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I am seeing a man, great looking, romantic, good job, is totally into me, but as soon as we started dating, a close male friend told me he had feelings for me, and now I'm confused, I keep finding myself thinking about my friend instead of my boyfriend, weird thing is I'm not physically attracted to my friend, my boyfriend is much hotter, but I can really talk to my friend about anything, we are really close. I even had a sexual dream about my friend, I don't understand , I should be completely happy with my new boyfriend, why do I keep thinking about my friend, am I with the wrong guy?

2007-12-30 17:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by Chris TM 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

Everyone seems to judge guys on how "hot" they are. I am not sure what everyone includes in that description, I would think it is just looks and physique. Maybe you are learning what is really important in a guy and your friend has more of it than your new boyfriend. There are a lot of qualities of character and personality that are more important in a relationship than looks, after all they fade with time. .

2007-12-30 17:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0 0

think of it this way ...if you break up with the bf to date the friend and it doesnt work out ..will you have lost your friendship with him ? .. what made him decide to tell you after you got a bf that he liked you ? ...sometimes we want what we cant have .....

2007-12-31 02:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by autumn 5 · 0 0

other guys always want us when we're taken. and you think about him because you can't have him and when you look at him you know he wants you, then you'll start thinking, but "what if....."

and we only take notice of guys who like us when we're happy with our guy.

2007-12-31 01:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by syd o 3 · 0 0

I think you'll find out in time what you really feel. Maybe.

2007-12-31 01:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by topakat11 2 · 0 0

yes sounds like your with the wrong guy , you have stronger feelings for the other guy

2007-12-31 01:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0 0

your friend is your friend

2007-12-31 01:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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