See, I really love this guy at school. I see him everyday. It hurts really bad because he doesn't like me the way I like him. I want so badly to tell him, but I can't. This is because 1. he doesn't know me well and 2. he's too gorgeous for me to be around. I can't look away from him. I see him walking down the halls and I have to jerk away. He has the most gorgeous eyes, the most gorgeous body and the most gorgeous EVERYTHING. I haven't loved too many times. I know that I will always love this guy. He's everything to me. I am so offended when I see or hear people talking so bad about him. I don't know what to do. My friends think I need to get over him, but I honestly cannot. I liked him a long time ago but I never knew who he was. Now, I know tons about him. He seems like a perfect guy for me. I don't know how I can keep this up. It's been around five months now and I'm still in love with him.
pLeAsE hElP mE!!!
What should I do?
2007-12-30 22:39:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is a powerful, positive energy between two people that makes you a better person. I am sorry but you don't have that.
You have Lust. You feel unworthy, that he is too good looking, angry when others talk negatively about him, you talk about his body parts " can't look away from him.... have to jerk away". your friends want you to get over him.
"It hurts really bad because he doesn't like me the way I like him."
This is not positive. You need to over this guy or get to really know him on a personel level and care for him that way.
2007-12-30 22:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be his freind,get clooser to him somehow,make his freinds ur frnds n go on
2007-12-30 22:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by blackknife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be "in love" with someone you dont know. You can however have a lust and a sexual attraction to a person that you see everyday. You should get up the courage to talk to him, do not however blurt out how much you like him as that will scare him away! But just start with Hi and see where it goes from there...
Honey you sound more like a stalker, you havent talked to him yet you have 'found' out so much info on him. Life is short and it is a new year. Take a stand and go for it! You may be suprised with results!!
All the best, wont wish you good luck coz you dont need it!
2007-12-30 22:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all stop watching him from the shadows command his attention talk to about something you both have in common not something he likes because you want to know about the subject so you don't sound like a complete idiot after you do this over time he may ask you on a "friendly outing" in other words a date if he doesn't.... ask him on one yourself you could go out with a group of friends if you don't know if you can control yourself while you are alone with him
2007-12-30 22:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a "fan" of his. He doesn't know you, you don't really know him...so that's not even to the point of calling it "puppy love" and it's surely not "love". It could be obsession (if you let it continue), it could turn into unwanted stalking and embarrassment, etc. What you're being is materialistic. You need to mature. There's more to love than what you're describing. If you fall for what your emotions currently are telling you you will be hurt, disappointed, etc.
Your friends tell you to get over him but you say you cannot. You need to find out why you cannot and solve that in your mind and move on.
2007-12-30 22:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm you have no choice to tell him.
When I was in school I had a serious crush on this boy called Pete- I joined 2 classes purely because I knew he'd be there. I even completed my Duke of Ed award - Hiking Mountains really isn’t my cuppa tea... but I knew it would mean time with him.
I look back now and kind of wish I said something - but then as you grow older, you will soon forget about this crush and move on to the next.
However if you are mad about him, the only way forward is to tell him.... if you cant to is face to face, try and find out him number and text him.
If he's not interested in you - his lost, there are millions and trillions of men out there....
Goodluck for 2008 x
2007-12-30 22:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by geminially 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already tried to get him and you know for sure that he's not interested just look for someone else. You will get over him. Everybody feels like they will never get over someone but in time you will be immune to his good looks and maybe even find someone you think is more perfect.
If you have never even talked to him, you should start with that. Find out what his hobbies are and try to spend some time around him. Maybe you could get to know each other and he wouldn't seem so intimidating.
2007-12-30 22:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hes probably not perfect when you get to know him i know im a man just ask him out and hope he says yes if not move on and you will know hes an ***.
2007-12-30 22:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by mike j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think: when there are 1000 guys that you know, he's just one..there are 999 guys that are left and probably one of them is your Mr. Right...
i tell you, if you won't move on, you will live in sorrow and it'll be hard for you to open your heart to someone new..
2007-12-30 22:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by Charm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the world turns
2007-12-30 22:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋