Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

sometimes my bf will just say the stupidest things just to make me mad.. he goes beyond things and calls me really mean names.. to him its just a joke...then he says he's just kidding when he sees i start feeling bad....but i'm sick of it he does it daily!!.. today he called me a B****, a fuken idiot. and then he says. " i'm just kidding" when he notices that i get sad. and when i ask him why he does it he gets mad and says he doesn't wanna talk about it.. i mean whats wrong with him.?

2007-10-18 11:58:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are having relationship issues.... I'm trying to work things out and she says she wants to do the same but she keeps lying to me about seeing and talking to another guy. what do I do.

2007-10-18 11:57:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so there's this guy who I'm in love with and he loves me too (he told me this already) but the prob is he is with his long-time girlfriend who is also pregnant with his kid. They were together for like 6 years then they broke up and they got back together in January, and she got pregnant in July.
So he keeps telling me he will tell her and leave her but it's taking a longgg time. What do you think?

2007-10-18 11:56:23 · 51 answers · asked by She 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi. So what cologne do you prefer on men?

-- Do you prefer different cologne on different occasions?
-- Do you think the cologne says something about the guy's personality?

-- Which cologne do you prefer?

Any info is greatly appreciated! Thanks!

Jeff

2007-10-18 11:55:20 · 10 answers · asked by Jeff 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm the best man at my brothers wedding tommorrow. What is the orer of the speeches, groom, father of the bride, best man and whoever else? Thanks for all input :-)

2007-10-18 11:54:55 · 9 answers · asked by IAN B 2 in Weddings

ok,, my boyfriend is the sweetest boy ever,, but he flirts like crazy w/ every girl,, and i heard he was guna break up with me for my cousin!! and they flirted so much that he didnt even notice me standin there!! and i havent broken up w/ him cus i dnt want to,, but if i have to i will,,

today,, my ex asked me out and i said to wait until i break up with him,, it slipped out of my mouth i didnt even want to say that!! but,, i didnt regret it cus i still have feelings for him!! WUT DO I DO???

2007-10-18 11:53:55 · 1 answers · asked by k-rae :) 2 in Singles & Dating

whenever my girlfriend gets really drunk she always gets really horny and says i need sex... and i always get really insecure because i think that she will cheat on me...sure shes drunk...and sure we have been going out for over a year...should i feel insecure about it at all? or is this just a phase im going through? she has told me that she would never cheat on me but im really not sure

2007-10-18 11:53:02 · 2 answers · asked by Samuel B 1 in Singles & Dating

We met 2 months ago and ever since then we have talked nonstop. Hes in his first year of college and im still a junior in h.s. well...a couple of nights ago we were talking and we had a really deep conversation. he told me that im his perfect girl and he thinks about me all the time BUT beacuse of our illegal age difference we dont date...and where he is he is looking for "someone". he wants to meet someone speacal.
does he even really like me?
-he talks to me all the time, always trying to get my attention
-makes trips down here just to see me (hes waiting til marrige so i know hes not looking for sex)
-tells me he likes me/misses me
is it at all possible to have feelings for me but still be open for another relationship?
my bff told me that he is *key word* "trying" to find someone (no luck) cuz he does really like me but is trying to hold back cuz of everything going against us...do u think that could be it?
whats going on with this boy?

2007-10-18 11:52:49 · 2 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2 in Singles & Dating

uuuuummm yeah what should i say to her online?

2007-10-18 11:52:06 · 22 answers · asked by just asking.. 2 in Friends

i just told the ex who is 17 years older who just broke up with me, that i'm going to let him call the shots. he persued me big time and i treated him like crap with my immature crap. so he broke up with me. i told him that i'm giving him the control in the relationship and he can do what he wants with me. and that i won't go wild and crazy on him but that i would relax and just let him do the decision making. sex, etc. dates etc.

2007-10-18 11:51:09 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is 27, I am 28. we have been with each other for 10 years, She dosn't work. I do my fair share when I come home from work, I cook, take care of the kids. I give back rubs, I do candlelight dinners, I do romantic evenings. Still no sex. She says that she isn't in her prime yet. I always thought that your prime was when your young. She also says it hurts her, or she says she dosn't feel good, or she's too tired. I'm tired also I work 12 hour days, but I still want her. I don't know what to do. I love her so much, but I feel that sex is an important part of a marriage. What should I do? Is she getting it somewhere else, or am I not good enough for her? Has her prime yet to come, or did it already pass? I think I've tried everyhing is there anything left to try?

2007-10-18 11:50:20 · 35 answers · asked by tintddy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a happy relationship of a year, but my ex-boyfriend who lives in another country has been emailing me recently. I haven't written him back just because I didn't feel the need to write to him since I've moved on, but he is not giving up. Should I tell him to "get lost"?

2007-10-18 11:49:38 · 22 answers · asked by Jacinda 4 in Singles & Dating

when a girl i really dont know well but love to death says "aww your so cute" im 18 is it a good sign or what. she didnt actually say it to me she wrote in my yearbook. she has flirted beforewith me. she doesnt talk to me she isnt shy. she always seems nervous around me like straighting clothes/hair



i have herd from people she is a party girl and "mischievous" with guys does this effect it. I dont really believe any of it b/c she seems incocent. I dont really know her well but she has been pretty flirty with me and she seems shy around me

2007-10-18 11:49:37 · 8 answers · asked by khjkhjf 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this girl have for my first period (drivers ed) and we always go out to the range to drive and she is always hanging around with her friends, but i want to get to know her, i want to talk to her so i can ask her out to homecoming next week, but the problem is that i do not know how to start an interesting conversation with her, and she also goes in my bus in the afternoon, can someone please give some sujetsions of a good conversation so i can ask this girl out to homecoming.She is a preppy girl just so you know.

2007-10-18 11:47:00 · 9 answers · asked by Kraze K 1 in Singles & Dating

I two step-daughters. I live with one. In the past she started taking my stuff which because it was happening my husband and I put a lock on our bedroom door. Today I found my lingerie in her room that my mom bought me for my wedding night. And a year ago I found my ring that my kids got me for mother's day in her room. I think she does it because I came into her life when I met and married her Dad and she just wants me to leave. I have done nothing to her but give her stuff, cover for her, cook for her, and take her places when she needs a ride and she repays me by stealing my stuff. I don't tell her what to do so why would she steal my stuff and how do I handle it? And talking to her Dad doesn't help. All he says is maybe my stuff got in her room by mistake. That isn't it. Please help.

2007-10-18 11:46:49 · 8 answers · asked by Mommyof2 2 in Family

mw and my brother where playing sims2 on ps2 together adn we hadn't saved for a while, ( like 2 hours) and we both can save from our contoler . His girlfriend and him ( on sims) lost 10 friend point things so you decided to restart it ( without asking me) ( by the way he hs this problem with temper tanromes) Then i told him that he shouldn't have done that becuse we haven't saved in a while, he claimed it was my fault for not saving when he was perfectly capable of saveing, PLUS he didn't tell me before makeing that descision. whos falt do you this this is?

2007-10-18 11:45:45 · 3 answers · asked by the forgotten 4 in Family

My husband has been talking about getting my name tattooed on him lately. I actually originally brought it up just to see if he would do it. Now he does want to do it. He wants to put my name on the back of his calf. Is that a good place? Should I get his name on me as well? I really don't want to, but I feel like I'm being a bad wife if I don't return the gesture!

2007-10-18 11:45:21 · 23 answers · asked by copswife134 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend had asked me to help her with her wedding, I am a wedding planner.I went with her fiancee (who happens to be my ex-bf from high school)to help pick out tuxes. We went to lunch afterwards, and had a few drinks.We ended up back at my place, and we slept together. I feel extremely guilty and don't know what to do. It was a one time thing and I feel bad, but I don't want to say anything because it will ruin not only her marriage, but mine as well.

2007-10-18 11:42:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so i'm in eigth grade, and at the beginning of the year me and my friend vowed we wouldn't fall for a sevie. But now... I found this really HOT, funny guy that i THINK likes me back. the only problem is, he's a sevie, and i'm not sure things would turn out good. WHat do i do now?

2007-10-18 11:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whenever my girlfriend gets really drunk she always gets really horny and says i need sex... and i always get really insecure because i think that she will cheat on me...sure shes drunk...and sure we have been going out for over a year...should i feel insecure about it at all? or is this just a phase im going through?

2007-10-18 11:40:52 · 2 answers · asked by Samuel B 1 in Singles & Dating

her other partners before me during sex, just out of the blue, she was very into what she was saying i was not but said nothing. married 10 yrs never has happened before any advise

2007-10-18 11:40:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so hard to meet a nice guy. i dont get it..:/ why cant i meet someone who likes me back? why do i meet people who like me, but i dont like them back..why does it happen to ME! ugh! im done with everyone!

2007-10-18 11:39:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad is moving out and Mom wll be losing our house in a few months. The break up of my home has been at this house. I would like to live with my Dad until Mom moves. I don't want Mom hurt or mad, but I could live with Dad until then. Dad is the one that screwed the family up and I really struggle with being mad at him, but I just want some peace back in my life and he will get to move on before Mom can. What should I do?

2007-10-18 11:38:25 · 6 answers · asked by ggirl 3 in Family

I this crush on this Cute boy but he is going out with a PEST. PLEASE TELL ME WAT TO DO

2007-10-18 11:37:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are women really any different from each other in bed? With the exception of enthusiasm its all the same isn't it?

2007-10-18 11:36:20 · 6 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like im too much of a good girl
im 20 and still a virgin!! sometimes im proud other times im not. i do want to have really bad but i cant just to do it i want it to be special and meaningful ya know. there was this guy who i have histlry with and i fell extremely hard for but he didnt want a relationship he just wanted to have fun. i dont know what signal i give off to guys to make them just want to have with me!! lol But i really wanted to be with him lol i even told him that i wanted him to be my first, and we were going to but then he told me he cares about me so we are just friends, i dont know what i did wrong there!! Any other dude would have jumped at it.Did i come on too strong?? Maybe he thought i was just not worth it all. He's 18 and he's alot more experienced then me, so i would think that he would jump at it. there was this one guy all he wanted to do was be my first he was always wanting to hang out. not this guy, i dont know what i did???

2007-10-18 11:36:05 · 3 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i just asked a ? it was about my boyfriend cheating on me and about how i got his password and stuff ok everyone is telling me to dump him if i am not pregnant but i knew this boy for ever we grew up together and yea its hard and i know i cant break up with him **** was going good untill 2 days ago i have know idea what to do i cant break up with him HELP ME PLEASE I AM SO SCARED EVEN THOUGH HE BROKE MY HEART I STILL CANT LET HIM GO. THIS IS LIKE MY FIRST LOVE SHOULD I DO **** SO HE WILL BREAK UP WITH ME OR SHOULD I JUST FORGET ABOUT EVERYTHING HE DID TO ME AND LET HIM CHEAT ON ME THE REST OF MY LIFE ............I DONT WANNA GO THROUGH THE SAME **** MY MOM WENT THROUGH BUT HOW CAN I GET AROUND THIS WITH OUT HIM BREAKING UP WITH ME AND ME BREAKING UP WITH HIM?

2007-10-18 11:34:12 · 8 answers · asked by lovergirl_82 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is turning 21 this weekend, both of us don't drink nor do we want to- his family, however, is really excited about the fact that he can drink, they've been throwing different ideas at him about where to go and what to do- I've expressed that I"m upset the I'm not being considered and can't join (we've been together 2 years, and see each other every day) He rejected their idea to go to vegas, and rejected their idea to go to a casino, today he told me that his (older) sister is going to take him out. Should I be angry? I'm feeling very frustrated, I don't understand why he doesn't see my point, that I am there for him every day yet on this milestone he wants to go out regardless of wether I can join! What would you do? Am I being unreasonable? What would you say?

2007-10-18 11:31:51 · 14 answers · asked by peaches11 1 in Singles & Dating

So my dad hates me and blames me for my moms death.(She died in childbirth 13 years ago when I was born) Anyway he is going to England for 9 months and gave me a choice to live with my older brother,21, or with my great aunt. Now who would I be able to get away with stuff eisier with. Big brother or great aunt??

2007-10-18 11:30:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-18 11:30:21 · 14 answers · asked by kary f 2 in Singles & Dating