ive never been recognised, admired or noticed. im dirt. i want to love a girl. i want to have a family. im 21. i only listen to power ballads. i drink alot of whisky and i feel like i'm not in this world. i cant talk to people. im a waste. im so drunk right now.
2007-10-15 21:38:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude it cannot be that bad! You are trying to solve a temporary problem with a permanent solution.
Listen to some Rock and Roll! Quit Drinking it is a huge depressant! Start exercising and enjoy the fine things in life!
21 is too yound to give up!
2007-10-15 21:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Suicide is the most selfish thing a person can do... think of your family...
You say your a waste.... U really will be a waste if you kill yourself,
A waste to the love your family has given you, a waste to your friends and a waste to yourself.
I mean this in the nicest possible way.. GROW THE **** UP!!! You have your whole life ahead of you. Im 20 and have once thought about suicide... i was bloody 15.. I thought i was alone and that it was the only option..
Now im 20 and have a wonderful life... Some times things seem so bad... but remember if your not happy then its not the end.... your life isnt always doing to be peachy and roses but its better than the life some people have i bet.... children that get raped on a daily basis, women who get abused by husbands, Think about how much more you can be... Use this to succeed in life.. Put your anger and frustration into something constructive..
And i have spend a lot of time on this respense so dont go and top yourself and WASTE my time!!! lol:) Im just playing around... Put keep smiling and remeber things wont always be this bad.... much love oxxo
2007-10-16 04:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many people are like that. You still have you're whole life ahead of you. Cut down on the whisky and if you can't talk to people it doesn't matter. It's actually kind of better if you can't talk to people, because then you don't have to worry what other people think of you. Life is precious and no human being has any right to take his or her life, because it's not theirs. Do you have any positive memories? If you do, then remember them and try to make new ones. Talk with you family and be patient. I've been where you are, and you have no idea how close I got in commiting suicide more than once. Remembering how I cared about my sweetheart helped me, and what helped me most was remembering that God would send anyone to Hell who takes his or her own life. Take on the challenges you have and face them like a champion or even a hero. Don't despair in any situation, but don't be ignornat either. If you want to say something negative keep it to yourself. Remember God always looks after you and He listens to everyone, and everyone is precious to Him, since we're all His slaves.
2007-10-16 04:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Green Phantom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your 21 not 71. Just because you don't have a girl and your own family now. Doesn't mean you won't in the future. You should stop drinking. Drinking while feeling down can at times make it worse. Also go out and meet people, because unless your mute and unable to speak. You can to talk to people. Go out for walks or exercise that will help you feel better. If you think you need professional help seek it.
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?fulltext=Search&search=improve+low+self+esteem
2007-10-16 04:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Memory 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Emotions run hard when you drink. It's a tough time being 21 - but there are others out there who are in the same boat, have the same feelings, feel the same loneliness. You'll meet someone - just start looking more, and give it some time. Good things come to those who wait....
Now turn of the music, drink some water, and go to sleep!!
2007-10-16 04:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to carry this misery that your feeling into the next life ? I dont think so.You must get your self rite in this life and become your personal best NO one eles your only young and may have depression I suggest you see your doctor and join a GROW group or a community to help you give up the booze worry about meeting someone later never threaten to take your life for attention remember the boy who cried wolf goodluck god bless you
2007-10-16 04:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Micher B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is *exactly* why I don't drink whisky anymore. Whatever else your problems may be, change your choice in alcoholic beverages to something that doesn't leave a spawn-of-satan hangover, and your life will INSTANTLY improve.
Then... maybe one day soon... your taste in music will start to improve. Sure, there will be days where you "fall off the wagon," and find your radio set to a country station.
But... if you stick with it, eventually you will luck out, and meet a special girl.
2007-10-16 04:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're only 21, you dont have to think about that until you're 50 and still at the same situation.
there is someone for everyone. i thnk you should put the bottle down and think about who you're leaving behind. everyone has a family to go back to, and if not, there are other people just like you who go through the same trauma. infact, there are groups of people who help each other through those times and make friends
never give up hope neither your life, god bless
2007-10-16 04:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by Kay <3 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to bed and have a kip.and when you wake up stay off the booze, go out and get a job, work hard ,and you will soon be noticed by a good boss, and your esteem will rise,and your self confidence, who knows you might even get a girl.
2007-10-16 04:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by mickjack 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everything that you have said in here just clearly tells me that you need improvement.
=] To succeed in life and get a girl, love someone and have a family...you need to be LIVING. Think about the people who CARE for you. A waste? Nobody is a waste. They just haven't found their purpose yet. Please don't kill yourself and give up so easily.
2007-10-16 04:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋