My ex is all in my head, she is all i can think about. I want her back so badly its becoming too much to bear not knowing if she would have me ever again. But what keeps me going is I believe she still holds a small flame for me, but I can't be sure- she has given me a few signs since we've been apart. I have even talked to her and sent emails saying how I feel- and she has not told me to stop saying those things as I have asked her to do if there is nothing there to grasp.
Guys i am not playing, i am unravelling i love her so very much and I tell her in these mails-
We have been apart for 3 months and during this time there were a few things that happened that caused me to hang on because she had let me hold her and even kiss her passionately once - so i consulted God, he wont answer. What do I do?
For 5 days now, she has flooded my thoughts and its the hardest thing Ive had to endure in my life I believe.
We had over 3 years together, i want her back! Im dying to have her
2007-12-30 01:47:33 · 10 answers · asked by Diadem 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can go ahead and say things i might not want to hear, but know this as you do...I have soul searched and found everything points to me needing to try for all its worth to win her back.
Am I crazy? Maybe, but I am nothing without her.
When we love someone sooooo much, arent we supposed to do anything to preserve it or get it back? I know she still loves me, I feel it in her voice when we do speak- should I dump all this on her or, slowly die and wither away like i seem to be going?
2007-12-30 01:56:57 · update #1
we are both in our mid 30's.
2007-12-30 01:59:59 · update #2
God did answer you, you just don't want to hear it. If after 3 months she doesn't want to be with you, then that's your answer. People in love with someone don't treat the object of their love this way. Move on, its over.
2007-12-30 01:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can court her again? Just take it easy. Don't let her see you are so desperate to have her again or else, she will distance herself. You didn't say the reason of your break-up. If the reason of the break-up was a third party, well I think you try your damnest to convince her that she's really the one you love. If the reason is if she feels suffocated of your too much love for her, then promise her that you'll give her space. If you're the jealous type, try not to be. My point is, whatever the reason of the break up, you need to work on it and change whatever needs changing for the better. Good luck!
2007-12-30 02:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So take the next step. Ask her out on a date. A real date. Start all over, and renew your relationship. Don't expect to just move back in and continue where you left off. Date her like you just met, and forge a brand new relationship. If she says yes, you're golden. If she says no, keep trying for a while, but at some point you may have to move on.
Good Luck.
2007-12-30 04:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you... she could see you e-mailing her all the time that you love her a sign of weekness... stop sending her those e-mails... and talk to her face-to-face... she cannot lead you on or etc.. if you guys are face-to-face... if you love her take the steps to get her back but, she must feel the same... some girls lead guys on and have no intentions of going back... good luck...
2007-12-30 02:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by shelly v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you??? Is this your first big crush on a woman?
Are you too emotionally unstable to look for another woman....
If you are a young guy looking for women why do you worry so much about this lady? You cannot beg your way back into a relationship.....you will look spineless if you do. There are plenty of very nice women in this world....go to dances, clubs, beaches, parties, a cruise where there are tons of women, meet someone new.....I would forget her, unless she calls me back.....again, you cannot beg to get someone's attention....you will look foolish.
2007-12-30 01:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by bigmikeumpire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men only want that which they cannot have. You had her, you didn't treat her right, you may have even broken up with her. So why now? Why do you have to have her back? Is it because she's a challenge? You need to be with a woman who you want to be with, not someone who you want to be with only because she doesn't want to be with you. If you broke up with her, then stop playing with her heart and truly let her go.
2007-12-30 02:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sassie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
azz hole here with my two cents...
just ask her out, if your old enough...
And start by just being friends. If it leads to more than your in luck. just have fun and do not push your feelings too much on to her.
Go with the punches dude, one punch at a time.
2007-12-30 02:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by azz hole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space and do other things to get her out of your mind for awhile...You are going to drive yourself nuts....If you are meant to be together....she will come back to you...You can't make someone want to be with you...
2007-12-30 01:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I have even talked to her and sent emails saying how I feel- and she has not told me to stop saying those things as I have asked her to do if there is nothing there to grasp."
Are you telling her your feelings STRAIGH OUT or are you hinting at her??? if you're only hinting......there's your problem.
2007-12-30 03:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so get her...why did you break up anyways....if you love her..and she you...then go be with her
2007-12-30 01:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Leannamick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋