Sometimes we take our anger about work or school or whatever, out on the very people we love the most. Whjen you are on the receiving end of someone's anger, what hurts you the most, emotionally? What did that person do? What did he or she say that hurt your feelings?
2007-12-30 19:24:37 · 15 answers · asked by ThisIsIt! 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What hurts me the most is seeing my daughter being abused by boyfriends, and she's more angry at me for trying to help her, than she is at those jerks who tear her up inside! Seeing a child hurting is so awful, and you feel helpless when they don't let you into their world.
2007-12-30 19:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The person that I looked up to, that I confided in turned away from everything he ever stood for and the people that love him most so that he could induldge in things that had burdened him for so long, but could not allow himself to fall to.
It's painful. He was one of the few people that I can almost fully relate to. and he has made me who i am, and has strengthened me more than i even take notice of......and yet this person i know, no longer exists.
2008-01-01 13:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing that hurts the worst is when a family member knows you and hates you because they know you so well. They know you better than most people so that gives their opinion of you much more credibility.
2007-12-31 04:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parents have a very rocky relationship.
It hurts me a lot when my mom talks sh!t about my dad.
It also hurts me a lot when she tells me that she stayed in America and stayed with my father just for me and my little sister...it's true, when I was around 5 my mother asked me how I would feel if she divorced my father. Of course I said I wouldn't like that. So now she brings it up and tells me it's my fault that she has a miserable life. Well I always think it was never my choice to be born to her, while she had the choice to have an abortion or use a freaking condom...it's more her fault that I was born than it is mine. When I was in middle school the fighting between my parents was really bad and I always wished I was never born, I actually wanted to be an abortion. Now I am a little more grateful for my life but I always wish my mom wouldn't have to make my family's life so difficult. The only thing is I know she is hurt by this too, she doesn't like being surrounded by people who don't speak her language, she has no friends in America, my dad isn't rich enough to support us so her and her family had to take out a lot of money and we made her side of the family poor and stuff...I feel really guilty but at the same time, I'm not sorry.
2007-12-30 19:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by travwell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, from the original bold question that you post/asked, it just said from all your relationships..., and so on and it didn't say meaning from anger so if you don't mind then I just want to answer the first part of the question. The person that gave me the most pain throughout my life is my significant other(lover) because of the stupidity that he has to tell me about his feelings. What he said that jabbed my heart forever was when he told me a while back that he really missed another girl(he said the name to and I know who it is) while we were still together and didn't even apologize or say anything at all. He told me what he missed about that person and for what reason. It hurts so much because you put all your love into them and you always hear them saying that they love you but for some reason they just start missing someone else. Those lines will stay in my heart forever because I feel that he is not completely mine, and I can't believe him(even though I try my hardest to) when he says that he loves and misses me only because of the insecurity and the guards that I have set up around my heart. I don't want to be hurt because that feeling always drags me down and make me weak. He tries to prove to me every day of our lives, that he loves me and there will be no other, but the past has always haunted me down. I would say that nothing hurts more than to hear the person or people you love with all your heart and soul say to you that they love or care for someone else, or almost like saying that you are not all that they need. It hurts to know that the one you have given your life to is not entirely yours only. Hope that this answers your question. Take care and good luck.
2007-12-30 19:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most hurtful word they intend to disown or boycott you because of who you really are. At first you thought it was just an angry words. But later the words become true and the hate stays there forever.
On may 2007, I had a same-sex relationship for quite some time and my mom discovered it. She hate my partner and told his mom that turns up an awful argument.
We had a very serious talk at that time and she scolded me that I'm the most disgraceful son to the family. I borrowed a lot of money and haven't settled the debt with my own family and she told me that she will never trust me anymore and ask me to leave.
That hurts.
2007-12-30 19:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Paladin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My kids hurt me the most - so ungrateful. My son has changed a lot and now tells me thank you for being there for him and for raising him the best I could. Him being a father now can see that is isn't easy and when your a single parent it really isn't easy and he sees I loved them and was always there for them.
My daughter on the other hand is a mess right now. She hates me because I didn't approve of her boyfriend - she's 17, he's 28 - so she moved out and doesn't speak to me. Tomorrow that will change - I have a plan!
After them, I would have to say my mom because no matter how hard I try to connect with her - parent to parent -I am always wrong so now I give up. She knows where to reach me so when she's ready to know me she can call - am I doing to her what my daughter has done to me? Maybe so, but in 37 years I have done nothing right so why bother?
2007-12-30 19:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly R 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he didn't respect me. he dumped me for no reason, and didn't talk to me. he was disrespectful to my friends, too. and the next year when he liked me again, he expected me to just take him back. i don't even know why i dated him in the first place....so stupid of me!
2007-12-30 19:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by k.k.<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mother was constantly emotionally abusive to me and that hurt.
not because of what she said necissarily, but because of who said it.
2007-12-30 19:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by -ish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mum and dad hurt me emotionally the most, because they blame me for things i dont do and say im selfish. It really lowers my self confidence.
2007-12-30 19:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by RY14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋