Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

Everyone is telling me to break up with this dude, even my brain says so but just when I'm about to do it, I chicken out.

How can i break up with someone I love and yet so painfully wrong for me?

2007-10-18 23:49:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some say that the only unconditional love or rather the purest form of unconditional love is that of a parent for their child........do you agree?

2007-10-18 23:48:46 · 20 answers · asked by Fluffy ♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

keep things running at the guest house. They have now asked me to work both my off weekends and I feel that I cannot say no. Last night my bf said that he's very disappointed because we had plans made a long time ago for these 2 weekends. How do I not let my personal life go down the drain, while trying to support my employers? I feel like a wanna cry, cause either party has a big dissapointment if I don't do as they ask.

2007-10-18 23:47:02 · 3 answers · asked by Kimberley L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this just came up b/c of a discussion with a g/f about her marriage. Her and her hubsand were fighting over porn and she was like well don't you get mad when your husband looks.
I was like honestly no. I don't mind him looking at porn, b/c to me that is different than him going to strip bar or looking at real women (i know these are real as well but its not like he is going to hook up with Belladonna or who ever) and plus it saves me from having sex when I really don't want to.
She seemed shocked. I did mention that their is a certain point that (some of you all might remember my questions last week) to me shouldn't be crossed though, getting pics from women that we know (real women) sexual chatting ect. But watching a porn or looking at some nude shots on line, doesn't bother me.

Does that make me weird?

I did tell her though that I thought if she really didn't like it then out of respect her husband shouldn't look. That caused a whole other conversation with my husband lol.

2007-10-18 23:44:47 · 34 answers · asked by his wife 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well i dont even know this person but i think i like them im in the
(9th) grade and they are too but i want to give the person a note but im afraid too because we never really had a chance to talk to each other yet and i want to give them a note telling them that i like them and if they want to go out but do i just walk up to them and give it to them because i dont have them in any of my classrooms PLEASE HELP ME i see them again on monday!

2007-10-18 23:43:03 · 2 answers · asked by hollister 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 23:39:07 · 11 answers · asked by aisha 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 23:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We get along great and he's more attentive to me than any of my older b/f's were! THe only thing that bothers me is that were always so physical....not that thats a bad thing but there is more to life than making out! I think he's totally hot and a great b/f but I am worried about his age and the stages of life we are at!

2007-10-18 23:38:11 · 9 answers · asked by river_runner 1 in Singles & Dating

The number of househusbands is increasing everywhere and they are being recognised.

Should they dress different like an housewife or only male attire with apron? Give your Wildest Thoughts.

2007-10-18 23:30:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, I'm 18 years old, my parents are in the middle of a divorce, my dad was just in the hospital with a serious illness and im the only family member who can take care of him, my mom says i never spend time with her, im going in to nursing school aka taking all my prerequisites, im engaged, my familys against it but his cant wait.. thats not til oct. 16th 2010. i work 12 hours tuesday and thursday, and go to school monday wensday and friday and work everyother weekend, im in 17 credit hours at school and my fiance lives with me as we house hop from his parents house, my moms and my dads. i am extremely stressed. can anyone help?!?!?!?!


oh and...
ok.. yes I AM the only one who can take care of my dad.. he cant afford a nurse.. NO my fiance is not muching off of me..he travels with me because its our only time together... our sex life is suffering horrible also :-(.. we house hop because we feel like our parents will be upset if we dont spend time with them.

2007-10-18 23:21:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Basically, here is my dating history with my girlfriend -

2 weeks ago: take her to a movie

1 week ago: take her to a movie ------> now we are going out

this week: ???

Is it stupid to ask her to a movie again? For me, we could go and see the worst movie possible and it would still be a good date, but will she just see me as unimaginative/boring?

I would ask her over to my house, but it's kind of weird (no real living room with TV, so we would be on my bed in my room watching my TV .

Do you think it would be better to ask her to the theater again or have her come over to my weird (you know, living room concerned anyways) house? By the way, we are both in high school.

2007-10-18 23:19:05 · 13 answers · asked by Moop 1 in Singles & Dating

How did it go? Did you miss your stuff? Regret it? Did it feel good? Tell me about it, please.

2007-10-18 23:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by prairieprincess 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-18 23:05:06 · 29 answers · asked by LOR 1 in Singles & Dating

im of 16 years old and like boys who dress up in baggy clothes or act like a punk

2007-10-18 23:03:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 22:49:27 · 5 answers · asked by roy a 1 in Friends

My ex and I dated for over 4 years. We broke up about 4 months ago over a miscommunication. During a conversation after our breakup, he promised me that once we got it together, we would try again to fix our mistakes and make it work. We have been around each other since we share the same phone line and we attend the same university. About a month ago, we started seriously talking about us getting back together. Now we act just like a couple, only we're not. Lately, he's been saying he is really thinking about us getting back together but he is afraid that it won't work out and we will have to go through the whole break up thing again. I am not so nervous. We have worked so hard to fix our problems and we are both happy with each other so I think we should. He asked me yesterday if I would feel weird if we went back together now cuz he wants to keep his promise and not necessarily because he wants to. I told him that he is just afraid of the hurt because we are together like that now.

2007-10-18 22:47:44 · 4 answers · asked by First Lady 5 in Singles & Dating

right, my daughters best friend and some other mates of hers, were killed in a crash 4 weeks ago and Joe, my daughters best mates dads said he's wrote on here and people give good answers, so i thought i would give it ago. my daughters best mate and her best mates boyfriend, my daughters boyfriend and 2 other girls and two other lads they were mates with where in a crash. one of the girls survived but she is in hospital with serious injuries. my daughter did not go out that night and i am very grateful that she didn't because she probably wouldn’t be alive now if she would have. but my daughters completely broken down. she says she wishes she was in the car with them all when they died. she doesn’t eat anymore,. she has said that she is thinking about killing herself so that she is with them all. i am so scared at what she might do. she doesn’t let anyone touch her or show anyone any feelings anymore. i have tried to get her to go to counselling but she says she doesn’t need it. help x

2007-10-18 22:34:06 · 17 answers · asked by {lauren} 1 in Family

I have beens friends no with this girl for nearly 4 years now (we are both 15 nearly 16). In this time we have become really close friends. So much so i really like her, i told her other friend who i no quite well aswell and she told the girl for me about my feelings for her.

Only problem is that she found out my feelings days after finding out another boy liked her. She seems to no give him prority as they never wer that close. I feel a little jealous at times with this as she is the one girl I have ever truely liked and i feel that my chance has just gone. What shall i do? (taking into account i am not that confident about talking about how feel)

2007-10-18 22:28:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-18 22:20:14 · 18 answers · asked by muni k 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard that girls like skinny guys. is 5'10'' 130 lbs skinny enough?

2007-10-18 22:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I will have been married 3 years in April. We are young, both 22, and have a son who will be 2 in January. (for all of you who are figuring it up we were married but just like to say the honeymoon worked LOL) Anyways, I work (3rd shift) and she stays at home with him. Money is tight but we pay our bills and splurge every so often. What I am getting at is we cant get past bickering. Either we are fantastic and could be role models for other young couples or we are fighting (bad). But heres my problem its over absolutely nothing!!! i.e. i didnt do the dishes in the right order(remember baby items, cups, silverware, plates and bowls and then pots and pans) or i get mad at her for waking me up to say shes leaving instead of her just leaving and letting me sleep. Our fights arent fights they are miniscule problems (bickering) compared to others real problems but we turn them into a 3-4 HOUR ordeal. How do we stop them at what they are (just differences) and not into a war?

2007-10-18 22:10:15 · 10 answers · asked by yay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i m in love with a girl who is in my relation and she also love me but we both are at different place now.she have gone some where without telling me,and i can't meet her,can't live without her, i can't forget her & now the situation is that i find no interest in any other girl coz i cant believe any other girl. and have no way to meet my girl. i feel so lonely. i have no friend who can share my feelings. is there any body who will like to be my friend.

2007-10-18 22:06:09 · 3 answers · asked by debu 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend that is staying with me because her and her husband separated for now but make a long story short he caught her cheating with an ex he didn't walk in on them he just saw some e-mails they had been sending to each other so he was mad as hell he told her to leave they have 3kids together 1 she had before they met and her and hubby has two together now he wants to take his two kids from her and try and prove her an unfit mom she does't work she is stay home mom has been for the 9yrs they have been married i want to help but i don't know anything about legal matters should has this i told her maybe she should get a job or even go to school then when he does try to take them maybe a judge will see that she is working and trying and he can't get them he works all the time so he doesn't have time to take care of them thats why she doesn't work thanks to anyone that can help

2007-10-18 22:03:32 · 8 answers · asked by mygirlfriends_now 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 21:56:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-18 21:56:24 · 21 answers · asked by NURA 1 in Singles & Dating

What are wives expecting from their husbands? Do husbands need to treat them with respect apart from love and care? How to know her dreams and make them come true. How to win her heart? What makes an ideal husband.

2007-10-18 21:55:10 · 17 answers · asked by turfyguy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My question is whether or not women like artistic guys (actual artists, not just some guy who can play guitar). They say they do, but I hear a lot of women freak out over guys with psychological issues. And in my experience, most TRUE artists, have issues to one extent or another.

I don't know whether to believe the one part of what they say or the other. I am a very romantic man who for the most part is pleasant to be around confident, and fun. But I reach modes of EXTREME darkness (my most creative moments), where I don't think anyone wants to be around me (lights off, no tv, just me and the dark, twisted thoughts in my mind).

I do take medication and go to therapy, but it can only do so much. I want to find the love of my life, but I dread subjecting anyone to the darkness I feel.

Ladies, would you be willing to date someone who has this sort of life? Would it turn you off if someone acted like this?

2007-10-18 21:52:28 · 3 answers · asked by Fun1 4 in Singles & Dating

she knew me as a active person who loves to exercise. I tried to help her , but she is never motivated. she knows she wants to lose weight, but no effort seems to be put in it.

I ended up gaining 20 pounds over the last 3 years. she's about 165. 5 feet. i know you should love someone from the inside... but how do you explain her being paranoid and jealous even a phone call with a guy friend when i am with her!? she checks me emails, monitor me everywhere. even oversea when i was studying, she checks school's club photos on the website for any update of me or anyone.

I run away from camera when they want to take a picture of me!

I told her to stop being jealous. She says she has no insecurities..is it because she feels fat and no one will love her like I do?

I can't stand it, sometimes I sigh* when I see normal size girls

2007-10-18 21:45:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to go out with this guy. We are seeing each other for some time. I reckon if he is really big, it will be painful for me.

2007-10-18 21:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by WorldCitizen 1 in Singles & Dating

I love women with big feet...it really looks cool to me when I have compared with a few and theirs were bigger most of them seemed to not mind it either. I have found it easy to find women with larger feet than me as I only wear a 7 to 7.5 in mens are yours also bigger? do you think its weird or unusual that I like this?

2007-10-18 21:29:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating