friend hates me for no reason?

Question

uuuuummm yeah what should i say to her online?

Answer 1

Why bother? If you know that you haven't done anything then why should you let her "stuff" bother you. Don't let her drag you in, some people just like drama.

Answer 2

Nothing. Don't say anything. I am sure that there is a reasoning on her behalf for being angry. She needs to come to terms with whether or not the reason is true or false and whether it is a good enough reason to end a friendship over. By speaking to her when she is angry, you will only fuel the fire, in most cases causing an even bigger argument. This could range from saying things you don't mean to bringing up hurtful things in your past, or even past arguments that have nothing to do with what she is angry with now. She could eventually hit a sore spot causing you to become angry and backfire and do you see how this just keeps spiraling out of control. The best course of action is to give your friend her space to cool off. Wait a while. If you still don't hear from her after some time has passed, then say this and only this. Tell her the truth. Say you aren't quite sure why she is angry but you are sure she has a reason and that she has every right to experience any emotions she is feeling and that whatever you have done that has angered her so, you apologize for. Then give her some more time. Eventually your friend will come around when she sees how silly the fight is and if not, she wasn't a true friend to begin with. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

there has to be a reason for her to hate you. if she doesn't want to tell you she probably isn't sure of the reason herself. or, she heard something about you that was false. but really, i would ask her in school or something, don't tell her online. it makes you seem like you don't have the guts to go up and talk to her in real life. but anyway, i hope everything works out! and if she really does hate you for no reason, kick rocks and move on.

Answer 4

Peoples attitudes can change for no reason, or should i say no reason that your aware of, ask her why she is being this way, ask her if you still can be friends and that if you have done anything that your sorry and want to make it up to her.

Answer 5

Ask her why shes being an uptight b****... only kidding, if she doesn't even want to give you a reason and you can't think of one I'd ask her first whats making her mad, if she doesn't reply then drop it because theres not much to do till she feels like talking to you.

Answer 6

friend, hate? Should be your enemy. Hate is such a strong word, especially for no reason does not make any sense. I am sure she has a reason you just don't know it. If she is a real friend she will let you know what is bugging her.

Answer 7

u should ask her if theres a problem between u two and if she ignores u dont be her friend until she gets loose which i mean by letting her come to u and talk about whats going on

Answer 8

nothing. if this person hates you then she's not a friend. I never once considered someone a friend that I had a strong dislike for.

Answer 9

That's impossible. She can't "hate" you for no reason. Unless she never liked you in the first place. Ask her what's up and if she's a witch minus the w plus a b, then tell her to go bag her ***. AND you're welcome.

Answer 10

well if she is truely ur friend she wouldnt hate u. tell her that u wish u were friends again and u dont want u and her to ignore each other like this. say ur sorry even if it isnt ur fault. then tell her u love her