Would you date a girl who is pretty, healthily skinny, but a very small chest? I have never had a boyfriend and i am 16, im not being conceited but i think i am pretty and people (even guys) tell me I am, but ive never had a boyfriend and im just wondering if its because i have really small boobs? since that seems to be a guy's center of interest...but whyyyy?
2007-10-18 13:06:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a large breast obsession. my desk top is a pic of a G friend. the bigger the better.
BUT, i have dated A's and B's. in other words, as much as i like the boobs, the girl, not the boobs, has won many times.
you need to think of what your assets are, and play those up. dont worry about what you do not have. if you make friends with big bobbed girls,you will find they envy you. all though they get all the attention, they have a hard time finding a guy who wants them, not the boobs. and you can wear anything, they cant. you can wear a top cut much lower then they can.
most big boobed girls are heavy, or a big frame. you can wear skimpy tight fitting clothes, they cant.
if you think you are ugly, it shows, and no guy wants you. it shows in how you dress and act. dress to accent what you have, you will see the difference in your guy friends reactions.
the one woman who did the most for me, who excited me the most, was 4' 11" and 75 pounds. A cup. and im the kind of guy who walks into walls when i see cleavage.
2007-10-18 13:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would not answer something like this..But you are fine trust me..Some guys are dogs and like girls with big boobs...but there are some guys who like small and some guys just don't care..I met my wife when she was 17 we date a short time and broke it off about a year later we hooked back up and dated a few months and got engaged and 9 months later we got married..I will say this to and she would kill me if she knew what I typed since it's the truth ,when we met she was 34 A...that was 17 years ago to...so don't worry your little head ok..
2007-10-18 20:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys always say that they would go out with a girl with an ugly face but great body--which is for the most part just not true. Most guys (including myself) would MUCH rather go out with a girl wit a hot face, slender body, and small boobs. Big ones are great, but when it comes down to it it just doesn't matter.
So to answer why they won't go out with you... maybe you're not at pretty as you think you are. Maybe they're shy.
2007-10-18 20:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make no difference to me.
Don't be dismayed. Sure, large boobs attract attention, but so do car wrecks. They're just eye-catchers. I personally prefer small and perky.....but.......I'll still gawk when I'm caught off-guard by a large-breasted girl. I'd still rather be with the small-chested ones, though. It's like, if a girl walked in a room and she was 6'6" tall I'd sure look, too. It's just unusual and noticeable. But I wouldn't choose to date that. Just because it captures our attention doesn't mean that's what we want.
Your great guy will come someday. You sound like a really nice girl. Relax, it'll happen.
2007-10-18 20:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If it is the reason, then you don't want them as a boyfriend anyway.
Have you asked a guy out. You can do that, you know. Many guys might not know that you are interested unless you show interest.
2007-10-18 20:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by LC 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not. Your chest is the least of my concerns. I just like a girl with beauty and brains. Sure a nice chest wouldn't hurt, but this is just a bonus.
2007-10-18 20:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if the guy is only interested in your chest then he is obviously not worth your time. You shouldnt worry about it that much, its better if a guy is interested more in your heart or brain. unless you are superficial. heh
2007-10-18 20:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by nonenonenone 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
trulthfully i much prefer a smaller breasted lady --- the only guys that are only interested in a larger breast are more interested in sex than a meaningful relationship --- best wishes
2007-10-18 20:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way
boobs dont matter to me, i love a girl for who she is, yes, i like em to be a little cute :)
but anyway, my gf is realy cute, but kinda flat, i dont care, i love her anyway :)
so some guys flat chested is an issue, but for some its not
2007-10-18 20:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by 88 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
men like breasts..it is no secret...but the size is not as important as YOUR confidence in YOU and your body...
plenty of girls will flaunt what they've got regardless of size when they have the confidence to do so..
2007-10-18 20:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋