Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

2007-10-18 13:25:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

was it hard to find a man who loved your child like if he was the real dad. im going through problems with my husband n seriously thinking of divorce but im scare of the fact that in the future if i do move on my son will not feel loved. i rather b alone than have sum guy mistreat my son. also i dont want no babydaddy drama if i do find a guy that will love me n my son. my husband cheated n im only thinking of forgiving him so my son will be raised with a father, and ofcourse i do love the father but my main concern is my kid and his happiness. i would sacrifice in every way for my son to be happy. i was raised by both my mom n my dad i have no clue how is it to grow up with a single parent, or a step parent

2007-10-18 13:21:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The first date was more her Idea. She basically said we should go have dinner sometime. I took her number called and set a date. I felt that the first dinner date went smooth. Before the evening was over I ask to take her out again. She agreed. We set the date for the following weekend. We stayed in contact thru the week by phone.(no conversation problem) We went again to eat at a family/fun type resturant.
So, (as it happens to most of us ) I found that I was unable to be my true self because of my attraction toward her. Even if she did not have as good as time as I did, I don't feel she would have told me. Since then the phone conversations have died off, and I now only leave messages with no return calls. I realize that she has lost interest, I'm just curious as to why.

2007-10-18 13:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

I forgot we had cheese, he likes grilled cheese sandwiches. He said to me" What was your f******, stupid, b******, ugly, idiot brain thinking?" Next time I get a jelly sandwich I will hurt you. Something will happen". This is no joke. He quite often talks that way. Is he bipolar? We have money problems and I am getting a second job to help out. Can I force him to get help? Thanks.

2007-10-18 13:19:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend , but he always puts me last, and this guy that I have feelings for, is total opposite from my man. What do I do?

2007-10-18 13:17:46 · 37 answers · asked by miran 1 in Singles & Dating

This boy I knew, but didn't like has pinned me to a wall and kissed me, wat do i do if he does again? He doesnt seem to care if I call for help, and he just wants to MAKE OUT with me!!! Im thinking im starting to like him and want to kiss him back, but the whole PINNING thing...

2007-10-18 13:17:38 · 25 answers · asked by sexy baby555 1 in Singles & Dating

Many times we've gone to visit a couple in our neighborhood, my wife sits on the porch, and my neighbor sits in a lawn chair - so he's pretty much at eye level with my wife's crotch.

I noticed that her shorts are so short that the way she sits provides some nice glimpses of her panties and the contoured parts of her crotch (very sexy to me).

Anyways I told her that's why he sits there, cuz he is getting a nice view. And I really don't like her teasing him like that. He always wears sunglasses to hide the fact that he stares. She said I'm crazy - 1) you can't see anything and 2) he's not interested.

Well, I guarantee 1) he can see it and 2) every man in that situation would look.

Why would she do this knowing that it bothers me?

2007-10-18 13:15:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are happy and have a 2yr old. I also have two more girls from my first marriage. While having a hypothetical conversation my husband revealed to me that if we were to divorce he would fight for full custody of our 2yr old. Which totally shocked me and not to mention deeply hurt my feelings.
For one we have no real issues, beyond the regular couple fights.
Second ever since we met he always said he admired me for being such a dedicated mother to my two girls. I don't drink, do drugs, go on clubbing sprees, neglect my kids, or abuse them in any way... I came from a very dysfunctional home and have made it my purpose in life to be the parent I always wished my parents had tried to be... Is there anything I can do to protect myself from this? His only argument was that she would be more stable with him financially...

2007-10-18 13:11:40 · 20 answers · asked by Xena77 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 13:10:46 · 5 answers · asked by Freesumpin 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 13:09:05 · 1 answers · asked by i'm a girl not a boy... 1 in Singles & Dating

it is hard for me because i am afraid and even afraid to workout in a health club

2007-10-18 13:08:06 · 3 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you date a girl who is pretty, healthily skinny, but a very small chest? I have never had a boyfriend and i am 16, im not being conceited but i think i am pretty and people (even guys) tell me I am, but ive never had a boyfriend and im just wondering if its because i have really small boobs? since that seems to be a guy's center of interest...but whyyyy?

2007-10-18 13:06:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 13:05:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating this guy and we have been on and off for about 5 years. We keep coming back to each other and I love him and I know he loves me. I just want to know how do you know if it is the right love for you. I think he is but want that big sign to let me know that he is the ONE!!!

2007-10-18 13:02:55 · 1 answers · asked by Samanth33 1 in Singles & Dating

My mum and dad live in different countries. I don't know what happened but I'm scared there gonna get a divorce. I talked to my dad and he said he loves her very much and he said that she told him that she's done with him but he loves her. I cry every night.
My mum's bf guy friend or w.e is trying to get close to me when he comes over our house. He lives right next to us and is always trying to sleep over so at night time he can come in my room and tell me to do sexual stuff to him. My mum works at nights so she's never here at night to witness these things and also when I'm in the shower he comes in my bathroom and tries stuff. Nothing never happened but no matter how hard I try I'm trying to tell my mum he needs to stop coming over here. While he was working at a barbershop he got setup or something and then the cops caught him with weed and he went to jail for like a day or something and got a warning. I need help what should I do ? I'm still a virgin. I don't want him to take it.

2007-10-18 13:01:31 · 8 answers · asked by mixedcurlyfries 3 in Family

your parents making out, when you were a kid, what did you think was going on? I know I walked in on them and I was probably 10 or so. And I was like what's dad doing to mom? What about you?

2007-10-18 13:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well, technically, I'm 17. But I will be 18 in a week. My parents said I'm not allowed to date until I'm 18. But, what am I supposed to do? Am I supposed to ask a guy out the day I turn 18? Not like any guy would ever ask me...

2007-10-18 12:59:44 · 9 answers · asked by Sergeant Lauren 5 in Singles & Dating

what you you think about 6th graders dating? my little sister has a boyfriend and she wont tell me so i made this excuse and said that she was too young. what do you think

2007-10-18 12:59:19 · 14 answers · asked by Black Leopard 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 12:59:03 · 4 answers · asked by cassell126 1 in Singles & Dating

Money is not the issue, but the issue is my grades. I have all A's and B's but I have a C in Physics!! ahhh I am trying soo hard to raise it. What can I do to show them I care and I want my car soon? By the way I am a junior and I recently turned 16...I will most likely get my licence in a week (If I pass =) lol) I respect them and love them very much and I will do anything for them. I am a very responsible girl and am the oldest of 3 ( other 2 sisters are 3 and 9) What should I do?

2007-10-18 12:58:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

About a month or so ago I met someone on here. We began talking on MSN and got on amazingly well. Now we've started talking on the phone, and I love him very much.

He is one of very few people I can talk with for hours about random things and not get bored, the silences aren't awkward and when we hang up, I miss his voice and immediately want to talk to him again.

I know one day we will meet, but I seem to just be terrified of the idea. It's not because I fear he could be a murderer or anything, I know for a fact that he is who he says he is.

I just have this fear that if I meet him, things won't be the same. I have an insane fear of people looking at me while they talk to me, so I tend not to talk very much face to face.

Do you think I am stupid to think these things?

Have you ever met someone off the internet who you really loved, and then found it to be totally different face to face?

Please share your stories with me, good and bad. Thankyou.

2007-10-18 12:58:09 · 12 answers · asked by cosmicmoon 5 in Singles & Dating

We are from Kentucky looking for a sweet getaway for two. No Family! We are very...into each other. lol. One of us is laid off but we would still like to do it anyway. but it will need to be somewhere cheap...Looking at a Sandals resort in Montego Bay? I would settle for Gatlinburg but he says no way! And come on no court houses thats not special at all! or romantic? Vegas- I dunno is it really cool or just Elvis cheesy?

2007-10-18 12:57:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

They were together since 1980,and they divorced in 2005.
I could tell that from the day my dad started sleeping in the twin beds back then with me,that somthin was up and I didn't know what it was until I heard my mom say:"David you blank blackity blank!" He tells my mom to loosen up. She says:"Don't tell me to loosen up,freakin Blank blankity!" I'm over there thiniing my mom's being to hard on my dad! What is she thinking?! I hope this doesn't lead to divorce." Then it did.
I've only cried 2x the whole 2 yrs cuz I feel like I have to hide my feelings and I've hidden my feelings so long that when I hear the right song,I makes me start getting teared up and I don't want Step-parents that are angels around my parents and de-vils behind their backs! That would be awful!

Christ help me figure out how to get them back!
-Sarah

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2007-10-18 12:57:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

people keep saying that i lost my virginity to my hand and that pisses me off im not into that stuff i dont whackoff

2007-10-18 12:57:34 · 11 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

We both love each other more than life itself. but i did something wrong, and as he puts it " it is unforgivable" and now he doubts and questions our love and if we will ever be able to be together again.We used to tell each other that we'd love each other until eternity ends, and he is really amazing, and i really love him. I dont know what to do, he is so mad at me, he has a new gf and is avoiding me,but he still says that he loves me,but hes really pissed. we have both cryed and cryed. there are many tears and alot of pain in our relationshiip, and all i want is one more chance, i understand that it will take time for him to get over it and i will wait for him. but im scared, about whats gonna happen,what hes thinking,about geting my heart broken ,etc.And idk, im really confused b/c this is my first love,and im not exactly an expert at it. help please? i think he should give me one last chance, regarding our pain. Am I right? Or should he just give up on us and move on?should i wait

2007-10-18 12:56:23 · 18 answers · asked by Longhorn 2 in Singles & Dating

The situation is that we dated briefly in high school, but stayed friends throughout the years. I'm married now, and he's in a longterm relationship, but they don't live together. I don't want to get in touch so that we could rekindle anything. Even though we did date, we were friends first and foremost, and the dating took a back seat.

We had a lot in common, and there were times he was there for me when my own family should have been and weren't. For instance, I was in the hospital when I was fifteen, and my family didn't come, but when I woke up he was standing at the foot of my bed.

I was really ill for several years and things in my life went terribly wrong, and the same happened to him. Anyway, because of my illness I became really withdrawn and lost contact with everyone I knew.

I was thinking of dropping a note and a book I wanted him to have in his mailbox, and explain what happened. I wanted to let him know that even if we don't see each other (continued)

2007-10-18 12:55:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm new to this kinda thing haha. so yeah, to avoid embarrassing myself I'd just wanna know. where can a condom be found at walmart? would it be in pharmacy? or somewhere else? like what kinda product would the isle sign say that it would be under?

2007-10-18 12:55:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to say to him. He feel like no one repects him and he works hard for nothing, How can I make him feel better. What is it that he needs to hear. Help

2007-10-18 12:50:15 · 6 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 24 years old Me and my Bf have been together for about 3 years. Im always in the mood and he is never in the mood. Lately ive been feeling really pushed away and rejected and it hurts... He goes out everyweekend He lies to me I have caught him in so many lies its unbelievable. Im starting to think that he may be cheating on me maybe all the trip to the gym before and after work means something else i dont know. I feel hurt and sad and Im about 2 seconds away from having an affair myself because quite frankly im just tired of feeling hurt i know i should leave but i really do love him and to top it of im not working right now im looking for a job so i feel like i have to keep swallowing all this crap until i get on my 2 feet and can b able to support myself what do i do? Please and be sincere and nice no one with smart *** answers please

2007-10-18 12:49:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see this boy i have a crush on has a girlfriend,and my friend lisa and her nefu willy i walk with them after school and i told wil not to say anything and ussuly he listens to what you tell him but today he didnt he told my crush i liked him! and my crush was like her!?!!?!?!? and then i ran after and i dont know what to do becase i have to go back to school tommrow im glkad he isnt in my class and his scedual is a lil bit differnt then mine so if i whant i could probely avoid seeing him but what do i dod if i happen to see him!!!, idk what to do someone please help!

2007-10-18 12:43:28 · 4 answers · asked by jennifer d 1 in Singles & Dating