Ok so there's this guy who I'm in love with and he loves me too (he told me this already) but the prob is he is with his long-time girlfriend who is also pregnant with his kid. They were together for like 6 years then they broke up and they got back together in January, and she got pregnant in July.
So he keeps telling me he will tell her and leave her but it's taking a longgg time. What do you think?
2007-10-18 11:56:23 · 51 answers · asked by She 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just probably pretending he loves u and messed around w/ u that's why they got backe to gether so........ just leave him and find a betta one
2007-10-18 12:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Carpediem 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you are young and still have a lot to learn in life:)
There are two types of answer to your question:
A) he might or might not leave her, but he will probably not if he likes kids or is responsible father as kid need care, as you say it takes long time, so he will not probably leave her...
B) why guy can not love two women at one time, why love has to be in some way pervasive by means that you are completely surrounded to this one and only person, love is great, each human being is capable of uncountable amount of love,
wait there is even C
it is usually women that leaves guys so why he would risk having just one woman when he can have two, and if one leaves him he still has one left :)
2007-10-18 12:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by mrangelosd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sound young and nieve and if you think about it, and get your head out of the clouds you'll see that he will have no problem doing this to you after wasting your time, and emotion, and hopefully not after you have his kid too. If he's willing to tell this girl who has his kid to leave at the cost of his own childs need for a father he is a total selfish loser.. Maybe you should stop being a home wrecker...
Besides you do know that this girl is always going to have a connection with him due to their kid, and chances are after a short time he'll have her pregnant again....
Drama! Wake up girl.. If you stay with him I hope you learn your lesson, and you will...
2007-10-18 12:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by idontknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you get pregnant, he'll leave her for you.
But seriously, if he's been with this girl for 6 years, and still won't leave her, and got herpregnant so she'll always have the excuse to see him when he picks up his kid for visits...
Meanwhile, what? he's "together" with her, but porking you on the side? So he cheats and you consider him prime material? What's that saying, "why buy the milk when you're getting free cow"?
I think you should run as far away as you can. let him solve his issues first, then he can come looking for you when there's no alternate mama in his life.
2007-10-18 12:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God gave them a child together for a reason. They are forever going to be in touch just because of this child. I think you should move on and find another guy. I think it's selfish of you to want him, when this girl is carrying his baby. You need a man that's just your own anyway. He will probably always cheat on her, but that's not the point. You don't have to be the reason he leaves her. I think he loves you both, but you still have a chance to get out, before you get knocked up too.
2007-10-18 12:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked , I will answer,,
THey were together for 6 years...and broke up and got abck together,,,,I assume you came into the pic when they broke up/ So now you had been with him and he got back togehter with her,,,so you stopped seeing him during this time?
So things didnt work with you seeing how he wetn back to her,,this speaks volumns...
or you were seing him when he was with her....this says if he does leave her for you,,,a matter of time and he will find another and you will be in her shoes..
then you ahve the child here....he will for a lifetiem have contact with her......many realtionships like this are volatile,,,,the new gf hates the old gf, not knowing them or the past....this brings unnecessary drama...
it you are a drama queen,,stick around and get your heart broke,,,,,it not a drama queen,,,move on,,,this is a recipe for probelems for life
2007-10-18 12:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by ideame 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question it, leave. If he is cheating on her with you, what makes you think he won't do the same to you? Sometimes you have to simply realize you made a poor investment and cut your losses. Apparently he cannot keep his Lil man in his pants and don't you want more than that? Have you stooped so low to give yourself less than what you deserve. He will always have ties to his girlfriend, can you trust him? He does not sound like husband material and I would move on. No one said it will be easy, but get to steppin. There is someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve PS you are in LUST not LOVE.
2007-10-18 12:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's been with her for 6 years for a reason. he obviously cares very dearly for her. im sorry, but you should just leave. he's only keeping you there for backup. if he hasnt told her yet, then he's not going to. also, if she's pregnant, then i highly doubt he'll leave her, especially after 6 years. be logical, not emotional. dont wast your time waiting for a man with a baby on the way. besides you kinda being selfish. he is with another woman. would you appreciate a woman being with your man of 6 years if you were pregnant?
2007-10-18 12:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Destiny G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a low-life loser for chasing around with a guy who is with his pregnant girlfriend. and HE is a low-life cheating creep who needs to keep his p...s in his pants. I guess you deserve each other but be warned that, if he does go with you, it will be a very fast time to pass before you will be writing questions here about what to do because you're pregnant and your boyfriend is cheating. You already KNOW that he's worthless, a cheater, and his promises are worth zero. So what is there left to learn?
2007-10-18 12:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably will not leave her. But why are you with him when you know he has also been with his long-time girlfriend and she is pregnant. Leave him there is a baby here also to think about. Put the shoe on the other foot how would you feel if you were her and were having a baby.
If he was going to leave her he would and if he has done this to her he will do it to you.
2007-10-18 12:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by Sherbert 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um no.Why would you want him to leave his prego. gf for you? Dont you think that a little selfish.Just leave him alone before he ends up getting you pregnant too.Honey they never leave their girlfriends or wives.They love them.Hes most likely just using you as an easy piece on the side.If his GF catches him and you who do you think hes going to be running after saying that he loves? Her. And youre going to make a fool of yourself.Just leave him alone.Hes going to have a family soon.Dont be a home wrecker.
2007-10-18 12:01:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋