Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

how do you ditch a women best and hurting her as little as possible
i dont have a girlfriend
just asking :)

any of these are good?
its not you its me
its not me its you
we kindof grew appart
im seeing someone else (if its not true)
i think we need some time appart

and what would be the best way to tell her?
person to person
by sms
by email

personaly i think would say:
you changed alot latly
and your not the women that i fell in love with

i would tell her face to face

2007-10-15 23:59:21 · 16 answers · asked by bertyhell 3 in Singles & Dating

i am a very simple girl and recently i met this guy during my holidays.... both are dads are very close friends we were together for 14 days (tour). at that moment i did not feel anything about him.... but since few days i am remembering all those moments we spent together... like when e touched me first time, when he held my hand as i was falling, or when we were alone in the garden talking, or when he was in my room all afternoon and we were talking about different things .. i could also see him in my dreams. two days ago i suddenly began to smile and felt that thinking about him makes me happy....now i remember when ever i was upset he made me laugh...

is it my love for him or just an infatuation???

2007-10-15 23:58:27 · 5 answers · asked by V C 2 in Singles & Dating

...is that a bad thing?

2007-10-15 23:57:37 · 1 answers · asked by Coin 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Clothing, attitude, personality, looks, etc

2007-10-15 23:55:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He moved out almost 3 months ago, he is not the same man I married. He is 52 and we have been married 19 years. Anger and abusive words are all I see. yet he will not talk or communicate with me.

2007-10-15 23:52:23 · 8 answers · asked by mary p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a guy but we do not work in the same city and when i needed money to get an apartment of my own, he never helped me financially and now that i even got the apartment, he refused to do anything about the furnitures

2007-10-15 23:50:54 · 7 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 23:46:49 · 11 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 23:46:26 · 3 answers · asked by davidsz9 2 in Singles & Dating

why would a woman, 24 am 26, your dating say she likes your company company wants you to only kiss her and no-one else and then tell you she wants to take it slow and not rush into a relationship because she had a bad experience with an ex and that she fancies someone at work but knows nothing will happen there cause he is going out with someone and after all this text you like everything is o.k and still want to date you ?

like why say she fancies someone else and expect you not to be pissed of ? what does that mean saying that? and it was said to me on my birthday to boot

and does it sound like she likes me or should i dump her, i like her but wont be a fool, what should i do ?

2007-10-15 23:45:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 5'4 is that short?

2007-10-15 23:42:59 · 22 answers · asked by . 4 in Singles & Dating

shes worrying way to much about tiny things like me going to school
aghh
its just so bad
she has to stop worring
ive tryed talking to her
she snaps at everything i say and wont listen she knows ive been suicidal but still pushes me and pushes me i cant take it please i need help on this

2007-10-15 23:37:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know I made a horrible mistake that I regret. I know that I should have told her this on day one! Last night, I told her that I had a son and I was married at one time. She was shocked! I don't blame her. She didn't get upset...she was disappointed. I told her that I didn't tell her in the beginning because I was not sure how she would have taken it. I stayed the night with her after telling her but she has not emailed me or anything like she use to. What are your opinons on this?

2007-10-15 23:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my x is my babies mother.now when she left for north Carolina we had a plan on being a family while i work up in the city.but she met a friend while she was at work for a nursing home.but was reluctant to tell me whether this person was male /female.to make a long story short i fount out the truth threw my daughter telling me that mommy has a boy friend.needless to say i was still in love with my woman,well x now.the question is that i have been keeping up with my child support payment and sending more than enough for her to live.but the only time i hear from her is for gas money for her to either go to school or to work and the bank account that i had for my daughter future is now drained. so in my belief i decided to leave my troubles and pain in the most high hand.I can't even explain my x sometimes but my daughter is suffering from it.

2007-10-15 23:35:00 · 5 answers · asked by take_me1st 1 in Marriage & Divorce

While I'm aware that the alcoholic has to want to change themselves, what can I do in the mean time without pressuring or enableing them? (short of leaving?) I'm at my wits' end!!

2007-10-15 23:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by fredsredhead66 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I havealready asked this question but am adding more detail so you know what is going on.
He got his mate to test me to make sure im not cheating on him.
We argue alot and I dont think I can deal with it.
He lies to me and I belive him but find out from his mates.
He asked me to marry him but I think hes moving abit too fast.
But he tells me he loves me all the time and I still think I love him. But something tells me it wont work again.

2007-10-15 23:16:52 · 11 answers · asked by pussicus911 2 in Singles & Dating

hi! i have a guy who is my boyfriend, most of the time he complains he doesn't have any money on him, even when i go to his house to visit me he still takes some money from me and whenever i tell him i don't have any money on me he becomes angry and believe that i'm lying to him. he has never bought me anything for the past one year that i met him and i always tell my friends that he bought some things for me in other to cover him up. i just want to know if this guy doesn't have the money for real or his fooling me and i love him some much that i did not want to loose him. help me through please!

2007-10-15 23:11:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whilst amongst other people to me "iv tried giving her my no but she aint having it" hes said it twice now,what am i suppose to say 2 that while other people are around!its at work,i just laugh n smile i wana take things further but how??i like him but y cnt he ask me directly without involving others?what shall i do 2 get his number?

2007-10-15 23:09:34 · 5 answers · asked by SARAH 2 in Singles & Dating

do you do it because you love him, or because of your Ego?

2007-10-15 23:03:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I cannot have a partner?

2007-10-15 23:03:47 · 16 answers · asked by BMW M5 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 22:56:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it seem.s a gave a good account ,of myself .is there such a thing ;as love at first sight .

2007-10-15 22:50:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is my best friend. We have gotten very close over the last year. I find my self thinking about her all the time. She is the first thing I think of in the morning, the last thing at night, and all day it is the same. I have romantic dreams about her. The only time I feel content is when I am with her. I feel like I am in heaven when she is in my arms. She is the mst buitful girl I have ever seen, and when we kiss I have chills run up and down my spine. The only prob. is that to her we are just friends, unless we are alone then we are more like g rated lovers. Please help what do I do. I have told her that I have deep feelings for her. In the last few months though she seems to be warming up to me. Am I in Love or Lust?

2007-10-15 22:50:39 · 3 answers · asked by josh s 1 in Singles & Dating

well..i would like to help a friend of mine..she really have a bad breath..to the extent that our classmates are mocking her,backbiting her...and she is not really aware of it..please help me..i really pitty her her...

2007-10-15 22:47:01 · 7 answers · asked by alphapoison_26 3 in Friends

last night at cadets everyone found out that i fancied corpral gel i was really embaressed at the end of the night we all had to stand outside and everyone was there then we got asked if we wanted to say anything no one did then one of the sargents said that someone needed to say something then pointed at me then he came over to me then shouted jack gel will you go out with christina she wants to know he said no what do i do now cuz i think he was just embaressed i see him thursday what do you think i do or should do please help

2007-10-15 22:46:54 · 3 answers · asked by christina h 2 in Singles & Dating

im a single father of a 14 yo girl. For the last week she has been going to her room at 8o'clock and she started screaming the first night so i went to see what was wrong and she was having an orgasm while masturbating. she has done this for a week now how do i approach her about the noise?

2007-10-15 22:43:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are not physical and just enjoying each others company. He also says that he is not happy and his marriage is like a time bomb, the only reason he is there is for his kid and he does not see himself staying in that marriage.
Report It

2007-10-15 22:37:33 · 17 answers · asked by Kathy 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i are split 4 years and going through complex divorce. She is trying to con me out of the house or at least my agreed 35% of it.
I need to cover myself and (without boring you with a myriad of complex facts) need to prove that her new partner is providing for her.
I had no problem with him til he started to intefere with my kids(live with ex)
he has his own house 30miles away but during an argument (about him leaving my kids alone) he rambled on about how he was bringing money into the house and being 'guardian' to my kids etc.
she (the ex) has been scumming off the benefits system since we split (4years) but somehow has a new car, new leather sofas, new washing machine/fridge freezer/dishwasher etc
when wewere together we wernt exactly rich and still had the donated sofas from freinds and family when we married.

we have the decri nisi but the mortgage co. wont take me off it cos she doesnt work. the agreement (mediation) we have is i get 35% charge of the property'

2007-10-15 22:36:53 · 15 answers · asked by Doc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 22:34:56 · 25 answers · asked by MONEY 730 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How does a guy find and hit the G-Spot or doesnt it really matter?

2007-10-15 22:33:31 · 7 answers · asked by Richard-K O 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he's telling me that I am an overacting and so i get mad at him and the conversation ends up...and today he never texted me or email and I cant help my self but to cry...help what should i do?should i wait him to call me first or should i do the move?

2007-10-15 22:29:59 · 8 answers · asked by mir_jan04 1 in Singles & Dating