ok i just asked a ? it was about my boyfriend cheating on me and about how i got his password and stuff ok everyone is telling me to dump him if i am not pregnant but i knew this boy for ever we grew up together and yea its hard and i know i cant break up with him **** was going good untill 2 days ago i have know idea what to do i cant break up with him HELP ME PLEASE I AM SO SCARED EVEN THOUGH HE BROKE MY HEART I STILL CANT LET HIM GO. THIS IS LIKE MY FIRST LOVE SHOULD I DO **** SO HE WILL BREAK UP WITH ME OR SHOULD I JUST FORGET ABOUT EVERYTHING HE DID TO ME AND LET HIM CHEAT ON ME THE REST OF MY LIFE ............I DONT WANNA GO THROUGH THE SAME **** MY MOM WENT THROUGH BUT HOW CAN I GET AROUND THIS WITH OUT HIM BREAKING UP WITH ME AND ME BREAKING UP WITH HIM?
2007-10-18 11:34:12 · 8 answers · asked by lovergirl_82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's up to you whether you want to break up with him or not. What's right for me may not be right for you. If you want to break up with him just do it. Tell him that you don't want him cheating on you and lying to you because you deserve better than that. If he loved you and cared for you he wouldn't hurt you like that specially since you two have known each other for so long. Sometimes it's hard to let people go even when we know they're not right for us. Maybe breaking up with him will be good for you. You don't need someone like that. You will find a better guy. I know it's hard now but it's better than being lied to and cheated on alot. Good luck.
2007-10-18 11:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by DoLz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't be able to trust him and you'll always be wondering what he's doin when you're not with him. If he sees that you will stay with him even after he has cheated on you then he will just continue to take advantage of you. You need to show show him that you are NOT going to put up with him cheating on you and tell him you need a break..and if he's in love with you then he would do anything he could to prove to you that it won't happen again. Otherwise, I promise you that you'll continue to be miserable as long as you're with him. I've been through the same situation and i ended up gettin hurt 10x times worse than i would have if i woulda ended things when i first found out he had cheated.
2007-10-18 18:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by brii 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have made him your ONLY reason for living and he is cheating on you and will continue to do so until he dumps you.
Get a grip.You can find another guy who is just as good looking if not better and who will treat you with respect.
What would happen if you do get pregnant and he dumps you for someone else?
You cannot MAKE him be what you want him to be or make him love you the way you want.I know it hurts but it is part of growing up.Sounds like your mom never did, and if you travel the road she went down, youll end up JUST like her or WORSE!
You have many things worth living for and he aint one of them.
2007-10-18 18:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See,you know as you said,your mother had went through the same...thing,you see how your mother suffered a lot..Dont let this happen to you..We are here on earth to learn and teach a lesson.Did you not learn a lesson from what youve seen to your mother?It hurts and it break you emotionally and mentally.Dont let it happen to you.Its a cycle, trace it back some generations back,maybe your grandmother had it too..break the cycle,its a bad karma,you have to break that karma,otherwise ,you will pass it on to your next generation,its sad.You are not here to suffer,things happen if you allow it.Its better for a woman to marry the man who loves her than to marry the man she loves...take it from me.Try to educate your feelings,and dont hesitate to dump a garbage...Womanizers are the most insecure men.why marry an insecure man,they are a pain to your...Be wise and GOD BLESS YOU..
2007-10-18 18:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Phillippine Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to take a good long break from your boyfriend, most likely, a permanent break. Please, go out into the world and experience life. I don't think, you know what you are missing. There are a lot of guys out there, who will treat you well. You need to learn how to identify them. You can always go back to your boyfriend. If he won't have you back, you know, you made the right decision leaving.
2007-10-20 18:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by Larry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want us to say? most comments will give you the "dump him" phrase, this does not sound like a man that loves you if hes cheating on you, that is not love at all! and i cant understand why girls just sit there and take that crap and let the guys walk all over them, if you continue to stay with him, hes just going to know he can do it again and again because obviously youre not stepping up and defending yourself.
2007-10-18 18:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU AGAIN!?!?!?! DAMM HOW MANY TIMES HAVE U HAVE ASKED!>?!??!?!?!?!?! lol
anyway I honsetly don';t what to tell you to make it better
spin a coin
2007-10-18 23:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by mikau l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you gonna have to put up with his ..sh&t then!
2007-10-18 18:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Bibi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋