i just found out my exwife and my kids cant come down.
they live in ok i live in tx so some please tell me why dose it hurt so bad when I cant see them
you would think after awhile i would be easy but it not
i all ways look forward to seeing them
2007-12-30 17:38:04 · 27 answers · asked by Bobby T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
me and my ex have been talking about geting back together and she will alway have a place in my heart for her
2007-12-30 17:59:45 · update #1
Family is everything and when theyre loved and missed like yours obviously it is hard to not know when you willl see them again. i'm the same way wtih my dad. i live in ky due to the divorce with my mother and he lives in ND with all his side of the family. he only comes when a grandchild is born. so my sister and i just keep popping them out so we can see him, makes us feel like we werent ever important enough for him to drive all this way for us. now we try to go there whn we can and see everyone. it's hard not knowing the next time you will see a loved one. then when u dont and thought u would u cant help but get sad. just look forward to the next time, maybe they had trouble financially and just didnt' want to make it ur burden. or somehting came up that they just couldn't get around. keep calling them and letting them know u love them adn miss them and cant wait to see them.
2007-12-30 17:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
I do feel very sorry for you. I know you are a long way away from each other but you've just gotta hang in there. Maybe try and find a special friend for someone to keep you company. Then if you build a strong relashipship, you might not really be so sad. I know you won't forget about them and I understand but sometimes you just got to let go. I wish you all the luck in the world,
Smileygirl xox
2007-12-30 17:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man I know it's tough. I am going through a divorce right now too.
All I believe it means is that you love your kids. That's great!
Depending on how often you get to see them, I guess is the variable the needs to be considered. If nothing else you could at least call them, or E-mail photos back and forth.
I realize there is no subistute for a good ond fashioned hug, but any contact is better than none.
2007-12-30 17:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you miss them and this stuff hurts! It's okay to hurt over it. You are really disappointed and it's hard to feel that way. You love your kids and it sounds like you still love your ex. This is supposed to hurt. If it didn't, it would be a problem. Just keep trying to go forward and do the work you need to do (do you have a counselor or therapist? they can be really really helpful for stuff like this). Good luck. If you don't have a counselor and think you may like one, here is a link.
2007-12-30 17:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will always want to see them, and as much as it hurts...it's a good thing. I'm sorry that you're disappointed, but there will be other times.
Don't ever give up on them and always let them know that you are there for them.
You may not be with the mom anymore, but that doesn't matter. They are a part of you and your past and will be in your future.
Love
2007-12-30 17:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well of course you feel heart broken. That is your family no matter what. I would be sad if i could not see my family. And to be honest i have not seen my sister and niece for almost 2yrs now and i wish they could be here with me. but she hard headed. Any hoo don't worry maybe they can come next week or a different time.. Hope you Feel Better
2007-12-30 17:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by k1ss_m3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that and it must be rather difficult to not being able to see your children during the Holidays.
Is your divorce quite recent?
Keep your spirits up no matter what!
Take it easy & HAPPY NEW YEAR!
2007-12-30 17:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because you're a real man with a heart. It's ok to miss your children because they're a part of you and as far as your ex wife goes...it's ok to miss her too. You once had a life together. It's ok...hang in there...My heart goes out to you.
2007-12-30 17:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by PJ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think anyone would be hurting if they can't see their family. Is there anyway for you to go and see them? Talk on the phone? I hope you get reunited with your family again soon.
2007-12-30 17:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by greyskymourning82 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's "braking" because it's going too fast.
If you mean "breaking", it's because you're human and you have feelings. You obviously love them very much.
Sorry you're feeling this way. Just try to be good to yourself and be occupied with other things.
2007-12-30 17:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by PontificalPape 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋