how can i who is shy and non talkative ask or find a way if a woman is single and ask her out?

Question

it is hard for me because i am afraid and even afraid to workout in a health club

Answer 1

Ok do this and I can assure you that you will succeed.

1. When you approach to her find a good excuse to talk to her and play a game where you don't let her know what you're intentions are. Make things interesting and funny. Always being honest but not direct. This is mystery this attracts people.
2. Ask her about an opinion of something general that everyone talks about (not your feelings or personal stuff) Personal could be if you refer to a friend of yours (in your mind you talk about yourself) the first one could work say: "A friend of mine kinda likes this girl, but he doesn't know what to do, help me over here he's a good friend of mine" and then you describe your friend with his best qualitites not material but more personal and unique qualities" of course you're refering to yourself but she's not sure about that, is she?.

At the end of the description say, "my friend would really like you if you met him, I think he's your style." And then maybe ask for her E-mail, she is most unlikely to say no to an E-mail. After that keep talking to her you already broke the ice.

3. Make fun of her and make her laugh.
4. Don't be too nice, and don't smile too much. Just be natural, be yourself like when you talk with your friends.
5. Find the right time and the right space to talk to her. If you get her in a rush that won't work.
6. When you enter the same room where she is, don't hesitate and don't stalk her, women hate this. Count up to 3 seconds and inmideately go to her. Don't rehearse your speech.
7. In the best case try not to catch her alone. Better when she's with someone else. So you can pay more attention to others. This will awake an interest in her towards you. Especially if you control the situation.

8. The best way to start talking to her is like this:
What drink is that? or What a crap weather huh!
The Best Way to Ask a Girl out is by not letting her know you like her. Otherwise she will take you for granted and will not value you or respect you. The image you project to her is extremely important especially if she's nice. Different to what you've heard from nearly all of your advicers, you musn't show weakness, and you mustn't tell her that you like her at first instance when you're practically strangers. If you tell her that you like her without even knowing you completely, she will most likely reject you because you are making her decide if a Yes or No is in place.

Tips to remember

Always offer her things that she can't deny and can't say no to.
Women and men too, are far more attracted to what they can't seem to have, to what is difficult to get or limited better. And when the person is independent and doesn't need in despair. In other words you have to think you don't need her, you don't like her more than as a friend only, and you would continue your life without her. This is how winners usually suceed at getting the sexiest women.

Of course you have to show that you like her but only a little. She must never be sure of how you feel about her.

Remember this: A woman falls deeply in love with you when she wonders about you, can't sleep thinking if you're there for her or not, and is missing you and your predictable side.

Take her out on a wednesday or thursday never friday or weekend at least in the first 3 dates.

The first time your goal is to get to know her better because you like talking to her. Mission invite her for coffee.

Second goal, get her number, to maintain the interest is to leave when she least expects it, when the conversation is really good. (limited remember) This is when you take her by surprise and just name of how you can contact her. You to her not her to you.

Final goal before starting to date formally, let her wait for a week, not 48 hours and not 4 days but a week later. (Remember when you miss you fall in love) You call her and only to set a date, nothing more!!

Of course you will be a gentleman, you will be extremely funny, and you will be active to what she's wearing and all the details.

Women don't like direct men, they like interesting men, who tell stories and use examples. (Remember Joe Black in the coffee shop: Brad Pitt) or (The Hitch and the Martini girl: Will Smith)

Answer 2

just be true to yourself and be open when you find the opportunity. do good deeds (from the heart / not a show-off) to everyone not only to her.. it's a positive outlook.

Answer 3

try to find whats shes intersted in get tickets then go from there