I'm 18 and I'm wid my bf it's lready 10 months. There's this girl whoz lways fta him! Was his frn n lately she wnts mre! She noz everyfin bout me and him.
My bf put thngs straight wid her. But yesterday I found that he still had sme of her messages saved on his fone since August. He snatched the fone when I reached one mssg bout "taking your time... and u still kissed me". I cudnt read d whole mssg.
He did kiss her before knowing me...
I didn't say anyfin on the spot bt the fact dat he wudnt talk bout it makes me mad!!!!!
Js hearing that girl's name gets me in a state! I'm at the moment really pissed off wid him.
Am I being unreasonable? Help plz!
2007-12-30 18:25:57 · 17 answers · asked by Who cares?! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 18 and I'm with my bf it's lready 10 months. There's this girl who is always after him! Was his friend ann lately she wants more! She knows everything about me and him.
My bf put things straight with her. But yesterday I found that he still had some of her messages saved on his phone since August. He snatched the phone when I reached one mssg bout "taking your time... and u still kissed me". I cudnt read the whole mssg.
He did kiss her before knowing me...
I didn't say anything on the spot but the fact that he wudnt talk bout it makes me mad!!!!!
Js hearing that girl's name gets me in a state! I'm at the moment really pissed off wid him.
Am I being unreasonable? Help plz!
Is this better?????
2007-12-30 18:37:23 · update #1
its called english and grammar people. try and learn it.
2007-12-30 18:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by abominusprime 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First let me get this out of the way. If you ever ask a question again, could you please talk straight.
My opinion would be to dump him before you wast anymore time with him. I sure wouldn't trust him. He can't talk to you about this matter, then he has secrets.
Don't even give her consideration. She's not worth getting upset about. She's about as nuts as he is. As a matter of fact, they deserve each other. He'll do to her, what he just did to you!
He's not crossing any ones (females) name off his possibles list.
Unreasonable - NO! Move away from the both of them.
Just tell him "you don't need him anymore."
By the way, what I said above, I just don't understand most of the abbreviations. So it takes me longer to understand the question.
2007-12-31 02:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by Eagles Fly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to him about her and see how he feels about her. He might like, but he's scared to tell you. In some relationships sometimes people start to like somebody, but later they stop. It's like a stage that you all have to complete if you all feel the same way about her, or that you have to complete, you what i'm saying. Talk to your man and everything will be fine. Or if you're too shy and don't feel like talking about another girl, you might want to talk to the girl, you know explain her the situation in which you are and she might understand how you feel and you know stop. You are actually jealous and that's normal, if luv your man so much and he's a nice looking guy, you must be jealous. Just don't let that become something that you care about all the time. Trust your man and don't read his msgs because some people think that what the person next to them is doing is too much and they brake long relationships just for nothing. So be careful of what you doing. Talk to somebody that you think can help you, but always tell your man a little something because if you don't he might take it serious and say: "Hey, why didn't you tell me about that?".... OK? Don't worry everything is going to be fine.
2007-12-31 02:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by narrotor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a friend in the same position right now. I would say if he's tried to tell her he's not interested in her and that he's tacken then nothing should be wrong, nut the fact that he saved those messages and wouldn't talk to you about it makes me a little suspicious. I guess you should just sit back, let the scene unfold and then decide what you want to do.
2007-12-31 02:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I really am a geezer, but I can't understand anything you wrote. Is this some foreign language, bastard English, text message lingo, or illiteracy. If you are looking for answers you need to communicate in real English.
2007-12-31 02:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny Dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did they teach you in school? This is NOT shorthand and what would it save by writing the way you do? I'll bet you sit on your as & do nothing more than it would take to write what I would call longhand. Since you won't write correctly then maybe you pay attention it shorthand? You are missing the point. Get it then, you'll have it! No one thinks in shorthand. So, do you think it's cool? Looks like **** to me, & it's also harder to read, like another language. Speak english, think english!
2007-12-31 02:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Steve, High On The Hill,Ca. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I couldn't understand most of your question. You should take the time to spell your words correctly instead of using so many shortcuts so that more people could understand what you are asking.
2007-12-31 02:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by Araceli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with the others -- netspeak does have its limits, and you've passed those up completely in this question. I've tried reading your question three times and still am not quite getting it.
2007-12-31 02:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by darkridr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um the part i understood because of your poor grammer would lead me to believe that you are in fact being un reasonable and you should spend less time worrying about what he is doing, and more time relizing that your a eighting year old girl who can not spell the word THE correctly. maybe he is cheating on you, for a girl with a better vocabulary. who could blame him?
2007-12-31 02:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it would be better to end it because you are both young. You are not married or living together with kids so don't worry about it. It is wrong of both of them but leave them to themselves and move on.
2007-12-31 02:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
look just sit down and ask whats going on and if there still seeing echather and if he gets mad he cheating on you.
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trust me i know how you feel but you shouldent skip to concluesions just sit down with the both of them and ask whats going on.
2007-12-31 02:37:08 · answer #11 · answered by rere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋