Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

I seem to complement girls when I dont even try.

2007-10-18 15:58:49 · 9 answers · asked by mr.fahrenheit 2 in Singles & Dating

Im worried about it cause i need a final count of guests for my wedding. They never rsvp and just show up. I dont want to order to many or not enough entrees for the reception. What should I do?

2007-10-18 15:55:10 · 18 answers · asked by preppygrl88@sbcglobal.net 3 in Weddings

What kind of feelings does this evoke? Does it make him want to pursue her MORE or LESS? For example, there is someone that is very attracted to me as I am to him. But we work together so can't really do anything about it. From time to time he asks me if I am seeing anyone and the answer has always been no- UNTIL yesterday when I went on a date to a football game. He happens to be there, sees us and immediately positions himself so he can see us. I notice him walking back and forth and looking up at us from across the field. When my date went to get me a drink, I noticed him looking that way, I guess, to see who I was with. Anyway, I'd like to understand men and how they think when they actually see someone they are attracted to with another man even if they are just hanging out. When I saw him today at work, he seemed to show up everywhere I was and was extra nice to me. Coincidence? He never mentioned seeing me at the game yesterday.

2007-10-18 15:54:24 · 24 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I'm a freshman at college and I thought most people would have matured but I guess not. Theres this guy who sits close to me and these people I talk to. He is always making negative jokes about every little thing. He keeps thinking that hes funny and cool when hes the only one whose laughing at his own negative jokes.

Ok I use to humor them but now I'm annoyed. I try to start a friendly conversation and he starts to make negative jokes about it to make me look stupid. I then give him a come back saying how it was unnecessary and a few peeps agreed with me. I sometimes totally ignore him when he tries to make me look like crap.

How should I really deal with him? He thinks I'm his friend. Also would girls choose him over me? Will girls think I'm weak for ignoring his foolishness? I heard girls like mean guys who pick on others because they feel secure with those guys. Thanks for reading.

2007-10-18 15:54:22 · 19 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm not the fastest of walkers, but my husband walks at a fast pace all the time. He has a tendency to walk ahead of me, and often just walks off and leaves me if I stop to look at something or talk to someone. After a while he notices that he's not talking to anyone, and comes back only to accuse me of "leaving him talking to himself."

In my opinion he should pay enough attention to notice when I'm gone, or even hold my hand while we walk so that I don't get left behind. He thinks I should just walk faster - what do you think?

2007-10-18 15:53:41 · 13 answers · asked by trillian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 15:53:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 15:51:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 15:51:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 15:49:38 · 18 answers · asked by karam1982rahman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked this girl that i like if she wanted to go to the movies with me and she said yea as long is she is allowed. and today wen i asked her if she knew if she could go or not she told me that she couldnt b/c she has to go to her brothers hockey game on sat nite and that she couldnt go. i want to know if u guys think she is using that as an excuse b/c she doesnt want to go or if she really has to go to her bros game thats an hour away. any opinions? were 15

2007-10-18 15:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by mike 2 in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong or anything, but I usually go out with my friends and eat. I mean sometimes I feel embarassed to be by myself but sometimes I rather be by myself. Yeah I know this might sound funny but one year of high school I sat by myself. I wasn't a loser just none of my friends had the same lunch as I. I don't care of what other people think of me but I don't want it to be like weird or anything if I'm alone eating.

2007-10-18 15:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

put out a big red flag to the ladies?

2007-10-18 15:43:50 · 16 answers · asked by Jeremy G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi i think my girl cheated on me.

what are some ways to get your girlfriend to tell u she cheated on u?

i have told her that i need the truth and hinted about it and i at one we broke up and i asked her

so now that we broke up what have you lied about but she said nothing about cheating on me

SO HOW THE **** DO I FIND OUT IF SHE CHEATED ON ME WITHOUT KNOCKING ON ******* DOORS BECAUSE I AM ABOUT TO DO IT

2007-10-18 15:43:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i did get beat up by a gurl last year and these guys keep asking me "is it true u got beat up by _____????!! " everyone knows its true already and that i didnt even bother to fight back! i thought it all blew over. y are they bringing this up now? well anyways, its kinda embarrassing saying "yes i got beat up"
so wut should i tell them to stop bothering me?!

2007-10-18 15:39:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay well first of all I am a 10th grader; so yes give some advice to a teenage girl! Well okay I New school and trying to make friends. In all my six classes, only 1 of them is where I can talk good and be myself. don't exactly know why. It just feels more comfortable perhaps because Im in the back row. But I don't talk in front of all the class or ask questions to my math teacher. I tend to talk to the kids around me and start conversations. I have been shy since like when I was little, so laughing and joking around is a huge step in me when it comes to school. I do have an outgoing personality so I pretty much love talking. The thing is that I have trouble making friends in my other classes. Like I don't have the same confidence. I feel all boring, quite, and lame I feel like a loner!in about 2 of my classes I completely stare at the walls around the center of the classroom! its complete different types of people that I have trouble with! like the "loud" kids! and also boyss!! help

2007-10-18 15:39:30 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

My husband is an alcoholic and i can't stand it when he drinks, because everytime we end up in an argument. What can I do I don't want to leave him, he is my heart and soul. I Love him so much just want him to stop drinking and he say's he will never quit. Is there any hope or am i just holding on a pipe dream.

2007-10-18 15:39:20 · 19 answers · asked by dcdaniel1968 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Help me i don't know what to do....?
i have son with me...and his father is in abroad...we we're in a boyfriend relationship before and then i get pregnant then he went abroad but he acknowledge it but we didn't get married... i gave birth without him...im the only who raise my child he is four now.but his giving a financial support that is not enough. and now we broke up because he has another woman in abroad. do you thin he has the right to take my child away from me even my child is carrying or has is name/ surname? legally speaking...any suggestions...pls answer...thanks

2007-10-18 15:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by kissertoni 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here goes... I have been with a boy for 3 years, its been rocky cause its been long distance on and off i moved away from home to be with him which was really hard and he doesnt even act like he cares. In the past 2-3 months he is barley there his new friends are more important and he says he cares but doesnt show it but in the past i have been very clingy and its been better latley but im dying...he knows i was with someone else while i was not here and he had broken up with me but what was i supposed to do sit around with hopes he would take me back...so he found out recently and now uses it against me at every chance he syas he wants to try nad get past it and things will be good for a few days then the weekend comes na di get ditched cuz his friends are more important he will let me down any day but not them... is this just becuz he doesnt care or cuz he just thinkgs i wont leave him...he doesnt take me seriously at all if i tell him im leaving he just says ok...and it hurts bad

2007-10-18 15:38:33 · 28 answers · asked by Apple 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, her name is Nina and last year she start liking this boy named Ian and she ditched me (an asian girl) for a girl named Mariana, who now i hate so much!! And now I don't have that much friends this year and I fell bad for myself because I think that I hate myself, just letting a friend backstab me like that. What should I do?

2007-10-18 15:37:51 · 4 answers · asked by liljinia101 1 in Friends

2007-10-18 15:35:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Need help to have high libido...

2007-10-18 15:34:56 · 9 answers · asked by cherishmhe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need yr ideas,please

2007-10-18 15:32:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like a guy who's a year older...pretty sure he likes me back. Catch -- he has a girlfriend who's a complete b*tch to him and he doesn't deserve it. How do I show him that? ...and possibly start something between us?

2007-10-18 15:32:07 · 23 answers · asked by northern orchid 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 15:32:07 · 31 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been having problems financially. My dad owns his own company and people are refusing to pay or saying tomorrow, giving him stories. We really need money right now or we will lose our house, can you please pray for us...Thankyou

2007-10-18 15:31:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-18 15:30:05 · 1 answers · asked by Pawan S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think you can break up and makeup the situation its tough love

2007-10-18 15:29:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, this year i met a guy in lunch. He made a horrible first impression, but since then he's improved and we're kinda friends. Unfortuneatly, I think he likes me and thats a problem because i don't like him. I think this because he is far too complimentary and seeks out my company a lot. so the question

1: If he actually does end up asking me out, how can I tell him I don't like him like that nicely while keeping the friendship

Part two: I like this guy and he is a year older than me, but we're really good friends. Should I ask him out, and hope for the best, or should I just wait it out? I'm afraid of ruining a great friendship and that he'd say yes just because he is so kind, charming, respectful, considerate and sweet.

Any ideas?

2007-10-18 15:27:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, Hi everyone, Im a 16 year old guy and Im down and out because I never really see my parents.
Yes we all live in the same house, but they are always busy, we never get to really to sit down and have "family" time. When I get home from school the house is empty, and when I wake up for school they are leaving for work.

What can I do to make our family be an actual...family.
Thanks everyone.

2007-10-18 15:27:15 · 6 answers · asked by B-Rad 4 in Family

2007-10-18 15:26:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends