Am I I jealous or do I hate my friend?

Question

last two years me and my best friend have been hanging out with diferent people. He started hanging out with stoners and trouble makers, liars, people that want to fight people for any reason. Yeah I have friends that are stoners but not all of them and I don't want to see myself as a stoner, I to like to cause trouble here and there but not everyday and for some reason he thinks that getting with the trouble with the cops a lot is fun can some please tell me if that is really fun? And for some reason I think he think he is better or tougher then me because he has done some pretty bad stuff, does that make them tough or stupid? He called me a pussy one day because him and another kids were making bombs trying too with gun powder and oil and I told him I didn't want any part of it. I'm starting to find him someone I can't trust I feels as though he says **** behind my back so I have no idea if I'm jealous because some things he likes to do I don't and there something in my mind saying..

Yes do the things he does it may make you get more friends or should I ignore it?

and not make it take over me and just keep on being the person I am?

Answer 1

Sounds like you've grown up and don't need any dumb a s s dragging you down!
Now-a-days, friends who like to make bombs and scare people are not friends ANYONE would want to hang around with. He sounds like a future murderer or suicide freak show bomber.
Lose the stoners and get yourself involved with anything else -buy a dog if you have to! YOU'LL be better off!!!

Answer 2

Maybe there is something in your mind telling you this guy is a loser and nothing but trouble. He doesn't sound as if he has any sense, and you do. Stay away from him so you will not be at the wrong place and the wrong time and arrested with him and the rest of these people if something does go wrong. You should care less if the likes of him talks about you behind your back. Find something better to do with your life and stay away from people like this. They will only pull you down with them. If he doesn't get killed first from doing dangerous things like making bombs, he will end up in prison being some Bubba's girlfriend.

Answer 3

It's neither. It's not that your jealous and it's not that you hate your friend. It's the total oppisote. You care for you friend. You don't want him to get hurt or get in trouble with the cops. If my friend was doing what he was doin, I would either talk to them, or completely stop being friends with them and drop their sorry ***. Since he calls you a *****, he obviously isn't exactly "friend" material.

Do not do what he is doing. Everything he is doing is screwing up the rest of his life.

Also, I would DEFINETLY tell someone about the bombs. From the description you gave me, he sounds like he's gonna cause another....oh my gosh...I can't remember the name...but you know about the two kids that came to school with all the guns and bombs and killed all those people....that's how they started. From doin what you friend is doin. I'm beggin you, please tell someone. A teacher, your parents, his parents, the cops, somebody! I don't want it to happen again

Answer 4

He doesn't seem like a friend to me. And he seems like a violent person I would stay away from. With as many billion gazillion people that live on this planet, i simply would find some new friends whom you enjoy their company but their life ambitions are not to blow up the world while being stoned and getting in trouble with the cops. There is more to life than alcohol and weed, so I would definaltey find a new cool group to hang out with and tell him to go on with his life, and have fun with out you. You're above this! I can tell by the way you wrote your question. You can do it, you are intellegent unlike him and you can hang out with people that are the same way.

Answer 5

definite- human beings that detest Jews are the two ignorant (have by no capacity met a Jew) or are purely jealous of their achievement. Come right down to South Fl. and you spot how interior the top type neighborhoods ($650k+ residences ) you're a minority in case you have Christmas decorations lol once you get into multi-million subdivisions you're fortunate in case you notice ANY Christmas decorations lol

Answer 6

I would stay away from this "friend". No good can come of this relationship. I would also report the bomb making to the authorities. You seem like you care about people; do the same for yourself. Hope this helps.

Answer 7

wow thats scary ... because him and another kids were making bombs trying too with gun powder and oil ... but i dont think you hate him or are jelus... at frst i thot u were...And for some reason I think he think he is better or tougher then me because he has done some pretty bad stuff.....
i just think u realized.... hes not the type u wana hang out with....

Answer 8

there are people that are stoners that don't act like trouble makers your friend is a loser,you don't need the trouble.you don't need to hate your friend to not hang out with him,but you can find better friends.and learn how to talk while you're at it.

Answer 9

I don't think you are jealous. I just think you don't like what your friend does. Listen, I know he's your friend and all but then if he's doing these things, then stay away from him. Try to talk to him, and if all else fails, stay away. That's the best you can do. Good luck!

Answer 10

be the person you are. the person he is and his actions will get back at him. he will have to take responsibility for his bad actions. don't get into what he's into. he will end up with a bad future.

again, be the person you are, it will pay off.
you made a great choice backing away from the "bombs" they were trying to make. continue to be the person you are and you'll have a brighter future than his.