Many times we've gone to visit a couple in our neighborhood, my wife sits on the porch, and my neighbor sits in a lawn chair - so he's pretty much at eye level with my wife's crotch.
I noticed that her shorts are so short that the way she sits provides some nice glimpses of her panties and the contoured parts of her crotch (very sexy to me).
Anyways I told her that's why he sits there, cuz he is getting a nice view. And I really don't like her teasing him like that. He always wears sunglasses to hide the fact that he stares. She said I'm crazy - 1) you can't see anything and 2) he's not interested.
Well, I guarantee 1) he can see it and 2) every man in that situation would look.
Why would she do this knowing that it bothers me?
2007-10-18 13:15:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may like the attention she is getting from him. You need to really explain to her that this is really affecting you and as her husband she needs to respect you and wear clothes that wont show this area as revealing as the ones that she wears when at the neighbors house. I hope this helped.
Stay Strong.
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2007-10-18 13:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you are over at this couples house, grab the lawn chair that he usually sits in and you sit in it... then look at him with a knowing smile, and in a low voice and say..." I think this is a much better place to sit, don't you? Nice view and all." That way, you call him down on the carpet without the wife really hearing. He'll know what you mean. Hey, you can take a video camera too, and while your sitting in view of the money shot... turn the camera on and film her, then show it to your wife later that evening when you get home. Then she will know that you speak the truth. For the question of why... who the hell knows, but I'm sure she is not ignorant to the fact that he is looking, so she may get some sort of weird pleasure from it, and if that is the case, you got a problem, buddy.
2016-05-23 12:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecure, insensitive and unashamed describes her in my book, and I'd be very concerned if I were you what goes on when you're not there to interfere. She's enjoying the attention, as well as the fact that that she's taunting you. Next time, try just leaving them together, you're just interfering with their fun anyway.
2007-10-18 13:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a battle you may not win because she is oblivious to her attraction and not interested in valuing your opinion. So unless you disassociate w/ that couple, you're going to have to wear short shorts and sit showing your crotch to his wife--see how she likes that.
2007-10-18 13:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dianne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're the one that's jealous. She might know she's doing it but aren't you the one she's going home with. At least she's wearing panties. When she stops that then you might have to worry.
2007-10-18 13:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple, she enjoys the attention,is aware of what she is doing and totally disrespects you. If her love was what it should be she would'nt do it. I wonder what she would do if the shoe was on the other foot? Bet she wouldn't like it. Think about it.
2007-10-18 13:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well- he may look, but not ALL guys thinks that's sexy like you do. If my fiance saw that, he would be disgusted. Just reiterate that you don't like it and ask her if she would please try to not sit that way out of respect for you. If you think the guy is staring at her, why don't you say flat out "Hey jerk, quit staring at my woman."
2007-10-18 13:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by BlackDahlia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I Feel Your Pain. I have the same problem...but with my mother!!! As far as why she would do that to you?...Women are crazy, so no one knows. But hey...what can you do? Put your foot down? I guess just have a serious talk with her and tell her that it would just make you feel better if she stopped.
2007-10-18 13:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this is true, then she does it to intentionlly disrespect you, and you allow it by not calling her out on it when she does it, and not asking him (publicly) to move his chair so he isn't facing her exposed crotch.
If you call them both out publicly, the behavior would likely end...if it ever occured.
2007-10-18 13:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
has it ever crossed your mind that they are having an affair? dont jump to any conclusions or anything. just be more allert. how does he talk to her? does he hug her? if how are their bodies pressed to one another? does he call often? does he smile alot at her? you know? just think about it and good luck.
2007-10-18 13:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by cari berry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋