I forgot we had cheese, he likes grilled cheese sandwiches. He said to me" What was your f******, stupid, b******, ugly, idiot brain thinking?" Next time I get a jelly sandwich I will hurt you. Something will happen". This is no joke. He quite often talks that way. Is he bipolar? We have money problems and I am getting a second job to help out. Can I force him to get help? Thanks.
2007-10-18 13:19:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
U cant force him to do anything, Force yourself to get out NOW!!!!!!!! I had a guy like that... i got out... but his current gf got a black eye recently
2007-10-18 13:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably does have bipolar. Sounds very similar to a situation i was in over forgetting to ask for cheese on the hamburger from a fast food place.
Is he just the most wonderful man alot of the time and then all of a sudden his mood will change? Do you never know if he will be that sweet guy or the evil freak? If your answer is yes, then he has bipolar and people with bipolar can be dangerous and DEADLY without medication.
I would not ever put up with that **** again. Life is too short for such abuse. Either get him to get help or leave him.
2007-10-18 13:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by jennniferlea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. I'll be honest, I'm still in school,
but even I see that as um, NOT GOOD.
He could be bipolar, but seriously...if he's
been making threats like that, you better work
it out with him or seperate with him.
No man or woman should be treated this way
by their spouse. I had a friend who went out with
some one like this and he called it quits - I was
happy about it but then she thought it was MY fault...
I was a bit freaked out...
You can't force him to get help, but if you had an
intervention, it's a possibility - just don't do it alone.
He won't hurt you if other men and people are around.
Don't blame finance on his actions - be careful...if he
EVER hurts you: call the police and file a restraining order.
~
2007-10-18 13:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Wonderland Extremity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likely does have bipolar. Sounds very including a undertaking i replaced into in over forgetting to ask for cheese on the hamburger from a without postpone nutrition place. Is he in basic terms the biggest dazzling guy alot of the time and then rapidly his temper will substitute? Do you in no way be attentive to if he could be that candy guy or the evil freak? in case your answer is for particular, then he has bipolar and those with bipolar might desire to be volatile and deadly without drugs. i does in no way placed up with that **** decrease back. existence is only too short for such abuse. the two get him to get help or pass away him.
2016-10-13 03:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That man sounds like he hates you, why would you want to be with someone that feels that way towards you. He doesn't love you and that isn't bipolar that's making him talk to you that way it's pure hatred. It's funny how every wife says her husband has bipolar if he hits her talks bad to her. Your husband just sounds like he is a very mean person.
2007-10-18 13:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make him another jelly bread sandwich again.. instead by the makings for a sandwich and let him make what he likes himself. Then he will have no cause for complaining.
This outrage is not a sign of being bipolar, it is a frustration of not being able to provide for your family no matter how hard you try. (But still no reason to talk to your loving wife like that)
2007-10-18 13:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's not bipolar. He's a pig. You should not let yourself be talked to like that. You cannot force someone to get help so I would say move on and be better off w/out him.
2007-10-18 13:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by I39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband was that way. One time he kicked in the dryer door because I didn't wash the new sox I'd bought him. Of course I was reminded of how worthless I was, too. I'm sorry you have to go home to this- I know what it feels like to not know what kind of a mood you can be in untill you see what kind of a mood HE'S in! If he won't get help for himself, (and a regular doctor WILL prescribe anti-depressants) I suggest you rethink how you want to spend the rest of your life. There are a lot of days left in it- Do you really want to spend them like this?
2007-10-18 14:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by shodair 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was this a one time thing or does he act that way all the time? If this is just the way he is, I think it is more likely that he is a selfish, boorish, inconsiderate jerk and not bipolar. If he is threatening to hurt you, you need to get help.
2007-10-18 13:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by fnd40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not bipolor that is verbal abuse with the threat of physical. You need to get away from him and quick. Look for a women's shelter or go to a friend or family members when he is at work.
2007-10-18 14:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by jess4u2c2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋