Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

I love my girlfriend very much and I want buy promise rings for us both... but I have very large fingers and she has very small... And we both have a very small budget... So where do I go?

2007-10-15 17:42:35 · 14 answers · asked by luikseer 1 in Weddings

I've been engaged a couple of times, but they usually ran out after that....
Everyone I know is married - and I'm beginning to think I should just accept that I'll be a spinster.

Is it too late?

2007-10-15 17:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by freshbliss 6 in Singles & Dating

i walked into the stalk room today to get a walkie talkie and this guy jason i like was their and he was walking with me so i showed him my new phone that my mom bought me for my bday and he opened it and looked at the screan. and his said when is your bday and i said next month. and so i got my walkie talkie and was gettign ready to walk out when he wistled at me. wich is odd because he has never done that before. i didnt do anything differnt to myself except i wore a thong under my pants. and i wear tight black pants to work maybe that was it. and so i walked into a office to get candy and i walked back out and i didnt realize that he was behind me and he wistled at me again. why is he doing that?

2007-10-15 17:36:05 · 11 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

I won't get into all the details....but met this guy from online. First meeting was great...second meeting was horrible and he tried some kinky stuff w/ me and then said "I'm not feeling this"....I left blah blah blah....I felt totally disprespected...he said "maybe it's cause I'm sick"...Anyway, I thought by him telling me he was not feeling it he'd leave me be cause he totally freaked me out when he bit me so hard it almost drew blood, spanked me, pulled my hair and degraded me...I felt deceived by him.
Anyway, since this incident he has literally IMd me all week. As soon as I get online he'll within 20 minutes or so say "howdy or whatever"....Friday he even asked what I was doing for the weekend...I basically just ignored him...Saturday he gets online all night to check in w/ me it seems...asking me if I'm drunk and letting me know he was (like wtf?)...Sunday no contact and Today he contacted once to ask me "how my weekend was."
For a guy "not feeling" it, seems pretty weird beh.

2007-10-15 17:34:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today a guy told me on myspace i had big boobs so i was like uhhh ew. then he was like your heavyset thats why i love you so much. yeah im curvy but i'm not like obese or some **** like that. anyone care to explain?

2007-10-15 17:33:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

for some reason I got chucked off as I was about to give my answer so here it is
'No - Love does. Look at an animal protecting its young, ask any mother if they would die for their kids, most wouldn't hesitate in saying yes. Fear is horrid but love can triumph, I know because I been there and I done it!'
hope the asker sees this as so sorry I couldn't give this answer properly.

2007-10-15 17:33:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I've been dating this guy for about a year and a half. We used to go places together all the time, like the mall or the movies. Now, all he does is read Harry Potter and play his guitar. Everytime I ask him to take me to the movies or the mall, he makes up excuses like he needs to practice his guitar or something. I know for a fact he's not cheating on me. But I've been debating on wether I should break up with him or not. Also, I don't want to be one of those annoying girls asking him to constantly take me out all the time. Once a month would be fine with me, but that doesn't happen either. What should I do?

2007-10-15 17:28:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iam feeling so sad and writing to you for some input on my problems…We are married for 7 years…My Husband my nature is serious and talks less(Really nice person, very brainy and stable in his job)Never hurts me in any way intentionally, but here are couple of things that hurts me:

1.I believe him and give him all the money I earn, but he never tells me where he is investing (If I ask he will tell me briefly) 2.Never surprises me with any gifts, even for first b’day and marriage day (If i ask or cry he will buy what ever I want) 3.He talks very less like his father and will only talk to answer my questions. 4.When we go to my in-laws home, he keeps talking will his parents and I feel like he is ignoring me. 5.Never touches me at home or talks romantic. 6.He likes to talk always abt some news or earth or universe, even for our first night( When I complain he talks romantic for some time) 7.He never displays his affection in public. 8.He never explains his parents, how hard we both have to work and take care of baby to earn in US. 9.How should a guy balance b/n wife and parents, so that all are happy?? 10.He rarely laughed and smiled during or after marriage…Until I cried after 10 days. 11.When I tell all these to my parents they say I should be happy that he is not drinking or cheating(should I be satisfied with just these?? In this generation??)

1.Iam sick and tired of constantly asking and asking again and again. 2.I feel like I should have married some one who is more mature for his age… 3.I feel like I deserve more. 4.He did change a lot in 7 years. But iam tired of shouting and pestering him to smile, talk, sit properly ect ect

I look beautiful, work and try to keep my home neat .. Please advise him or me on how to improve and be happy..I would like to show your responses to him and make him understand. Thanks in advance.

2007-10-15 17:28:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My gma hates me & my siblings and treats us sub-par in comparison to our cousins within the family. There is no real reason for this, she is just a hateful, snobby person. The funny thing is, the ones she treats better are inconsiderate and unappreciative.
Nevertheless, she will purposely give us crap gifts, hand-me-downs...that never bothered me too much but now she is spreading the hate to our children, her great grandchildren.
Ex: Buying one child a playstation and then my child a $5 wal-mart toy.
I would hate for my children to feel the pain this woman purposely inflicts on us
What can I do?

2007-10-15 17:15:39 · 9 answers · asked by Offending Party 6 in Family

My husband sent me a IM ment for another woman. It said " I love you so so very MUCH and thank you so much for coming into my life, I love u" When confronted he finally admitted to talking to her but claimed it was just for pics or her and thats it, the words ment nothing. My trust is gone and he is doing anything in his power to convince me other wise...He is out of country. So help me please is it cheating ? This being the 2nd time he's lied about another woman do I stay or should I continue walking away?

2007-10-15 17:15:31 · 15 answers · asked by Katrina E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 50, my partner 47. The culmination of this difficulty was when, after having been brought to orgasm by me with hand stimulation, she was crying (no, not from an orgasmic reaction). She had stated on a couple of occassions before that she prefers penetration and mutual climax and even mutual masturbation..... but does not like it when I concentrate only on her. She has done it to me in this way and seems to find this ok sometimes. This is very frustrating to me because; - I do not always get totally hard anymore - I enjoy doing it to my partner this way anyway and for me it is a loving and just plain giving act that I desire to do for my partner.
Does anyone else feel like this? We have discussed this, including directly after the crying incident, and each time the response is that she just believes that full sex is a sharing act that involves an equality in experience. A short seperation period due to work is about to end and I have to talk to her. So, here I am, looking for help

2007-10-15 17:15:19 · 5 answers · asked by JoNee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiDRXfn_4PFuddlQmXfKls3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071015202802AA78cDC

please my heart is so broken

2007-10-15 17:14:27 · 3 answers · asked by Ria B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I are going to get married one day. And we are wanting to know what will be good and bad for birth control after we wed. Is there a better way. We don't want the hassle of condoms. A Christian perspective would be nice on this question but not required.

2007-10-15 17:11:47 · 6 answers · asked by monsoondell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want you to describe to me your idea of a dissapointing husband.....not mean or abusive ....i don't mean that.....as far as just normal life and everyday things.....what could push you to the point of saying quits? mine says he loves me daily, plays with the kids, goes to work everyday, but he is a lazy a**hole in the purest sense of the word. i am not getting in to all that, i want your opinions, married people especially. thanks

2007-10-15 17:11:10 · 5 answers · asked by nascar_cr8zy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 17:10:57 · 9 answers · asked by biscuit_111 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 17:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by Andy R 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't wait to get out of middle school! All my friends promoted this year and I'm stuck with all these fake, boring friends:/ I'm not in any rush to grow up, I'm just tired of my middle school. I just wish I could fast foward time to April. I have a lot of extra activies: student council, scholarship, cheerleading, drama club, tutoring. How can I make the days go by quicker? Or seem to? I'm usually the loving life and take it as it comes kind of person, but I had no idea 8th grade would be this bad:l

2007-10-15 17:10:02 · 11 answers · asked by j. 1 in Friends

Some one Please help me with this...... it is soooooo stressing me out...
i have two daughters ok. My oldest 16. lives with her daddy (i agreed to this she wannted too) and my 8 year old lives with me..
ok.. She (8 year old) goes to her daddys on weekends.. Well she was melosted by her fathers girlfriends son(13) and before that happend he ejackulated off in front of my other daughter as well...
iam trying to get full custody of my 16 year old.(she still dont want to live with me..) dont want to leave daddy alone...(big deal) but.. her father wouldnt even remove that boy from his home aftere what he did... So iam tryin to get custody of my oldest daughter against her will.. also tryin to prove her dad unfit over all this .. Yes he was home when this took place..Quess what he even watched it happend for a hour before he went in the liveing room and told boy get off my daughter... His excuse was........ the boy had his back faceing him and couldnt really see what he was doing to her..

2007-10-15 17:08:24 · 4 answers · asked by mary c 1 in Family

alyssa campanella..where does live live..or any contact info..

2007-10-15 17:05:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 29 & have a gorgeous, sweet husband. I have a beautiful 2 year old daughter and an amazing house. Why do I have such a negative outlook on life? I worry all the time and I'm so sad and have no patience with anyone. What is wrong with me???

2007-10-15 17:02:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is so rebelious and talks down at me.. I cant stand it! HELP!

2007-10-15 16:59:11 · 11 answers · asked by lostnlove 2 in Family

I love him but I am soffucated by his behaviour. He even locked me up at night, just to be sure that I wont leave the room while he is sleeping.

2007-10-15 16:57:35 · 16 answers · asked by Mtch* 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I work with some people who are very stressed and just basically not very happy I dont think. They are sometimes just mean and impersonal. Dealing with them can be the most impossible nightmare.
Lately, I have been faking being the kindest, sweetest person you have ever met and they are happier around me it seems.
Do you think I am on to something?

2007-10-15 16:57:28 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Friends

My sister is 34, I'm 31. She is a chronic drug user, and shes lost custody of her 2 yr old son. My poor parents now have custody of him, they're in their 60's and i worry about how they're coping with all of this. She abuses them, and child safety dept is NO help at all, telling her that she can have supervised visits with them in charge. My father cries all the time, and is also gets so angry with my mum. Mum is trying to be strong but she gets so tired, too. I have 3 small kids of my own, so any help i can offer them is limited. I have lost my parents, they no longer have time for me or my kids, and if we do get together all we do is discuss HER and her problems. She blames everyone else for her life, she is currently not speaking to me, calls me every name under the sun, basically shes a complete mess. I worry that my dad will have a heart attack and my mother a stroke. Then I'll be left to deal with her. Is there anyone out there in similar circumstances? I feel so sad.

2007-10-15 16:57:23 · 6 answers · asked by bahl 3 in Family

my hubby seams like everything i care about dose not matter to him. in th past 2 years i have gave up so much. can you please tell me what you think? is it just me, or is he being very selfish?
1) i left b/h my family, my friends, most my animals & rescue work that i love to move far far away b/c he wanted to.

2) i gave away my 2 mixed dogs that i save from the streets so he could get 2 bulldogs. ofcourse i'm the one who has to take care of him.

3) i gave up going to an animal refuge on Sundays b/c he was getting mad for having to watch his son 3 days a week(sunday & my class that is 2 days for 2 hrs.

4) i am going to school for business. now he wants to open a fourwheeler shop instead of my dream business.

please tell me your opion on this. i will be 30 next month & i can't help to think the way things are going, my life will never amount to anything. thanks

2007-10-15 16:56:35 · 14 answers · asked by rblankenship_rblankenship 5 in Marriage & Divorce

how young is too young for a womans [[or girls]] bodii to not be able to have sex?...this is for my own info and school work ^__^♥

2007-10-15 16:56:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 16:53:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

How would I go about finding a virtual girlfriend. I don't want to meet anyone, just IM back and forth. Contact me at Carlagoshen@yahoo.com

2007-10-15 16:51:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 16:49:40 · 1 answers · asked by Zelda G 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, Im 26 my aunt is 49 (my moms sister) and im married w/3 kids,my own home, and new car. Im also a stay at home mom. My aunt is divorced w/2 adult children and just lost her home unfortuntly and living in my grandmas home(her mom), well she comes over and "observes" and then gathers her own opinions about my marriage what is usually bad just because im a homebody and i really dont care to hang out in the streets she says ive changed and i must be unhappy w/ my marraige and it is so not true!!. She tells other family members like my unhappy sister and then they call my house saying stuff like "I guess you cant talk on the phone because your husband dosent want you to." I love my family but misery loves company and they have to stay away. They even makes suggestions about me leaving my husband! because they dont like him. What would u do?

2007-10-15 16:49:25 · 16 answers · asked by domojj24 2 in Marriage & Divorce