Is this normal? And if so--why? I've been married 16 years and just turned 40 a few months ago. I've always been satisfied with sex once a week (more in the early yrs of our marriage), but I want it ALL the time now and I'm going crazy! Hubby loves it and is able to do it on average once a day, sometimes twice (at least 12 hrs in between). But I'm still constantly horny and wanting more. I've never ever ever cheated, but am now fantasizing this and it scares me. On top of that a few weeks ago some guy called the wrong number looking for his wife (supposedly) and talked me into having phone sex. He calls maybe once a week, sometimes less, but this has just added to my already high sex drive and now I want to meet him--although scared he might be a freak. I am exercising more than ever because that tends to get rid of some of the sexual energy. But, like I said, is this normal? If so, why the heck is this happening and how long will it last?
2007-12-30 22:56:32 · 8 answers · asked by kk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes,...heehee it's very normal. As a matter of fact, I had MORE sex from age 40 to 48 than I did in my entire life. Calm down on the cheating, it's not the thing to do......but have fun with hubby 'cuz if you're anything like I was, it'll last for years!!!....Hurray for the 40's!!
2007-12-31 04:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 17:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by marve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-31 08:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear KK
Sounds to me you just got your second wind. Sexual energy is always there and just lays dormant if not used. To me it sound slike you need S.x and hubby has not preformed enough for you. We all fantasize about other people and some are lucky like you to have had phone sex. Nothing wrong with that and it can get exciting and enjoyable for both involved. Exercising has increased your desire to have sex and that is why you are feeling so horny which is good. I have met a person to fulfill the same needs as you are feeling. I made sure it was kept discreet and and she was a little younger then i.
Good Luck
PS at least you can use a toy if you needed guys cant do that
Good Luck
2007-12-30 23:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by ho8er2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for women in their 40's. I wouldn't cheat on your husband of 16 years. If you can't get enough exercise more control. If you can't do that go to your doctor. I know this will be somewhat of an embarrassment but, do so. Do not have intercourse with that man!!!! I would stop having phone sex with him too, in my mind that is cheating on your hubby. Go to the doctor and tell your hubby that you are having problems with it. You need his support. Maybe he can please you in other ways too.
2007-12-30 23:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't womens sexual desires peak in their thirties? You need to stay away from this guy who calls you and don't answer his calls. is it really worth breaking up your marriage for? Your husband WILL catch you! You should talk to him about your heightened desires. Maybe you should go buy a vibrator.
2007-12-30 23:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexual Peak, you've hit it. Not sure how long it will last. Enjoy it for now, I'm sure your hubby loves it. Avoid meeting the phone guy, that could get you hurt. Just stick with your hubby, excersizing, and masturbation to handle it. Would hate for something bad to happy to you.
2007-12-30 23:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysmyself 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's COMPLETELY normal. my mom's going through it. she called it life after 40. they say that when you turn 40 it's like your born again. you feel young & everything. & it probably will last till menopause. [or that's what i think.] i'm probably wrong. but my mom is 43 now. i don't know why it happens but my aunt said it's true. you feel renewed & you feel more adventurous.
haha i probably look really dumb but my mom's been going through it for like 3 years now. it's weird.
2007-12-30 23:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by seductive_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋