she has also responsibility for the children. Stay in their lives and support & Raise them.

peace and good luck

Answer 11

wow....i pain for the kids...don't be surprised if she tries to come back...marriages do grow in a different direction than a fling as i want to call it....i think she is going through a mid-life crisis---i have been marriedfor 33 yrs....would never ever leave my kids no matter what..death would be the only thing