My Girlfriends parents are very over protective and wont let her "date" until she is 16 (which will be next month) but the crappy part is that they consider EVERYTHING a date if she wants to come visit me AT MY HOUSE with my parents there at all times its a date and vice versa but whats weirder is that i knew her and her parents before we started dating and they liked me and at least her dad still does but her mom seems like she hates the very ground i walk on, okay for example she got to come over to our house last night and we had a nice time and all but when we took her home (my parents and i) i walked her in to drop off some presents for her parents and said merry Christmas her dad smiled at me and her mom gave me a soul piercing scoul.So i don't get it her mom has liked me since we met and her dad too,there Christian and so am i i don't swear never drink or smoke or anything and she herself has NEVER done anything to prove herself untrustworthy to them so please help how to cope.
2007-12-30 18:09:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and did i mention that shes only a few months older than i and on another note:i mean we're both a bit young but i REALLY REALLY REALLY like her A LOT and i mean A LOT like love if you catch my drift.
2007-12-30 18:11:33 · update #1
I definitely understand your predicament. I come from a Christian background and I too was not allowed to date until I was 16. Now being 24, I look back and can objectively look at the situation. There is nothing you can do about the mother's perception of you. She's probably just upset that her daughter is growing up and also afraid of what might happen if you two are alone. As far as the dating situation is concerned...you've got to deal with it. If those are her parent's rules, you must respect them, whether or not it seems fair to you. If its ok to go to her house while her parents are there, do so and just spend time with her there. You both ARE very young and there is so much time in both of your lives for romance. Do what you can do now, and maybe the more you start hanging out at her house with her and staying respectful, the more her parents may realize what a great guy you are and start being more lenient about the dating rules. Good luck!
2007-12-30 18:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Applepie33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as her mom is concerned nobody will ever be good enough. Just be your own sweet self.
2007-12-31 02:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't matter who you are, no one will be good enough for their daughter.
so i guess just roll with the punches and good luck
2007-12-31 02:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋