Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

I know that he feels the same way.....but I dont know what may happen. Can you give me advice?

2007-10-15 02:09:12 · 3 answers · asked by Beloved Child 101 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my fiance havent been getting along..all we do is fight lately so Saturday I told him to please leave and he spent the night at my wild brothers house and didnt bother to call...yesterday he called first thing and didnt admit to where he had gone his mom told me and also she told me some legal stuff hes involved in and he hasnt mentioned that to me...if i cant trust him should i allow him to come back or just move on...im not an ugly chick sooo i wont have a problem but i do still love him...should i give him another chance or not???

2007-10-15 02:08:02 · 11 answers · asked by gracey 6 in Marriage & Divorce

well im a blonde and just want to know

2007-10-15 02:04:14 · 20 answers · asked by Sarah K 1 in Singles & Dating

I have worked at my job for 2.5 years. I have been trying to move up or over to another dept. because I am burnt out at what I do and need a change. I had an interview last week. I get real nervous and I break out in red spots all over my face, neck, and chest. (I had a low cut shirt on) When they asked me my weakness, I said "Anxiety because I turn red and it's really embarrasing" As I was saying this, I felt myself getting hotter and I knew I just made it worse. They started laughing and said, "Well at least we won't have any problem reading you" lol

How should I take that? oh and at the end they asked me "Why do you think we should pick you for this job?" and I drew a blank because i was so nervous. I don't even remember seeing them. It's like I was so nervous I went blind (not really).......I think I said something like " OH gosh, you asked me a crazy question" or " I don't know"

2007-10-15 02:01:57 · 9 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my husband has this "friend" who I've never met. Before my husband and I got married he called this guy and asked him to come over so he could meet me. But this "friend" never returned the phone call. This was a long time ago. Now all of a sudden my husband accidentially forwarded an email to him, and all of a sudden this guy calls thinking nothing ever happened, with no explanation of anything and said they are going to get together to "hash things out"... what is there to hash out besides the fact he disrespected me and my husband and hasn't said a word in all this time? I'm mad as hell because my husband sucked right into it without even asking why he never called or never sent an email or nothing... I feel like my husband is getting used and that this person is not a true friend, but my husband doesn't want to think that. It was specifically said that "the wife" is NOT allowed to be around. Not a good way to make someone want to meet him in my book. What would u do or say now?

2007-10-15 02:01:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I started dating just over a year ago. He was still married at the time but very unhappy and his ex was cheating on him. They have a 16 year old daughter. she's been getting in trouble (using drugs and stealing things). Saturday her mother dropped her off at our apartment and told my bf that she found cocaine in their daughter's bag. And she was grounded for 3 weeks for stealing. He told me, but didn't say anything about it to his daughter. Yesterday morning she left, just took off. We went out looking for her but couldn't find her. My bf called his ex just to let her know. But about 2 hours later his ex called and yelled into the phone "you and Melissa need to come downstairs NOW" so we did. i get downstairs and she starts screaming at me. Saying that her daughter called her crying because I told her that her mom found cocaine in her bag and she was going to be in more trouble. I just walked away from her because that's the 3rd or 4th time she's done that to me.

2007-10-15 01:55:26 · 23 answers · asked by Melissa V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 01:53:33 · 9 answers · asked by socmum16 ♪ 5 in Singles & Dating

i went out with a guy ive been friends with for the past year..it was our first date..and well when we started kissing..he was kissing me really hard and passionately..and his hands was all over the place but he never touched my boobs or went down my pants or anything..i need to know if this is a bad sign that he is just after sex or if it just means he was caught up in the moment?
he calls me every night and we talk a lot and have good conversation..if that makes a difference..i just didnt expect him to kiss me like that on our first kiss

2007-10-15 01:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are only a few things that Men wish Women would Understand

Try and understand this.
If we do not look at other women, how can we know how pretty you are ?
Or how can we know what looking pretty really means.

Sometimes, we are NOT thinking about you.
Live with it.

If you think you are fat,
You probably are. Do not ask us. We refuse to answer.

No, we do not know what day it is. We will never know.
Mark Anniversaries, Birthdays, etc... on calendars.

Our relationship is never going to be like it was
The first two months after we married.

Crying is blackmailing.

If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing,"
We will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are
lying, but it is OK with Us.

Anything we said - 6 or 8 months ago, is inadmissible in an argument.
All comments become NULL & VOID after 7 days.

When we have to go somewhere,
Absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.
It rarely makes any difference in you.

2007-10-15 01:51:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 01:48:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i really love him
really plz tell

2007-10-15 01:48:22 · 18 answers · asked by siri 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think about this? Do you think there are senior citizens who have affairs with other senior citizens? LOL. Forbidden handicap sticker looove baby.

2007-10-15 01:43:32 · 21 answers · asked by im_always_drunk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

to live a life WHERE EVERYTHING REVOLVES AROUND YOU.

2007-10-15 01:42:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my guy for 10 yrs, we have an active baby who i stay at home with all day.When he gets home i do the dinners then settle little one to bed.He then plays his xbox until 11pm & then we go bed.I feel shattered & just want to read, he is randy & wants sex.He says"Can i boink you?" & "wow your so stacked"(he's 38 not 17) & things like that, can't say it moves me to want to leap on him lol.Then when he realises im not in the mood he wants me to just sort him out & it is a bit cringy.Im not prudish, i enjoy sex, especially outdoors which he's not keen on, i just like passion & he lacks that completely.I know it takes 2 & im probably as much to blame but i want my body to be ravaged in pure , hot ,steamy passion fuelled sex.Not a "boinking" session.
Am looking forward to your replies lol

2007-10-15 01:39:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a full time job and i want too move out of home. my Parents have given me concent as they know i would be alot happier. I am able to support myself. But if my mum and dad help me out in renting is it legal to do this even though im not 18 till april 08

2007-10-15 01:38:18 · 7 answers · asked by *k a m * 1 in Family

2007-10-15 01:33:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my fiancee have been togther for 4 years now we got engaged quite quick after about a year

we have been planing on getting married every year for the last 3 years and keep having to change it for someone in my family

now we ve decided on a date 4th oct 2009
my brother would have finished school so would have been the best time as we want to get married in florida

but at my sisters 21st birthday i was talking to my parents and my step dad said that was not a good date as my bro would have started collage an my sis would have started teaching and he may be working abroad

so i dont know what to do i am fed up of pleasing everyone ive done that all my life so now i want to get married weather they are there or not

if they did nt come i would be really upset
do you think i would be silly if i cut all ties with them and basically did nt talk to them again start married life as my own family and wait for them to apoagise to me ?

2007-10-15 01:32:47 · 30 answers · asked by kris_ingram45 1 in Weddings

if this is the case....is it ok to get with her baby sister who is so much better looking ? while she sleeps? btw..she is over 18
is it ever a good idea to date more than 1 familiy member???

2007-10-15 01:31:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think he maybe an avid TURDBURGLER!

2007-10-15 01:30:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 01:27:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whenever i want my son to do something he will never do it. he never listens to a word i say. i have no control over him and it really peeves me off. even wen hes going to bed he awlays gets out and make a mess of his room but wen his dad does it he goes straighto to sleep, and i have tryed being more aggressive with My son and everythign he just wont listen. please help

2007-10-15 01:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by Charse** 1 in Family

My stepdad ended up getting drunk and doing some stupid things. Do you now see why I was trying to get him out of my life. He even stole my mom's car, fortunatley we got it back. Next time you answer a question take the time to think about what a person's situation might be before you open your mouth to be cocky.

2007-10-15 01:23:27 · 16 answers · asked by AAA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is a guy that likes 1 of my girls friends and my friend just broke up with her boyfriend because he saw her kissing some 1 else well should I tell my girl friend that I like my boy friend so they won't go out.

2007-10-15 01:17:56 · 4 answers · asked by Giovy 1 in Friends

Across the net on a MMMORPG i have a friend who lives in bhutan. She is married to 2 husbands and they both live in the house as her. She has 1 child to one of them(can't remmber which) and when i chatted to the child(he is learning english in school) he seems okay with it and he calls both his "fathers" dad.In bhutan polygamy/yandery is very rare but socially accepted and legal.I havent talked to the husbands but i have seen pictures of them(the game gives everyone a webpage with account)

I dont mind polyandery/gomy but what are your opinions? and why?

2007-10-15 01:07:19 · 18 answers · asked by possessed by insanity 3 in Marriage & Divorce

in my past relationship,i made a fool of myself...that person who id known for such a long time,was just using me.he was really in love with the girl he was cheating on me with,and id know his family practically forever and one of his sisters were my closest friends (we'd call each other sisters) but they all new he was cheating on me and one even new the other girl and double dated with them...sadly that was the one that i had the closest connection too....its been almost a yr now and i feel way better...but sometimes i still feel angry..more at my ex's sister than anyone really,and also at myself for acting so stupid and desperate..i wish i could forgive myself..but i dont think i ever will

2007-10-15 01:05:59 · 12 answers · asked by love 3 in Singles & Dating

virginity is important to my fiance and something happened to me and my X boy friend last month. i really wanted to let my vagina close for my fiance. actually i did not know he will propose to me, i was so surprised. how can i let it close easier and faster so that my fiance will not be frustrated. if he will come to know that i am already disvirgin, i know he will feel so sad. please help me... i love my fiance so much. do you have any way to let it close so that i will get hurt again on our first night?

2007-10-15 00:51:53 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Let's say somebody (a close one, friend or bf/gf) trashes you, bashes you behind your back, plays you, puts you down, and then ditches you for somebody else, what is the perfect revenge? Is it to not overreact and not stoop to their level? Is it too ignore them, and live a better life? Or is it to pull the rug from under them and make them suffer a loss?

2007-10-15 00:47:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my history of employment contibution?

2007-10-15 00:24:33 · 3 answers · asked by glaiza 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

mean in a relationship if you choose to wait for marriage to have sex what can you do to stick to that choice, Does it mean that you are not going to kiss and touch? Does it mean no more cuddling? what can be done exactly just to wait, because sometimes it is so hard that you feel like doing it , but then you have made a choice,
Please dont just read, Answer,

What can be done to stick to the choice of not having sex before marriage?
When you are together what can you do with him/her that wont make you think about it?

2007-10-15 00:23:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why did you do it? I wanna know why. Did you do it for fun?? Did you ever use the word "retarded" as a insult? Don't you even have feelings or are you just heartless??Real serious question. Definitely no joke.

2007-10-15 00:21:57 · 8 answers · asked by noreagared 1 in Singles & Dating