Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

i've been with my g/f for 4 years, long time i know today she broke up with me for personal reasons, i love her to death. there really isnt a question that im asking because i know that we wont get back together ever again. if you ever been inlove you know that it hurts so much knowing that someone you love wants nothing to do with you, it feels like your empty inside. :-( so help me have a somewhat better day or atleast bring a smile to my face by leaving a nice message for me. thanx

2007-10-15 06:08:11 · 12 answers · asked by Ollie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 06:05:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 06:05:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend lives with her boyfriend and her mom. She does drugs. I am afiaid she is going to get hurt. Should i be worried

2007-10-15 06:05:14 · 8 answers · asked by He loves me he loves me not..... 2 in Friends

anyway and if he did not like it. I would just say there is the door go through it. It is my body and I will choose what I do with it you have no say in the matter, it would make no difference if I was married or not. No one tells me what to do

2007-10-15 06:05:10 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met a guy a while ago and i thought that he was playing me b/c he had a girlfriend at the time and he flirted with me a lot. he also asked me a lot of questions that made it seem like he wanted to know me better...we'd also talk for hours at a time. he made it seem like he was not so into his girlfriend. anyway, a few months after i met him, we had gotten pretty chummy and i still hadn't given anything to him but smiles and a few light touches. i never really flirted back with him. then his dog died and he was so distraught he cried in my arms and he was soo open with me about his feelings. he went to stay with his parents for a while and when he came back, he was really happy to see me and was once again really vulnerable to me. however, nothing changed...he went back to being with his gf and still flirts with me every so often. was he playing me or did he have real feelings and just happened to have a gf at the time?

2007-10-15 06:03:34 · 12 answers · asked by moosekid 2 in Singles & Dating

if you leave soemone three times and say you don't like them but you really do but that is wat you tell them but you decide you really want that person but he has found someone else but still likes you is that wrong to try and talk to them again and tell them you like them when they are going out with someonelse but he says that he likes you better? is it wrong to talk to them wen he has a girlfreind?

2007-10-15 06:03:21 · 14 answers · asked by gecia k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 06:01:49 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up because he says he doesn't care about me paying him back the money but that the effort wasn't there...

I've realized I have a problem with money...I spend it too easily and have trouble paying it back...

I wish I could turn back time and not borrow all of it, but I can't...I've sincerely apologized for not making the intent to pay him back...

All I have to do now is just wait and see if he accepts it or not...

2007-10-15 06:00:03 · 5 answers · asked by breathe_in2687 1 in Singles & Dating

they guy i dated for 2 yrs left me, a bunch of friends took me out to help me feel better including my best friend who is a guy while i had never thought of him in a way other then a friend but while my realtionship was on the rocks about a week ago it crossed my mind that my best friend would make a really good bf, but it quickly passed i know that my friend has never seen me that way either
but back to the night out i got pretty drunk and passed out on the way home when i woke up i was in his lap (both dressed) and he had his arms around me he was awake and kinda just softly rubbing my back. well what does that mean? when we danced that night we danced a little closer then we used to. was he just trying to comfort me or was he feeling the same thing i was feeling? we spent the whole next day together and everything was normal just like before but he did do some things that were diff like he protected me from his brothers teasing me and stuff. should i say something or wait for him?

2007-10-15 05:58:40 · 16 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

And why?

2007-10-15 05:57:55 · 13 answers · asked by -_-_-MoNicA-_-_- 1 in Singles & Dating

music you like making love to?


or do you prefer no music at all?


thank you

2007-10-15 05:57:10 · 5 answers · asked by Fall Back 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 05:55:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

here is the thing, My mom is a cellphone freak...she spends almost all day sending msgs to people who gets into fights with her, and she gets herself and us in trouble becos she says things which shouldn't be said, and she can hurt alot with these text msgs..besides, we sit beside her while she is texting doing whtever we do, she is like in another world, absentminded and boring...I tried to tell her 100 times, my dad too, I shouted and neglected her, did the same but nth works with her, she won't quit what so ever, i am afraid it has become an obsession or a disgusting hobby!! Please this is driving me nuts,,, and i am starting to get really pissed off at it :((

2007-10-15 05:53:40 · 8 answers · asked by Farah K 2 in Family

I have 5 sis-in-laws and 1 brother-in-law.. I dont talk to my bro-in-law because of crap he's done to me..(long story, but very good reason why i dont) So anyways, my husband and i have had problems last year and it caused us to separate, all though it wasnt a good reason but we still did. During the time we did which was 2 to 3months almost, he meet a friend (girlfriend) he had a relationship with this girl for about 2 months until she had to go back home, shes from CAL. and we live in TX. So anyways, it took at least 6 months longer for me to actually take him back..When we got back together it was very hard for me. To me it didnt seem like his family liked that very much (us working things out)..Things were very weird between us, i didnt talk much to them because they accteped this girl like he wasnt even married..so after a months i deceided to change my ways with them and actually try to talk to them. So i come to find out that one of the sisters is still talking to her..

2007-10-15 05:52:18 · 6 answers · asked by love 2 in Family

Me and my husband have been married for 2 years now and I have a 4 year old who is not his. We have no children together. I would just like some advice about the step-parents role in raising a child. We started out fine and now that my sons real dad has stopped paying the child support my husband says that it is not his job to help me pay for daycare and the bills around the house. My son had a 5 month old puppy and the puppy got into our bedroom and chewed up come computer wires and my husband took the dog and dumped him on the side of the road and it took me and my son 2 hours driving around to find him.

Can some one help me understand the role of a step-parent. My sons real father also has 3 other children who are older than my son and I have helped raise his brothers when me and his father was together. I paid of stuff for them and got them toys and took them to the doctor when they needed to go. But I do not understand why my husband feels the way he does.

2007-10-15 05:52:15 · 8 answers · asked by Kathy Y 1 in Family

This is a question that my wife and I have discussed, and we have often expressed, that if one of us died, we would want the other to re-marry and be happy.

Just curious how you all feel.

2007-10-15 05:52:11 · 20 answers · asked by Bryan M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

She says she'll go to make me happy, to be more "attractive in my eyes." However, I don't want that. I want her to go because it's important to her. I don't want to force anything on her, or make her feel bad.

I just wish she had some degree of vanity! What should I do?

2007-10-15 05:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, so I've got this guy friend that wants to take me shopping. He says I need 'sluttier' clothes. I've only said, "Whatever you say," and never totally agreed, but he went on and on about what I would need to get. He even went as far a saying I had to get some thongs. And he guessed my bra sized (he was only off a little), and by God, I told him my actual size. And he told me what color bras we would have to get. (I'm sure you can tell from that little information that we have a pretty good relationship) And he kept going on about how pretty I was and how I had to use it. And that I have boobs now.

And then as it got later (10:30 last night) he asked if I could date anyone who would it be. I was drawing blank after blank, so I finally said him. Not sure if it registered, but I said it.

So, anyway, my question: That conversation wasn't normal, was it? Any ideas on what could be brewing? Any ideas on anything?

I'm clueless about guys, so any help would be great!

2007-10-15 05:49:48 · 8 answers · asked by Hockey Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

Everything will be the same except we will be divorced. We have children and do own a home together. Does anyone know what the laws are in Illinois and would it effect our property if we sell later. I know this sound extremely dumb but it's something I've wanted for many years. I never wanted to get married but only went through with it to please both parents. I would rather be his common law wife or domestic partner then be "legally married".
any suggestions on how to go about this with out it being so expensive and overly complicated?

2007-10-15 05:47:55 · 13 answers · asked by peonies 2 in Marriage & Divorce

whenever we go we have to deal with people?and they are not giving that kind of things?and sometimes you are so provoked that you want to fight to ask them to stop..what do they actualy want? is like you cant do this or do that or else people will talk against you.what can we do?but is not good to either to keep our feelings to...so how?

2007-10-15 05:47:23 · 4 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people say or do things and then turn around and say I am sorry or I apoligize. They way I see it is it still doesen't change the fact that you said or did it. You said or did what you did because that's how you were feeling or that's what you wanted to do. So why be sorry about how you feel and what you said or did, the damage has already been done and can't be undone. The person you said or did it to will always remember what you did before you said I am sorry or I apoligize. If you didn't think it you never would had said it or did it so you must of meant it.

2007-10-15 05:46:12 · 23 answers · asked by honestspeaking 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad told my mom he wants a divorce. the same night me and my girl had planns but i cancelled to go be with my mom. my girl got mad did i do anything wrong or is she being selfish

2007-10-15 05:45:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, I know the commen trend for girls these days is to shave or wax all of their pubic hair off.

Personally, I thought it was better the other way. It kind of makes it look like a prepubecent girl and that is a little strange to me.

Are my opinions different from most guys? What do you think?

2007-10-15 05:44:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 2-1/2 years and my wife has a son who is 14. Every time we go out in public he gets in the middle of my wife and I. If I am standing or walking next to my wife he just walks right between us. If we are at the store and I am trying to dscuss something with my wife he gets right in the middle. If I ask him to move he refuses and gets nasty. If I complain to my wife she never gets involved or tells me to grow up. I am very hot tempered and I don't always handle it correctly. Any suggestions on how I can handle the situation better before and after. I know this sounds like a little problem but it really hurts my feelings when he constantly gets in the middle.

2007-10-15 05:41:26 · 25 answers · asked by Bill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 05:38:28 · 6 answers · asked by crybabygomez 1 in Family

Should her man pay? my sister bought her and her spouse wedding rings at a pawn shop cause he did not have the money to get the new ones out of layaway. She eloped did not invite any family the family looked forward to a wedding she said they will have one next year. They didn't evren have a honeymoon. I was happy for herr getting married. But do you think she should have bought the rings with her own money? I looked at it like what if the ring was stolen and pawn and you are wearing a stolen ring? That just don't seem right. She's not speaking to me cause I mentioned it to her mom. She thinks I am not happy for her getting married. I hope she doesn't have to always pay for everything but marriage is based on for better for worse richer or poorer.

2007-10-15 05:37:42 · 12 answers · asked by bbmodels2003 1 in Weddings

2007-10-15 05:36:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I see this happen all the time during fall and winter months. On top of this, they wear flip flops.

Is is it a fashion trend or need to look sexy?

Need rational answers

2007-10-15 05:36:38 · 18 answers · asked by shakky_wakky 2 in Family

i work 3 jobs - work from home full time - babysit 3 days a week for afterschool kids - also work friday, saturday & some sundays at a furniture store - keep a spotless house, dinner's made almost nightly, etc.....my husband has the nerve to ***** about me buying a new book or buying my daughter a red bull drink. While he hasn't changed anything about what he does daily, he still buys his $5 cigs and sodas, eats out nearly every day, buys rc cars that sit on a shelf, has a harley that sits in the garage but has a payment for. I can get him to see that everyone is giving up and sacrificing, except for him. this has gone on for a long time but it's getting worse - any suggestions on how to handle this situation and get him to see that he's being unfair and selfish?

2007-10-15 05:36:16 · 19 answers · asked by fosmom 3 in Marriage & Divorce