Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

6yrs.he married but she cheating.marriage of conv. months ago she left. we got closeser.me divorced anyway.4 weeks of suspicion.asked outrite many times.never gave answ.live apart so walked up to his drive.he saw me.she stayed nite.he never said anything.iconfronted him next day.

2007-10-15 22:29:31 · 7 answers · asked by couchp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 22:10:53 · 11 answers · asked by couchp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got flowers today and it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day. Last night he beat me again. And it was much worse than all the other times. If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids? What about money? I'm afraid of him and scared to leave. But I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of my funeral. Last night he finally killed me. He beat me to death. If only I had gathered enough courage and strength to leave him, I would not have gotten flowers today.

2007-10-15 22:10:42 · 10 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 22:08:13 · 16 answers · asked by Kathy 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for about 5 months now, things are going really great, but she feels really self conscious about her body.

I am continuously telling her how great she looks, but its almost like she doesn’t believe me. We have no sex life at the moment because she doesn’t want to do anything more than kissing, which is really starting to annoy me.

This is not about me wanting sex, this is about me wanting to help her feel better about herself. Is it just a matter of me waiting for her to feel less self conscious about herself or is there anything I can do to help? I care about her so much and really want her to be happy with herself.

2007-10-15 22:08:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you heard this poem? If you know someone who should see it, please print it out & give it to them. They might be in denial now, but if you can plant a seed, you might save a life.

I got flowers today. It wasn't my birthday or any other special day. We had our first argument last night. And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said because he sent me flowers today..

I got flowers today. It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day. Last night he threw me into a wall and tried to choke me. It seemed like a nightmare. I couldn't believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore & bruised all over. I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers today.



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2007-10-15 22:05:22 · 4 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Marriage & Divorce

What I mean by a prop is something visibly on you that is somewhat unusual and attracts attentions and gets people to ask questions and thus starts conversations. Its more then just something thats attractive, its something specifically designed to get people remark about it by its unusual nature.

I was considering getting an Ocarina necklace since I its a neat little hand held instrument that I very rarely seen getting played. I'm was just wonder what other people use when they have something on them to start up conversations though.

2007-10-15 21:54:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive never been recognised, admired or noticed. im dirt. i want to love a girl. i want to have a family. im 21. i only listen to power ballads. i drink alot of whisky and i feel like i'm not in this world. i cant talk to people. im a waste. im so drunk right now.

2007-10-15 21:38:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hindu married couple. due to differences , hus wants to divorce his wife and requests for seper via mutal consent, but wife disagrees as she still wants to continue her life with him and so files a petition for resti of constinutional rights in court.In the meantime, amid huge drama ,hus returns all her things to her & takes her sign in a paper as proof of return on things and for consent for mutual seperation. wife also signs , due to pressure at that time. nw wife is in her parents house for past 1.5 yrs. in response for the petition filed by the wife , hus has replied & has stated all false things abt her and has also mentioned abt the ltr signed by wife stating that she was willing to go out of marriage. what is the wife's position now. can she make the court accept that the sign in ltr was got out of force or will she fail. she is of the opinion that is hus is being forced by someone to take this ultimate deci. they dont hve issues.pls advise.

2007-10-15 21:36:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 21:31:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husbands said his feelings are changing becasue of the contant arguing over my kids, his losing his job, and him always at his mothers house. We have only been married 16 months and have been going at it almost every other wekkend since we have been married, and now the arguing is coming more often than not, I do love him, and he says he loves me, but not like he use to. While i"m at work he is at his mothers with his non-working cousin playing PS3 allday instead of being at home. He takes his mom and son to work/school in the mornings, and returns back to her house when he drops them off, and he goes back there when he picks them up after work/school, and on sundays he gets up early and takes them to church, and depending on if his mother has something to do he comes back soon after. I feel that my marriage is over what do you guys think?

2007-10-15 21:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by msblkbtrfly69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just seeking some advice on what to do...

2007-10-15 21:24:17 · 6 answers · asked by alphapoison_26 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 21:22:00 · 22 answers · asked by gunjan 1 in Singles & Dating

The person who don't luv u, & u don't want to be her friend then what to do ???

2007-10-15 21:17:38 · 1 answers · asked by Dharam 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 21:09:29 · 19 answers · asked by pizza 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this girl for almost 2 yrs. Her ex used to beat her and abuse her. She had to go to rehab to overcome her past and I have been through it with her the hole time. The ex recently started talking to her again. She tells me everytime he calls, but wont stop talking to him. Her excuse: they were engaged but they should still be friends.. I dont get it..why?

2007-10-15 21:08:22 · 6 answers · asked by Life is good 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 21:05:15 · 10 answers · asked by murthy d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 21:05:07 · 23 answers · asked by Nice Girl101 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is stable, faithful, and I know he would never leave me. He does not yell or hit me, and he makes a decent wage. I like many other things as well. However, he almost never touches me, holds my hand, or says he loves me. The only times he wants to touch me is for sex.

Also, I have almost never turned him down for sex but I have given up initiating with him because he turns me down flat 90% of the time I have asked "He says he is tired and just fills like relaxing". When I tell him I crave more affection he says that is "just the way he is and that he cannot change" . He was just raised that way. I am so unhappy right now. Should I leave him?

2007-10-15 21:03:15 · 33 answers · asked by gogogirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 21:00:27 · 13 answers · asked by Onin 3 in Singles & Dating

my friends got married on June 2005.She married with the man she really love.We're friends since we're kid.But a weeks ago she found out her husband dark secret.Her husband have a child with other women.She is really out of control now.She even tried to kill her self.She have a baby.only 8 month little boy.Please advise..

2007-10-15 20:49:48 · 8 answers · asked by jr smith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well like im married for 2 almost 3 years and i want to be with her cause we have gone thru alot of things togethere but i left cause az to oregon cause we were having way 2many ?problems but we realized that we want to be together and i dont want to be here in oregon and az what other citys are good and cheep to live

2007-10-15 20:41:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend doent give me much time anymore and i really cant ask her y she is doing this.. coz once i did she got enoyed and said i am busy with my new course so dont bother me much.she seems to be less intersted in me these days. i want to know what should i do so that she is intersted in me again as before and starts giving me time and love as before and main problem is we talk very less and we havent met for the past 2 months.

2007-10-15 20:41:36 · 18 answers · asked by lostworld555 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 20:40:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for over 4 years now. His family really interfere in our relationship all the time. They are the reason we have broken up. We just got back together in November and he said his family would not be an issue anymore. We were determined to make things work and finally have the relationship we wanted. We were even talking about getting married. We had a baby together a month ago and I thought finally things were going good for us. I was wrong. He's a great man, treats me so good, works hard and supports me and the baby. He's also a great father. But the thing is he's hardly around. He's always too busy fixing his family's problems and basically supporting his mom. He hardly spends time with his son and I just can't handle it anymore. I just don't think I can be with him anymore. I mean why be with a guy who is too busy taking care of his family, when they are perfectly capable of caring for themselves, rather than take care of his son?

2007-10-15 20:38:10 · 4 answers · asked by jewelz1021 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do i ? it hurts me when im am taken lightly when all i do is care for them and asks nothing in return

It hurts me that i still have care for my ex`s

It hurts me that i love my family and not appreciated because of it

It hurts me that I care for the womens wellbeing and say no to sex when i know its gonna affect them,it hurts me that they dont understand that i somehow become the jerk

It hurts me that I be fair to all and in return i realise there is no such thing as fairness to me

It hurts me that what i do in a relationship benefits both but all she does is tell me im not enough,and try to change me

It hurts me that people are not as real in their public life where as i am honest in my life only be taken as a weakness and to be used

It hurts me that I love a women for what she is only to be judged by her on how much i make,how i look,and all the things on the outside,

How can i stop caring ? I cant because it hurts, it keep hurting me

2007-10-15 20:32:16 · 12 answers · asked by Hindu-Atheist-Rebel 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you look for in a girl/guy and what qualities do you try to stay away from?

What is the worst/ weirdest date you've been on?

2007-10-15 20:27:16 · 6 answers · asked by pinkisluv17 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's best friend just split up w/ his girlfriend (soon to b married) after she found an email between him & another girl. I really like this friend of my boyfriends & thought that his girlfriend was overreacting to the email cause they were just talking (harmless I thought). However today I read a copy of the email & I would have left his *** too. The other girl that sent the email was talking about having sex w/him, how much she liked it, how she does not care that he is going to b married soon &that she would like to stay his friend w/ benefits & have sex if him anytime he is in town. I could not believe what I was reading. Here is where my question comes in. I was speaking w/ boyfriend about the email & what happened in the relationship & my boyfriend does not c anything wrong w/ what his friend did. He claims they were just emailing each other nothing else. He states that he would never hide something like that from me but does not think his friend did anything wrong. WTF

2007-10-15 20:19:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do they do something that annoys you? have difference of opinion? smell funny? now's the time to unload the hate. lol.

can be anybody. someone you know (don't have to put their name of course). celebrity. general type of person (I hate people who...). whatever you want.

2007-10-15 20:15:18 · 4 answers · asked by cookies 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres a few b!tches (A 19 year old and a 17 year old who are sisters) and their friends, have been picking on me since I started high school, and a bit while we were in the same primary school. i'm 13, and on about 7 different occasions they have chased me, thrown rocks at me, spat on me, and bashed me up- not to mention the names they call me.
i moved schools (not because of them though) and i don't go down the street anymore, ive taken to hanging out in a different suburb so i dont run into them.
i hadnt seen them in months but
today, i was with a friend and they were at mcdonalds, and i walked in and they started yelling and spitting and swearing.
i ignored it, went in and ordered, and they came in behind us, and started making fun of our clothes, one of them tried to put her hang in my bag, but we left, &then we were @the bus stop and they drove past and spat on us and tipped what was either urine or water on us as they went past
Do i report them?is this enough 2 get an AVO?

2007-10-15 20:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends